What do i do against overthinking

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I often overthink about if my gf is cheating on me even when she reassures me im like way too attached and cant sleep sometimes just because my mind is killing me
 
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Adderall and forget bra
 
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I often overthink about if my gf is cheating on me even when she reassures me im like way too attached and cant sleep sometimes just because my mind is killing me
Get comfortable with the idea of her cheating or leaving you.It's not like you will always be together
 
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LTRcels problems
 
I often overthink about if my gf is cheating on me even when she reassures me im like way too attached and cant sleep sometimes just because my mind is killing me
this is why we avoid foids and we r femboy playboys
 
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I often overthink about if my gf is cheating on me even when she reassures me im like way too attached and cant sleep sometimes just because my mind is killing me
most likely just internal anxiety with zero real evidence behind it. constantly seeking reassurance doesn't fix it, will make the anxiety worse over time because it provides temporary relief but trains your brain to need more of it. and on top of that you're accidentally showing your girlfriend a man who doesn't trust himself. not a good look.

when the thoughts come, recognize them for what they are. anxiety talking, not reality. then ask yourself one simple question, what actual evidence do I have? I am not talking about possibilities or interpretations or feelings. Only facts. most likely you've got nothing concrete and it's just your brain misfiring.

work on your independence too. being that attached means your entire emotional state is tied to one person. Doubt is not the problem because it's human, letting it run your life is the problem.
 
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most likely just internal anxiety with zero real evidence behind it. constantly seeking reassurance doesn't fix it, will make the anxiety worse over time because it provides temporary relief but trains your brain to need more of it. and on top of that you're accidentally showing your girlfriend a man who doesn't trust himself. not a good look.

when the thoughts come, recognize them for what they are. anxiety talking, not reality. then ask yourself one simple question, what actual evidence do I have? I am not talking about possibilities or interpretations or feelings. Only facts. most likely you've got nothing concrete and it's just your brain misfiring.

work on your independence too. being that attached means your entire emotional state is tied to one person. Doubt is not the problem because it's human, letting it run your life is the problem.
Bro thanks for the response it actually means much to me ill try to be better
 
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I often overthink about if my gf is cheating on me even when she reassures me im like way too attached and cant sleep sometimes just because my mind is killing me
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