Lundgren
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Living in a provincial german city I never had the opportunity to go to one of the Kpop events.
On Saturday I went there alone just out of curiosity. And honestly was probably the best clubbing experience I had since moving to Germany.
For one there was no usual passive aggressive, gatekeeping vibe from men. With AFs and WMs being the minority there it felt like everyone was extremely open to dance and have fun. Also probably only kind of clubbing event where I have seen women being the majority, possibly 70% of the attendants.
So long story short I got somewhat wasted started chatting with guys and dancing. Asked a blonde ukrainian girl to dance and before you know we were making out. She also bought a shot and a beer for me. With lack of private space I took her to the men's room stall and needless to say rest is history. After a while her friends had to leave so she went with them.
Then later on I managed to rizz another girl kissed a bit and exchanged instas before she also left.
Shortly before closing time I asked another girl out to dance, we were dancing a bit until her girlfriend also started dancing with us. Before you know her girlfriend took both of my arms and pulled me to herself. I got the memo and we started making out. Later after the party ended all of us including her and her friends went to train station and from there and separated on the road to our cities.
Not gonna lie probably how an average white guy feels like amongst AFs.
Now compared to other clubbing experiences I had it probably helped the fact that I felt geniunly welcome there. With most guys also being Asian I also felt reconnected with my geniune confident and carefree self.
From now on I think I'll only go to Kpop events.
@Thief @SecularIslamist @Chadeep @Nectar @joao23
On Saturday I went there alone just out of curiosity. And honestly was probably the best clubbing experience I had since moving to Germany.
For one there was no usual passive aggressive, gatekeeping vibe from men. With AFs and WMs being the minority there it felt like everyone was extremely open to dance and have fun. Also probably only kind of clubbing event where I have seen women being the majority, possibly 70% of the attendants.
So long story short I got somewhat wasted started chatting with guys and dancing. Asked a blonde ukrainian girl to dance and before you know we were making out. She also bought a shot and a beer for me. With lack of private space I took her to the men's room stall and needless to say rest is history. After a while her friends had to leave so she went with them.
Then later on I managed to rizz another girl kissed a bit and exchanged instas before she also left.
Shortly before closing time I asked another girl out to dance, we were dancing a bit until her girlfriend also started dancing with us. Before you know her girlfriend took both of my arms and pulled me to herself. I got the memo and we started making out. Later after the party ended all of us including her and her friends went to train station and from there and separated on the road to our cities.
Not gonna lie probably how an average white guy feels like amongst AFs.
Now compared to other clubbing experiences I had it probably helped the fact that I felt geniunly welcome there. With most guys also being Asian I also felt reconnected with my geniune confident and carefree self.
From now on I think I'll only go to Kpop events.
@Thief @SecularIslamist @Chadeep @Nectar @joao23
