What do I say to this Tinder foid? Last thread for now

[Deleted member 16958]

well she replied again so perhaps she actually does want to meet up. Holy fuck.
Now the problem is how do I hide the fact that i'm an autistic incel that shitposts on mental asylum forums 24/7 and so I barely ever go out?

Also, should I reply anything else or should I leave it at that until (hopefully) she texts me to meet up with her?

@nosemaxxing
@Sorken
@DivineBeing

 

[DivineBeing]

what kind of texting is this?

 

[nosemaxxing]

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well she replied again so perhaps she actually does want to meet up. Holy fuck.
Now the problem is how do I hide the fact that i'm an autistic incel that shitposts on mental asylum forums 24/7 and so I barely ever go out?

Also, should I reply anything else or should I leave it at that until (hopefully) she texts me to meet up with her?

@nosemaxxing
@Sorken
@DivineBeing

say this; tomorrow im going to "name of the resturant" would be cool if you join" if she say im busy ghost her, be nt and say this

 

[Deleted member 16958]

what kind of texting is this?

This is the second foid i've ever texted in my life and i'm an aspie retard, of course it won't be perfect.

say this; tomorrow im going to "name of the resturant" would be cool if you join" if she say im busy ghost her, be nt and say this

She already said that she's busy this week. I'm going to let her pick a date now and if she doesn't then obviously she's not interested.

 

[nosemaxxing]

This is the second foid i've ever texted in my life and i'm an aspie retard, of course it won't be perfect.


She already said that she's busy this week. I'm going to let her pick a date now and if she doesn't then obviously she's not interested.

dont let her pick a date, pick you a date

 

[Deleted member 16958]

dont let her pick a date, pick you a date

well I said this weekend and she said she can't, so not much I can do tbh. If she doesn't message me herself again asking to meet up then it's obviously not going to go anywhere beyond me paying for her drinks and food.

 

[DivineBeing]

This is the second foid i've ever texted in my life and i'm an aspie retard, of course it won't be perfect.


She already said that she's busy this week. I'm going to let her pick a date now and if she doesn't then obviously she's not interested.

u need to think how can i reduce the steps this conversation needs to get a lay or to meet

think about the questoins that need to be solved before a meet-up (time, place, date etc.)

then try to communicate everything in a way that requires as few replies as possible; even if you want her input, try asking multiple questions at once so there is less back and forth

general rule of thumb for EVERYTHING COMMUNICATION

 

[Constantin Denis]

You can add an "alright " But what she's doing could be a hidden ghosting

 

[nosemaxxing]

well I said this weekend and she said she can't, so not much I can do tbh. If she doesn't message me herself again asking to meet up then it's obviously not going to go anywhere beyond me paying for her drinks and food.

exactly bro, if she inventend some excuse for not meet up she isnt interested

 

[Deleted member 16958]

You can add an "alright " But what she's doing could be a hidden ghosting

yeah, i'm going to assume it is so I don't get disappointed. But tbh she didn't have to send that last reply at all, so I am a bit hopeful.

 

[Deleted member 16371]

You offer to take her out and show her around. Forget the dinner

 

[germanlooks]

Calm down

 

[Deleted member 16958]

You offer to take her out and show her around. Forget the dinner

It's a small shitty town tbh, not much you can do other than get food or drinks.

 

[Deleted member 16371]

It's a small shitty town tbh, not much you can do other than get food or drinks.

How old are you? Still try, maybe the city nearby?....

 

[Deleted member 12002]

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well she replied again so perhaps she actually does want to meet up. Holy fuck.
Now the problem is how do I hide the fact that i'm an autistic incel that shitposts on mental asylum forums 24/7 and so I barely ever go out?

Also, should I reply anything else or should I leave it at that until (hopefully) she texts me to meet up with her?

@nosemaxxing
@Sorken
@DivineBeing

You should. Ask her how it's going. Moving in and all. Don't let there be a void between this week and the next. She probably won't text you back if that's the case. Insert yourself into her thoughts between now and whenever you finally meet.

 

[Deleted member 16958]

You should. Ask her how it's going. Moving in and all. Don't let there be a void between this week and the next. She probably won't text you back if that's the case. Insert yourself into her thoughts between now and whenever you finally meet.

Should I wait a few days before texting her back?

 

[Deleted member 16958]

20

How old are you? Still try, maybe the city nearby?....

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Should I wait a few days before texting her back?

Yes

 

[Deleted member 3946]

exactly bro, if she inventend some excuse for not meet up she isnt interested

You have to be alert about shit like this, but you obviously always give a second chance, cause some people actually do have shit going on irl you know.

 

[Deleted member 14774]

Why are you so bad at texting jfl
She gave you a potential topic of conversation when she said she just moved, and you ignored it

 

[Deleted member 16958]

Why are you so bad at texting jfl
She gave you a potential topic of conversation when she said she just moved, and you ignored it

"why is an incel bad at texting" no idea

 

[javab]

Tell her you can show her around the town and then you guys can go grab drinks or something. If she rejects that at least you know she doesn't care about you. I don't think it is a good idea to wait a whole week. If you wait a week she will find chad on tinder and cuck you.

 

[nosemaxxing]

You have to be alert about shit like this, but you obviously always give a second chance, cause some people actually do have shit going on irl you know.

exactly man

 

[Deleted member 3478]

Should have said “cool would Monday or Tuesday next week work for you?” If she says “sorry I’m busy those days” say “no worries what day are you free?”