What do I do if my friends all talk shit about me

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They bully me to girls and other men because I talk about looksmaxxing a lot. I hang out with them hella but whenever we are around girls or in public they bring up me dying my eyebrows, or other looksmaxxing shit in attempts to make fun of me. What would u guys do in this situation?
 
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They bully me to girls and other men because I talk about looksmaxxing a lot. I hang out with them hella but whenever we are around girls or in public they bring up me dying my eyebrows, or other looksmaxxing shit in attempts to make fun of me. What would u guys do in this situation?
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No bro but genuinely what do I do? Whenever we are around girls they always bring up stuff that I did and try their hardest to make me seem weird asf. Keep in mind i look like an average normie and none of them look any better.
 
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No bro but genuinely what do I do? Whenever we are around girls they always bring up stuff that I did and try their hardest to make me seem weird asf. Keep in mind i look like an average normie and none of them look any better.
yeah I had friends who did that to me and it never really worked either

unless they're like a core part of a group or someone you really trust you should slowly distance yourself

ngas js love to hate on there homies for girls
 
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yeah I had friends who did that to me and it never really worked either

unless they're like a core part of a group or someone you really trust you should slowly distance yourself

ngas js love to hate on there homies for girls
Yeah idk bro but ngl they have legit been my friends for life bro, I don’t have anyone else to resort too.

I start college in a year maybe that will turn a new leaf, I’m kinda bad at meeting new people tho as I have social anxiety.
 
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Yeah idk bro but ngl they have legit been my friends for life bro, I don’t have anyone else to resort too.

I start college in a year maybe that will turn a new leaf, I’m kinda bad at meeting new people tho as I have social anxiety.
yeah same bro

just be with the homies you consider closest and slowly move away from the one who you feel like considers you an outlier

making friends is horrible but I think the gym or uni clubs will help you as they keep introducing you to people
 
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yeah same bro

just be with the homies you consider closest and slowly move away from the one who you feel like considers you an outlier

making friends is horrible but I think the gym or uni clubs will help you as they keep introducing you to people
Alright thanks bro this shit is just such a shitty position.
 
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Alright thanks bro this shit is just such a shitty position.
yeah n I'd avoid the lookmaxxing terms in general tbh

wt you do should only be your personal matter,

nobody gotta know wt you do to look better unless they ask
 
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yeah n I'd avoid the lookmaxxing terms in general tbh

wt you do should only be your personal matter,

nobody gotta know wt you do to look better unless they ask
Yeah I think that’s what really really fucked me. I’m a very sociable guy once I get to know people so ngl I was sending all of them looksmaxxing tiktoks and I sent them a vid of me with the eyebrow dye. They have been flaming me since then, and been calling me a pussy. They’ve also started saying I look like a fag and have no female appeal.
 
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Yeah I think that’s what really really fucked me. I’m a very sociable guy once I get to know people so ngl I was sending all of them looksmaxxing tiktoks and sent them a vid of me with the eyebrow dye. They have been flaming me since then, and been calling me a pussy. They’ve also started saying I look like a fag and have no female appeal.
wt do you look like

nah but genuinely do wtver, you gotta fight back with wtver you find, my homeboys make fun of me but it has never been a consistent thing with us and all of us do stop after a while n move on

i been mocked over my height loads but I could always mabye resort to sm else but icl and act like it didn't take a massive toll on my mental health and insecurities

I realise either you js stay quiet or endure it or js say sm back n hope it sticks enough to deviate the insults
 
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wt do you look like

nah but genuinely do wtver, you gotta fight back with wtver you find,

I realise either you js stay quiet or endure it or js say sm back n hope it sticks enough to deviate the insults
I’ll pm you I mean ngl I do have low dimo for someone who turned 17 2 months ago. I also have very late puberty tho
 
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They bully me to girls and other men because I talk about looksmaxxing a lot. I hang out with them hella but whenever we are around girls or in public they bring up me dying my eyebrows, or other looksmaxxing shit in attempts to make fun of me. What would u guys do in this situation?
Make fun of them back, or drop them
 
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You gotta ask them individually outside of group setting to stop and if they don't then just don't fw then fr. Maybe you could crashout on them by that would prob just ruin things
 
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They bully me to girls and other men because I talk about looksmaxxing a lot. I hang out with them hella but whenever we are around girls or in public they bring up me dying my eyebrows, or other looksmaxxing shit in attempts to make fun of me. What would u guys do in this situation?
Similar feeling gl
 
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You gotta ask them individually outside of group setting to stop and if they don't then just don't fw then fr. Maybe you could crashout on them by that would prob just ruin things
If I crashed out on them they would all beat my ass I’m the smallest in the group
 
Leave them. Know your worth. I’ve dealt with this a lot, I just excluded my self. I’m at peace. However, do try to find a better group of people.
 
