What do you think if youre popular have loads of high status mates and a great social life but youre also the weird one in the group

[DoctorLooksmax]

Often the butt of the jokes, the slightly aspie weird but lovable one. This kind of describes me, Im like the low status guy within a high status group pretty much

 

[Deleted member 2426]

You’re probably the punching bag

 

[KEy21]

It means you're a good crutch to keep everyones self esteem high

It's better to not be in that group and be an alpha. However you will miss out on whatever events they have in that case. Your dignity shouldn't be compromised though.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

It means you're a good crutch to keep everyones self esteem high

It's better to not be in that group and be an alpha. However you will miss out on whatever events they have in that case. Your dignity shouldn't be compromised though.

tbh I think youre kind of right. Bit sad to think of it like that, Im a bit old now for a new social circle so just gonna have to stick with this one really, I guess it beats having no mates

 

[Deleted member 2846]

tbh I think youre kind of right. Bit sad to think of it like that, Im a bit old now for a new social circle so just gonna have to stick with this one really, I guess it beats having no mates

jab back at them

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

jab back at them

I mean i do a bit, theres obviously back and forth banter, but I cant just be an asshole and risk just having no friends.

 

[Deleted member 2846]

I mean i do a bit, theres obviously back and forth banter, but I cant just be an asshole and risk just having no friends.

u don’t have to be an asshole but don’t let them stomp on you.

 

[Blackout.xl]

Roast back wtf? Assert your dominance. Take control of the group and be alpha.

If they can’t handle it and decide to kick you out from the group, then go. Don’t sacrifice your dignity for popularity, it isn’t worth it at all

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Roast back wtf? Assert your dominance. Take control of the group and be alpha.

If they can’t handle it and decide to kick you out from the group, then go. Don’t sacrifice your dignity for popularity, it isn’t worth it at all

I do a bit of course, I mean its not like i get bullied or some shit. We do all have a laugh together and get on well, sometimes just feel like I get the piss taken out of me more than others do, even thiough everyone gets the piss taken a bit. IDK thats my perspective on it I jsut dunno if thats how other people see it as well or not

 

[Blackout.xl]

I do a bit of course, I mean its not like i get bullied or some shit. We do all have a laugh together and get on well, sometimes just feel like I get the piss taken out of me more than others do, even thiough everyone gets the piss taken a bit. IDK thats my perspective on it I jsut dunno if thats how other people see it as well or not

If they do it more to you then give it back more to them. Roast the shit out of them and say it’s just jokes. If they laugh, then you will be successful. If they get confrontational, you still win.