What does it mean if guys in your college classes don’t text you?

[Deleted member 534]

Have you been into this situation? Like you text someone you know collage friend or someone you know recently and the conversation last like 1 minute and they never text you back!!! Unless you do it!

 

[Deleted member 6538]

It means you look like utter shit and you are not important to them

 

[Patrick Baitman]

If you're uninteresting or annoying then yeah that happens

 

[Deleted member 534]

It means you look like utter shit and you are not important to them

I know

but they are guys JFL
Damn Never know that looks effects even friendship ngl

 

[Deleted member 534]

If you're uninteresting or annoying then yeah that happens

I talk about interesting topics lol

and I have a lot of things in common with them

so the answer is no to that

 

[Deleted member 1476]

 

[Patrick Baitman]

I talk about interesting topics lol

and I have a lot of things in common with them

so the answer is no to that

Idk how to describe "being interesting". I just forced myself to socialize alot and now people don't ghost me anymore, in fact I've become infamous for ghosting people

 

[Deleted member 534]

Idk how to describe "being interesting". I just forced myself to socialize alot and now people don't ghost me anymore, in fact I've become infamous for ghosting people

Even when I sit next to them and talk

the still ghost me regardless unless I text them first JFL

 

[Patrick Baitman]

Even when I sit next to them and talk

the still ghost me regardless unless I text them first JFL

Are you trying to be friends with one particular group of people?

 

[Deleted member 534]

Are you trying to be friends with one particular group of people?

It’s not really a group setting it’s like 1-2 random guys in my class

 

[Patrick Baitman]

It’s not really a group setting it’s like 1-2 random guys in my class

Try hitting up people you can click with. I usually find a conversation opener based on the situation, like if the lecture's boring I'll just turn to some rando on the side and just comment on the situation, if they reply back positively then cool otherwise I just ignore and try talking to someone else.

Building a social circle initially can be difficult but later on as your circle grows you become more socially "acceptable" and then making friends becomes more easier. And don't try to impress people consciously, you'll miserably fail.

 

[Deleted member 534]

Try hitting up people you can click with. I usually find a conversation opener based on the situation, like if the lecture's boring I'll just turn to some rando on the side and just comment on the situation, if they reply back positively then cool otherwise I just ignore and try talking to someone else.

Building a social circle initially can be difficult but later on as your circle grows you become more socially "acceptable" and then making friends becomes more easier. And don't try to impress people consciously, you'll miserably fail.

Lol they reply positively JFL but

they never open a conversation with me ever again JFL

admit it bro if an ugly guy text me I will be polite and answer him but I will never text him back once the conversation is done.

 

[Patrick Baitman]

admit it bro if an ugly guy text me I will be polite and answer him but I will never text him back once the conversation is done.

That's true.

I think you're being too desperate, that can be super repulsive too

 

[Deleted member 534]

That's true.

I think you're being too desperate, that can be super repulsive too

No I’m not bro lol

I asked them like 3 times total! I leave 2 weeks between each conversation so I don't seem needy

Once is about homework and other ones are causal (fun)

 

[Patrick Baitman]

No I’m not bro lol

I asked them like 3 times total! I leave 2 weeks between each conversation so I don't seem needy

Once is about homework and other ones are causal (fun)

Try talking to other guys maybe

 

[Vitruvian]

Looks affect friendship. U cant be friends with more attractive or taller guys.

 

[Deleted member 3583]

They're not really interested in speaking with you then. Ideally you should be in a couple of group chats, just socialmax further

 

[Deleted member 2968]

It doesn't have anything related to looks,it is just you are boring and lack of topics

 

[Deleted member 534]

It doesn't have anything related to looks,it is just you are boring and lack of topics

Ok whatever

 

[Deleted member 534]

They're not really interested in speaking with you then. Ideally you should be in a couple of group chats, just socialmax further

So talk to different guys theory?

