What behaviors to mimic to be more NT

[brodenwides]

Most guides I've seen talk more about social life and go to the gym and shit

I'm wondering if there are more specific behaviors and micro expressions someone could try to practice to me less ND and which micro expressions to supress

 

[imontheloose]

no. u arent going to study your way out of ur neurodivergency. this is a chemical problem and cannot be fixed.

 

[BeanCelll]

Real life isn't an anime

 

[Deleted member 86562]

go on r/autism and search masking

 

[brodenwides]

go on r/autism and search masking

I will try that

 

[shiezen]

Most guides I've seen talk more about social life and go to the gym and shit

I'm wondering if there are more specific behaviors and micro expressions someone could try to practice to me less ND and which micro expressions to supress

public shitting on people's property

 

[brodenwides]

no. u arent going to study your way out of ur neurodivergency. this is a chemical problem and cannot be fixed.

There has to be someway to atleast make it less noticeable

 

[imontheloose]

There has to be someway to atleast make it less noticeable

alcohol and cocaine.

 

[brodenwides]

alcohol and cocaine.

Okay will do

 

[Maxillular]

You cannot fix ND. it is permanent. Constantly drink alcohol to make it less noticeable. Or rope

 

[jester patell]

Eye contact 70-30 has helped me so much and I can always tell by people’s eye contact

 

[brodenwides]

You cannot fix ND. it is permanent. Constantly drink alcohol to make it less noticeable. Or rope

Obviously I know I won't be 100 percent normal but id atleast like to get as close to normal as I can

 

[brodenwides]

Eye contact 70-30 has helped me so much and I can always tell by people’s eye contact

Whats 70-30?

 

[Maxillular]

Obviously I know I won't be 100 percent normal but id atleast like to get as close to normal as I can

Yeah hardmax so ppl dont reject you from your appearance immediately

and drink alcohol whenever you know theres gonna be a social situation

 

[jester patell]

Whats 70-30?

70% looking in the person your talking to 30% looking around like say at something else or someone else

 

[jester patell]

Yeah hardmax so ppl dont reject you from your appearance immediately

and drink alcohol whenever you know theres gonna be a social situation

Don’t listen to this guy worst advice possible

 

[brodenwides]

70% looking in the person your talking to 30% looking around like say at something else or someone else

Okay thanks for actually helping

 

[brodenwides]

Don’t listen to this guy worst advice possible

Okay

 

[jester patell]

Okay thanks for actually helping

Like the next time you talk to someone “weird” pay attention to how much their looking at your eyes thsts normally a bit giveaway if someone’s “nd”

 

[brodenwides]

Like the next time you talk to someone “weird” pay attention to how much their looking at your eyes thsts normally a bit giveaway if someone’s “nd”

Sometimes I get caught in moments where me in the person are in close proximity and looking into eachothers eyes for over 3 seconds in that situation would I keep looking in there eyes or would it be okay to break cause I don't just wanna stare through there soul yaknow?

 

[jester patell]

Sometimes I get caught in moments where me in the person are in close proximity and looking into eachothers eyes for over 3 seconds in that situation would I keep looking in there eyes or would it be okay to break cause I don't just wanna stare through there soul yaknow?

I mean it does depend like say if it’s your partner or whatever then you can just stare at them but if it’s your friend or a random person normally staring into someone’s eyes that close is intimate and they might think your trying to do something and then I’d look away I can’t really explain this well sorry

 

[Deleted member 332656]

Everyone in this thread is trying to throw you off or just clueless. NT in the modern era means thugmaxxing. You must thugmaxxx to be NT as a man today. It is very easy to cure “non NT” as well. Just listen to rap music for a week and change your fashion to streetwear. Your tendencies and behavior will adapt and improve over time if you continue. That’s it and do not let any shut in loser gaslight you.

