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LuK25
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I have over the last couple of years, ever since i met this one girl, been head over heels for her. I know i know this sounds cringe. But just bear with me. A little about this girl is that we have been pretty close friendship-wise for a little over a year now, and we talk regularly. We are a part of the same friend group and we meet up as a group quite often. (about 3-5 times a month ig). And man, after these times, i just overthink the fuck out of the moments i talked to her. We have been in the same class for the past 3 years, but now as we are graduating, we got into different schools. Since i met her, we have always been talking often, but the same summer, she suddenly starting acting distant. As normal i overthinked the shit out of it and it got so bad that my entire mood depended on her answering my texts/snaps etc. But after school started again, we just went right back to normal.
2 days ago we met up as a group again after the whole of summer break not seeing eachother. We were having a sort of "goodbye-party" for one of the people in this group that i was invited to. Before i got the time to figure out how to get there, she offered me a ride, which i gladly accepted. When we got there the person we were celebrating started opening gifts. All from us others in the group finding fun stuff to gift.
But after eating cake, on the way to the living room to watch a movie, she pulled me aside from the group and gave me a gift too. I was surprised because none of the other people got presents. On the card it talked about a very specific conversation me and her had for a while back, that i could barely remember. And now i can remember it as one of, if not the best conversations that i have had with her. Inside the present was my favorite energy drink which i could not remember telling her about, but she knew. She excused the present for being cheap, but i of course, assured her that it was perfect.
As we started watching the movie, instead of looking at the TV, she started telling me about how her summer had been and asked me about mine. We laughed at stories we both told, and man i tell you, in those 2 hours it just felt like all my worries were gone.
As we were leaving, we decided to take group photos to print out for each of us to have. When we were smiling for the picture, i felt her moving slowly towards me. As we were taking the last picture, i could smell her perfume as she leaned towards me.
You know i have never been the romantic type of guy. I have been always been described as the awkward one. And in the last couple of months i have really started to work on my self. I have improved massively socially and looks wise, or at least ive been told. But i just dont know what to do next. As i know the two of us will gradually fade away from eachother as we take different career paths. I just need some advice on what to do now.
2 days ago we met up as a group again after the whole of summer break not seeing eachother. We were having a sort of "goodbye-party" for one of the people in this group that i was invited to. Before i got the time to figure out how to get there, she offered me a ride, which i gladly accepted. When we got there the person we were celebrating started opening gifts. All from us others in the group finding fun stuff to gift.
But after eating cake, on the way to the living room to watch a movie, she pulled me aside from the group and gave me a gift too. I was surprised because none of the other people got presents. On the card it talked about a very specific conversation me and her had for a while back, that i could barely remember. And now i can remember it as one of, if not the best conversations that i have had with her. Inside the present was my favorite energy drink which i could not remember telling her about, but she knew. She excused the present for being cheap, but i of course, assured her that it was perfect.
As we started watching the movie, instead of looking at the TV, she started telling me about how her summer had been and asked me about mine. We laughed at stories we both told, and man i tell you, in those 2 hours it just felt like all my worries were gone.
As we were leaving, we decided to take group photos to print out for each of us to have. When we were smiling for the picture, i felt her moving slowly towards me. As we were taking the last picture, i could smell her perfume as she leaned towards me.
You know i have never been the romantic type of guy. I have been always been described as the awkward one. And in the last couple of months i have really started to work on my self. I have improved massively socially and looks wise, or at least ive been told. But i just dont know what to do next. As i know the two of us will gradually fade away from eachother as we take different career paths. I just need some advice on what to do now.
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