What do women like in men?

[Deleted member 6403]

I am absolutely certain at this point that an entire 80% of it is the guy's ability to have a good conversation with her. All of the other 20% of it is just to be a nice person.

• Looks and height don't matter, because I'm tall and have been told that I have no bad features, but this has not been to my advantage as of yet.
• Money doesn't matter, because I've seen guys from forklift operators to restaurant hosts to business owners and everything in between get happy relationships.
• Being genuinely nice is to the guy's advantage, but ultimately, it doesn't matter. Most guys in relationships I've noticed are genuinely nice, but I've seen several douchenozzle fuckwads get girlfriends, too. (Of course, this is no excuse to be a "niceguy" or a douchebag.)
• Hell, I've even seen shy and socially awkward guys get girlfriends. So, it's not even confidence, either.

Am I right in assuming it's just conversational ability?

 

[Unsalvageable Case]

Most guys in relationships I've noticed are genuinely nice

they get cheated on

 

[basedfedoracel]

• Looks and height don't matter

jfl son. yes they do

 

[Deleted member 6403]

jfl son. yes they do

Not all women look for the same things.

Some girls like nice guys, others want douche bags.

Being a nice guy, I haven’t gotten along with a lot of girls because of this. Yet, when you find that girl that just wants a nice guy, it works very well.

And that thing that said that height doesn’t matter is wrong. Yes, I am 6’1 and haven’t found it easy to get girls, yet it is an advantage over someone who is 5’5. Most girls won’t date someone who is shorter than them, some will, but a lot won’t. It makes them feel insecure if they are the taller one.

The key isn’t to be someone you aren’t to get girls. The key is to be the best version of yourself and then find someone who fits well with you.

 

[Deleted member 8902]

 

[Deleted member 6997]

Big lossus

 

[basedfedoracel]

Not all women look for the same things.

Some girls like nice guys, others want douche bags.

Being a nice guy, I haven’t gotten along with a lot of girls because of this. Yet, when you find that girl that just wants a nice guy, it works very well.

And that thing that said that height doesn’t matter is wrong. Yes, I am 6’1 and haven’t found it easy to get girls, yet it is an advantage over someone who is 5’5. Most girls won’t date someone who is shorter than them, some will, but a lot won’t. It makes them feel insecure if they are the taller one.

The key isn’t to be someone you aren’t to get girls. The key is to be the best version of yourself and then find someone who fits well with you.

jfl son have u seen the rodrigez tapes?

 

[Deleted member 6403]

jfl son have u seen the rodrigez tapes?

Who?

It all depends on the woman. There is no "one size fits all" man that appeals to all women. No one appeals to everyone.

At least for me, liking a guy is not just about conversational ability. All of my friends have good conversational ability. I don't date guys because they are fun to talk to, I make them my friends.

Looks always better but looks are also subjective. Some women like short dudes, some like tall dudes, I like medium height dudes and get anxious around men pushing over 6'1. There's no one look that is appealing to everyone, all women are looking for someone that appeals to them as individuals (which is why you see conventionally ugly people with conventionally attractive people all the time).

You are right, being nice does not matter because being nice is an expectation, just like being kind (which is more important in dating) is a necessary qualifier for anyone in someone's life, boyfriend or friend.

 

[basedfedoracel]

Who?

It all depends on the woman. There is no "one size fits all" man that appeals to all women. No one appeals to everyone.

At least for me, liking a guy is not just about conversational ability. All of my friends have good conversational ability. I don't date guys because they are fun to talk to, I make them my friends.

Looks always better but looks are also subjective. Some women like short dudes, some like tall dudes, I like medium height dudes and get anxious around men pushing over 6'1. There's no one look that is appealing to everyone, all women are looking for someone that appeals to them as individuals (which is why you see conventionally ugly people with conventionally attractive people all the time).

You are right, being nice does not matter because being nice is an expectation, just like being kind (which is more important in dating) is a necessary qualifier for anyone in someone's life, boyfriend or friend.

@PYT

 

[Deleted member 11414]

Looks

 

[Deleted]

Some girls like nice guys, others want douche bags.

I don't think the appeal of a "Bad boy" is that he sells drugs or steals. Its more so that he's ready to take those risks and would generally speaking be a more adventurous person.

 

[Jamal2222]

Who?

It all depends on the woman. There is no "one size fits all" man that appeals to all women. No one appeals to everyone.

At least for me, liking a guy is not just about conversational ability. All of my friends have good conversational ability. I don't date guys because they are fun to talk to, I make them my friends.

Looks always better but looks are also subjective. Some women like short dudes, some like tall dudes, I like medium height dudes and get anxious around men pushing over 6'1. There's no one look that is appealing to everyone, all women are looking for someone that appeals to them as individuals (which is why you see conventionally ugly people with conventionally attractive people all the time).

You are right, being nice does not matter because being nice is an expectation, just like being kind (which is more important in dating) is a necessary qualifier for anyone in someone's life, boyfriend or friend.

You're coping, all the guys I've seen who get girls, usually have a whole harem they've been with. This proves the one size fits all theory.
No such thing as sUbjECtivity in attractiveness. Women all want chad and then personal preference goes in to play, like nerdy chad, atheletic chad, cocky chad, rich chad, doctor chad.
When you say some women like short,medium, tall guys. You may think that's the case but these differences in height is usually based off the female's own height herself.
IRL legitimate short normies can use status to get girlfriends. Status is equal to looks. it's a primitive thing . Because Status communicates acceptance from the tribe, this subconsciously tells the female , her offspring will have a better chance of survival if she mates with this high status male.

 

[basedfedoracel]

At least for me, liking a guy is not just about conversational ability. All of my friends have good conversational ability. I don't date guys because they are fun to talk to, I make them my friends.

sus af my nigga

 

[Deleted member 6403]

@PYT

I don't think the appeal of a "Bad boy" is that he sells drugs or steals. Its more so that he's ready to take those risks and would generally speaking be a more adventurous person.

I agree that conversational ability is really important and is looked over a lot when people give dating advice. I can't date someone personally who can't hold a decent conversation with me (although some of this comes down to chemistry and not just skill).

The amount that looks, money, kindness, and confidence is going to vary from woman to woman. For me--Attraction is very important but so subjective, and I don't care a lot about height, but some women do. Money is nice but I can make my own--I care more about work ethic/having some sort of purpose than about salary, as long as he can support himself. Social skills are important but to me kind of are in the same category as conversational skills. As far as genuine kindness, it is incredibly important to me when judging relationship compatibility, but has little to do with attraction, and yes douchey guys absolutely do get gfs, unfortunately--though i reject the notion that any guys DON'T get gfs because they are TOO nice...

So no I wouldn't say it's JUST conversational ability, but it may be more that than people think

 

[Deleted member 6403]

You're coping, all the guys I've seen who get girls, usually have a whole harem they've been with. This proves the one size fits all theory.
No such thing as sUbjECtivity in attractiveness. Women all want chad and then personal preference goes in to play, like nerdy chad, atheletic chad, cocky chad, rich chad, doctor chad.

Well just asking the girl out is a step a lot of men dont even make lol. If they would just do that they would up their chances.

 

[basedfedoracel]

I hate u nigga JFLLL

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

So true I find that a good conversation and being yourself is all you need for success with women, they just want someone who is nice and fun to be around