What do muslims think about marrying a girl with 2 kids?

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It's a matter of personal choice, and Islam does not prohibit it. There is no issue with pursuing that choice.



But when a person is given the choice between a virgin and a previously married while both are of the same grade of righteousness and piety, scholars stated that it is recommended to get married to a virgin.




This is based on the report of Jabir ibn `Abdullah. He said, “I married a woman and went to the Prophet, he said: ‘O Jabir! Have you married?’ I said: ‘Yes.’ He said: ‘A virgin or a matron?’ I said: ‘A matron.’ He said: ‘Why didn’t you marry a young girl, so that you may play with her and she with you?’ I said: ‘O Messenger of Allah! Abdullah (his father) died and left behind seven – or nine – daughter, so I have brought someone who can look after them.'” He said: So he supplicated for me.” (At-Tirmidhi)

But there is no problem of getting married to a divorced woman who has kids. If you do it sincerely for the sake of helping her and bringing up her children properly and islamically, you will be rewarded by Allah abundantly.

 

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There's nothing wrong with it. It's an issue for some personally and because it's frowned upon by many cultures.

I would never do it. But there's nothing 'wrong' against it.

 

[RAITEIII]

It's a matter of personal choice, and Islam does not prohibit it. There is no issue with pursuing that choice.



But when a person is given the choice between a virgin and a previously married while both are of the same grade of righteousness and piety, scholars stated that it is recommended to get married to a virgin.




This is based on the report of Jabir ibn `Abdullah. He said, “I married a woman and went to the Prophet, he said: ‘O Jabir! Have you married?’ I said: ‘Yes.’ He said: ‘A virgin or a matron?’ I said: ‘A matron.’ He said: ‘Why didn’t you marry a young girl, so that you may play with her and she with you?’ I said: ‘O Messenger of Allah! Abdullah (his father) died and left behind seven – or nine – daughter, so I have brought someone who can look after them.'” He said: So he supplicated for me.” (At-Tirmidhi)

But there is no problem of getting married to a divorced woman who has kids. If you do it sincerely for the sake of helping her and bringing up her children properly and islamically, you will be rewarded by Allah abundantly.

There's nothing wrong with it. It's an issue for some personally and because it's frowned upon by many cultures.

I would never do it. But there's nothing 'wrong' against it.

Allowed

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