They bully me to girls and other men because I talk about looksmaxxing a lot. I hang out with them hella but whenever we are around girls or in public they bring up me dying my eyebrows, or other looksmaxxing shit in attempts to make fun of me. What would u guys do in this situation?
You gotta be making trouble for them
 
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slowly wean off them
 
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They bully me to girls and other men because I talk about looksmaxxing a lot. I hang out with them hella but whenever we are around girls or in public they bring up me dying my eyebrows, or other looksmaxxing shit in attempts to make fun of me. What would u guys do in this situation?
Idk dont hang out with them, or when they make fun of u again just blow ur brains out:feelsshh:
 
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You gotta be making trouble for them
Idk I never make fun of them at all. One of my friends is very girl obsessed tho and always tries his hardest to put down me and my one htn friend when we are around girls. The only people in our fg that he puts on are worse looking than him.
 
If I crashed out on them they would all beat my ass I’m the smallest in the group
Lmao if they actually fight and you don't fw it def don't chill with em lol
 
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Lmao if they actually fight and you don't fw it def don't chill with em lol
Well yeah I’ve had subtle fights with some friends over the past year like physical but not anything major.
 
Idk I never make fun of them at all. One of my friends is very girl obsessed tho and always tries his hardest to put down me and my one htn friend when we are around girls. The only people in our fg that he puts on are worse looking than him.
You cannot let people see you're willing to accept that treatment. People will think nothing of you.
 
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Yeah shit sucks bro

Tldr: never tell any normies about looksmaxxing
Idk why you'd ever tell a normie it, a lot of my friends from my home town are autists and approached me with all the looksmaxxing shi because I'm a decent looking guy and I'm known for going to the gym. But the people I met in college are way diff if I said I fw looksmaxxing they'd look at me crazy
 
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Well yeah I’ve had subtle fights with some friends over the past year like physical but not anything major.
I was kinda in a friend group like that and idk after a while it just feels silly like everyone's trying to retsrdedly prove something like ion got the energy for that
 
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Idk why you'd ever tell a normie it, a lot of my friends from my home town are autists and approached me with all the looksmaxxing shi because I'm a decent looking guy and I'm known for going to the gym. But the people I met in college are way diff if I said I fw looksmaxxing they'd look at me crazy
Yeah I tend to over share, and the looksmaxxing shit really fucked me over.
You cannot let people see you're willing to accept that treatment. People will think nothing of you.
Might be time to start the gym, as of right now I can’t do anything to fight back
 
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They bully me to girls and other men because I talk about looksmaxxing a lot. I hang out with them hella but whenever we are around girls or in public they bring up me dying my eyebrows, or other looksmaxxing shit in attempts to make fun of me. What would u guys do in this situation?
happened to me too, just don't talk about looksmaxxing in front of them they will forget in a couple weeks, otherwise just get new friends
 
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I was kinda in a friend group like that and idk after a while it just feels silly like everyone's trying to retsrdedly prove something like ion got the energy for that
Yeah I got no one else tho bro, might have to wait till college. All my friends are kinda seen as weird by everyone else at school. Not like band kinds but just like in the middle of the social hierarchy, we rarely go to parties and shit.
 
Yeah I got no one else tho bro, might have to wait till college. All my friends are kinda seen as weird by everyone else at school. Not like band kinds but just like in the middle of the social hierarchy, we rarely go to parties and shit.
College mogs hs
 
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happened to me too, just don't talk about looksmaxxing in front of them they will forget in a couple weeks, otherwise just get new friends
Alr sounds good, atleast other people relate with this. I’ll avoid any looksmaxxing convo for the next month and see if shit resorts back to how it was before.
 
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Alr sounds good, atleast other people relate with this. I’ll avoid any looksmaxxing convo for the next month and see if shit resorts back to how it was before.
what do u bring up about looksmaxxing to ur friends, i told them about bp which was the worst mistake
 
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what do u bring up about looksmaxxing to ur friends, i told them about bp which was the worst mistake
Well it all started off when I first discovered clav via cookie king last may. They saw me watching clavs videos, didn’t know who he was at first until he blew up around November. As his videos got more mainstream I started sending them to my gc, and other looksmaxxing videos too. It was chill at first but slowly they got more annoyed, and 3 months ago I sent them a cutecel is law video with Leo DiCaprio and shit, which resulted in them calling me gay. The bullying hasn’t stopped since then.
 
Idk why you'd ever tell a normie it, a lot of my friends from my home town are autists and approached me with all the looksmaxxing shi because I'm a decent looking guy and I'm known for going to the gym. But the people I met in college are way diff if I said I fw looksmaxxing they'd look at me crazy
because they associate it with bp, clav, etc

online that shit is funny and maybe even relateable, but irl people don't openly fuck with it. Associating with looksmaxing irl is like calling yourself an insecure lil incel
 
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