Spoiler: The Crew

@registerfasterusing @Mogs Me @Latinolooksmaxxer

 

[brodenwides]

I mean it does depend like say if it’s your partner or whatever then you can just stare at them but if it’s your friend or a random person normally staring into someone’s eyes that close is intimate and they might think your trying to do something and then I’d look away I can’t really explain this well sorry

No worries the 70-30 rule you spoke of seems like a good start and being more aware of my gaze overall may help

 

[brodenwides]

Everyone in this thread is trying to throw you off or just clueless. NT in the modern era means thugmaxxing. You must thugmaxxx to be NT as a man today. It is very easy to cure “non NT” as well. Just listen to rap music for a week and change your fashion to streetwear. Your tendencies and behavior will adapt and improve over time if you continue. That’s it and do not let any shut in loser gaslight you.

Spoiler: The Crew

@registerfasterusing @Mogs Me@Latinolooksmaxxer

Used to thugmax when I was younger didn't work out people just tried picking fights with me and called me a wanna be black

 

[Deleted member 332656]

Used to thugmax when I was younger didn't work out people just tried picking fights with me and called me a wanna be black

What’s your race? You don’t have to actually fight people. Just look the part.

 

[brodenwides]

What’s your race? You don’t have to actually fight people. Just look the part

I'm white

 

[Deleted member 332656]

I'm white

Yeah sorry but that’s the only race where it doesn’t work and people will call you out. Unless you’re tall. One of the many issues of being white in 2026.

 

[brodenwides]

Yeah sorry but that’s the only race where it doesn’t work and people will call you out. Unless you’re tall. One of the many issues of being white in 2026.

Is there any alternative or nah

 

[Deleted member 332656]

Is there any alternative or nah

Not off the top of my head, sorry to say.

 

[brodenwides]

Not off the top of my head, sorry to say.

Thanks for trying to help

 

[Prøphet]

Used to thugmax when I was younger didn't work out people just tried picking fights with me and called me a wanna be black

Haha same

 

[Prøphet]

Try to mimic whoever is around you in the moment

Generalizing is the opposite of what you need

Btw ntmaxxing requires an honest state of extreme self awareness without going too extreme into either self conscious or ignorant territory, some days you’ll wake up and have it in you and some days you won’t be able to, just accept that and try to work around it

 

[hardyy.]

Most guides I've seen talk more about social life and go to the gym and shit

I'm wondering if there are more specific behaviors and micro expressions someone could try to practice to me less ND and which micro expressions to supress

masking is cope, sorry bro but at some point you gotta accept that if you're not NT it's over

 

[brodenwides]

masking is cope, sorry bro but at some point you gotta accept that if you're not NT it's over

So what would you say the looks threshold one would have to hit to counteract the negatives of being NT

 

[oculus]

start hiding that neurodivergent shit by basically blending in with the “cooler” kids wtv right just start from the bottom and make your way up there act normal stay quiet and don’t react so much when a person talking to you unless you want to react all impulsive and shit

 

[brodenwides]

start hiding that neurodivergent shit by basically blending in with the “cooler” kids wtv right just start from the bottom and make your way up there act normal stay quiet and don’t react so much when a person talking to you unless you want to react all impulsive and shit

Thats what I'm trying to do at the moment I've recently befriended some of the most popular people at my school in hopes of getting invited to parties

 

[hardyy.]

So what would you say the looks threshold one would have to hit to counteract the negatives of being NT

to be honest, I don’t think any looks could ever fully counteract being neurodivergent, but obviously people look past it if you’re htn+

 

[witcher78]

Most guides I've seen talk more about social life and go to the gym and shit

I'm wondering if there are more specific behaviors and micro expressions someone could try to practice to me less ND and which micro expressions to supress

you can’t fix it

 

[hardyy.]

to be honest, I don’t think any looks could ever fully counteract being neurodivergent, but obviously people look past it if you’re htn+

not saying you should LDAR just because you’re ND, i’m just saying neurodivergency is always gonna put you at a huge disadvantage in the dating scene

 

[Deleted member 305539]

no. u arent going to study your way out of ur neurodivergency. this is a chemical problem and cannot be fixed.

Are you retarded? Even though he is ND, he can for example go to a nightclub and memorize lyrics to popular songs, nt niggas love that shit

 

[witcher78]

not saying you should LDAR just because you’re ND, i’m just saying neurodivergency is always gonna put you at a huge disadvantage in the dating scene

you can only LDAR, coming from a nd person