popeyesniggle
charisma is law anything else is cope
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A 5 month long study was done in the US interviewing thousands of high school students on what makes “popular students” the most liked. For the record, popular kids are the NT randoms who are going to parties and beaches with all the bad girls from your school. During interviews, when asked "who do you like?" in surveys, the popular students consistently named more people than anyone else.
The popular kids weren't waiting for others to approach them.
They were the "first-likers" and actively chose to connect with their peers. They weren’t the most attractive, nor the most athletic, they were the ones who branched out and made friends outside of their circle.
I will admit that looks will add a LOT to your SMV and they are crucial in situations where you’re sending pics of yourself for a 2man or a quickadd on Snap. They also add a lot to your confidence. But the bottom line is that charisma and NTness win in high school.
The study can be found here
The popular kids weren't waiting for others to approach them.
They were the "first-likers" and actively chose to connect with their peers. They weren’t the most attractive, nor the most athletic, they were the ones who branched out and made friends outside of their circle.
I will admit that looks will add a LOT to your SMV and they are crucial in situations where you’re sending pics of yourself for a 2man or a quickadd on Snap. They also add a lot to your confidence. But the bottom line is that charisma and NTness win in high school.
The study can be found here
