What are some tips on how to act around people?

[Vermilioncore]

I feel uncomfortable and scared around social situations to the point where my voice is trembling and I have to escape to the bathroom and talk to God and laugh in the mirror maybe cry.

How can I stop this? I feel like in a social setting my face is contorted and looks like this:

And everyone can sense my unease and that makes them uneasy as well. Then I don’t say much or if I do say something, it’s just for the sake of it so people wouldn’t think I’m a mute who doesn’t know how to speak.

the only thing I can do is drink which is why that’s my go to substance. It dissolves the original face and becomes a mask. Goosebumps typesbutinnit

 

[Deleted member 32410]

Reaaaaalllllllll

 

[Vermilioncore]

Reaaaaalllllllll

Give me some advice cuck

 

[Deleted member 51465]

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[Vermilioncore]

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[fuxkdakikez]

this is me. best advice I can give is to avoid social situations if you feel out of place

 

[Deleted member 23558]

Phenibut

 

[Deleted member 33624]

Phenibut

 

[Pogin_chan]

Realize that they are nothing but subhumans who gets betabuxxed and won't mind it if you fuck them

 

[Vermilioncore]

this is me. best advice I can give is to avoid social situations if you feel out of place

What if I am forced into the situation what do I do

 

[RichardSpencel]

What if I am forced into the situation what do I do

Phenibut + rope

 

[fuxkdakikez]

What if I am forced into the situation what do I do

over ngl. look down at the floor and avoid eye contact so then they don’t render in

 

[vrilmaxxer]

Learn how to speak and develop normie interests so you can talk to people. Try to speak to yourself in the mirror, it helps.

 

[Vermilioncore]

over ngl. look down at the floor and avoid eye contact so then they don’t render in

Then they make a joke like “hey Vern what you looking at” or “haha verm is just minding his own business” they rope me into the conversation and I just laugh nervously and feel nauseous like shitting my pants. It’s a horrible situation to be in

 

[Vermilioncore]

Learn how to speak and develop normie interests so you can talk to people. Try to speak to yourself in the mirror, it helps.

But what if it’s family or someone who already knows me? Then they’ll be weirded out like “damn when did you start talking and acting this way” it’s too late because I already established myself as “me” in their eyes and they already know how I act

 

[Deleted member 22124]

Dnrd but it's really simple, you just need to smile more.

 

[Vermilioncore]

Dnrd but it's really simple, you just need to smile more.

no because I end up looking like this

 

[Deleted member 20399]

I feel uncomfortable and scared around social situations to the point where my voice is trembling and I have to escape to the bathroom and talk to God and laugh in the mirror maybe cry.

How can I stop this? I feel like in a social setting my face is contorted and looks like this:

And everyone can sense my unease and that makes them uneasy as well. Then I don’t say much or if I do say something, it’s just for the sake of it so people wouldn’t think I’m a mute who doesn’t know how to speak.

the only thing I can do is drink which is why that’s my go to substance. It dissolves the original face and becomes a mask. Goosebumps typesbutinnit

Alcohol don’t even make me confident anymore

 

[Vermilioncore]

Alcohol don’t even make me confident anymore

Me too because I know in their eyes they see me the same. The only way to fix it is if I get them drunk too so we are both living in contortion

 

[vrilmaxxer]

But what if it’s family or someone who already knows me? Then they’ll be weirded out like “damn when did you start talking and acting this way” it’s too late because I already established myself as “me” in their eyes and they already know how I act

I think your a creating imaginary scenarios in your head brah, take a chill pill

 

[Deleted member 20399]

Me too because I know in their eyes they see me the same. The only way to fix it is if I get them drunk too so we are both living in contortion

I like getting drunk alone at bars and pretending I’m don draper

I even started drinking whiskey to become more like him. Only problem is no women ever approach me. Why do u think that is?

 

[Deleted member 34058]

Water, but:

It means that you either unfixable non NT or you have really bad social skills. If second then u need to looksmax and put your scared ass to stressful situations like asking something or chit chatting, you need to get used to this stress and eventually you will become very calm. I was just like you 1-2 years ago and now when i interacted with a lot of people due to my work, I'm completely stoic and have no problems with social interactions.

 

[Vermilioncore]

I like getting drunk alone at bars and pretending I’m don draper
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I even started drinking whiskey to become more like him. Only problem is no women ever approach me. Why do u think that is?

because you’re an ugly fat guy and not a tall charismatic ripped business man

 

[BTS Junglegook]

Your voice probably gets higher pitched when youre nervous or in a situation where you get mogged which makes you even more nervous and it creates an infinite loop. If you just go in there talk to them in a chill low voice everything just flows

 

[Vermilioncore]

Your voice probably gets higher pitched when youre nervous or in a situation where you get mogged which makes you even more nervous and it creates an infinite loop. If you just go in there talk to them in a chill low voice everything just flows

I noticed that if I’m in a social situation where everyone is serious or don’t know each other too well, I can talk and talk and be normal. But if they all know each other and are joking and being silly then I don’t know what to do because I’ve never been the type of guy to laugh or tell jokes or smile

 

[nissan]

I feel uncomfortable and scared around social situations to the point where my voice is trembling and I have to escape to the bathroom and talk to God and laugh in the mirror maybe cry.

How can I stop this? I feel like in a social setting my face is contorted and looks like this:

And everyone can sense my unease and that makes them uneasy as well. Then I don’t say much or if I do say something, it’s just for the sake of it so people wouldn’t think I’m a mute who doesn’t know how to speak.

the only thing I can do is drink which is why that’s my go to substance. It dissolves the original face and becomes a mask. Goosebumps typesbutinnit

just fuckin raise the mood brah don't not be there, if they find you annoying so what fuck them means they clearly don't like you anyways either way as long as ur having fun it don't matter

 

[Skywalker]

I feel uncomfortable and scared around social situations to the point where my voice is trembling and I have to escape to the bathroom and talk to God and laugh in the mirror maybe cry.

How can I stop this? I feel like in a social setting my face is contorted and looks like this:

And everyone can sense my unease and that makes them uneasy as well. Then I don’t say much or if I do say something, it’s just for the sake of it so people wouldn’t think I’m a mute who doesn’t know how to speak.

the only thing I can do is drink which is why that’s my go to substance. It dissolves the original face and becomes a mask. Goosebumps typesbutinnit

i feel so sorry for you bro if you have this much social anxiety and this is actually real....now im sad, cause you're a bro
the suffering of the members here makes me incredibly sad bro, for real