 

[Deleted member 534]

Looks affect friendship. U cant be friends with more attractive or taller guys.

Somewhat yeah

 

[Deleted member 3583]

So talk to different guys theory?

Yes

 

[Deleted member 3583]

Looks affect friendship. U cant be friends with more attractive or taller guys.

Lol no

 

[2peasinapod]

becasue in your head you are a north atlantid god with anglo ancestry but in reality you look like a portugese son of uneployed immigrants

so they look at you and probably feel above you but then they interact with you and dont understand why you dont behave inferior

in short, you ego doesnt match your perception

no hating, this is probably the reason bc it comes accross in your posts too and it only failos you once youve seen your face

 

[Deleted member 6164]

I know

but they are guys JFL
Damn Never know that looks effects even friendship ngl

They affect relationships indirectly because no guy wants to be friends with the loser of losers (incels)

 

[Deleted member 534]

They affect relationships indirectly because no guy wants to be friends with the loser of losers (incels)

True

looksmaxing hard is the only option

 

[Deleted member 534]

becasue in your head you are a north atlantid god with anglo ancestry but in reality you look like a portugese son of uneployed immigrants

so they look at you and probably feel above you but then they interact with you and dont understand why you dont behave inferior

in short, you ego doesnt match your perception

no hating, this is probably the reason bc it comes accross in your posts too and it only failos you once youve seen your face

Lol I behave normally irl

I been called confident,charming before

but this is just a problem I faced recently

 

[Deleted member 6217]

looks do affect friendship

 

[2peasinapod]

Lol I behave normally irl

I been called confident,charming before

but this is just a problem I faced recently

nar its not recently becasue youve made the thread at least 3 times i remember becasue i said similar before, you have psuedo arrogance without the genetic arrogance to reinforce it

its like some skinny dweeb acting like a tough guy, its a complete missmatch and he will wake up on a stretcher sooner or later

ofc your conclusion will be to get surgery so your looks match your personality and mannorisms, but in reality you need to humblemax asap becasue even if you reach the looks level you want, having a down to earth personality will be just as important to coverse with normies

noone <20 years old will call you charming btw, probably your grandma or mother told you rofl

 

[Deleted member 534]

nar its not recently becasue youve made the thread at least 3 times i remember becasue i said similar before, you have psuedo arrogance without the genetic arrogance to reinforce it

its like some skinny dweeb acting like a tough guy, its a complete missmatch and he will wake up on a stretcher sooner or later

ofc your conclusion will be to get surgery so your looks match your personality and mannorisms, but in reality you need to humblemax asap becasue even if you reach the looks level you want, having a down to earth personality will be just as important to coverse with normies

noone <20 years old will call you charming btw, probably your grandma or mother told you rofl

I might have it lol

but one girl said I have confidence and shit

also I never talk about surgeries and looksmaxing with normies at all JFL

we talk about generic stuff that we all have in common NT topics gaming,homework,girls,events,ect

I act pretty nice and normal irl

than can you explain to me how 6.5/10+ guys get people to sit next to him and ask him out and get texts and shit?
look play HUGE part of it you gotta admit it

 

[2peasinapod]

I might have it lol

but one girl said I have confidence and shit

also I never talk about surgeries and looksmaxing with normies at all JFL

we talk about generic stuff that we all have in common NT topics gaming,homework,girls,events,ect

I act pretty nice and normal irl

than can you explain to me how 6.5/10+ guys get people to sit next to him and ask him out and get texts and shit?
look play HUGE part of it you gotta admit it

get looks or die trying confirmed

only when you are a unemployed loser sat alone on the bus becasue you cant drive and get prime JBs screaming at you from their dads mercedes and lining up to sit next to you and ask you out then you are a truecell and looks are your only problem

 

[Deleted member 534]

get looks or die trying confirmed

only when you are a unemployed loser sat alone on the bus becasue you cant drive and get prime JBs screaming at you from their dads mercedes and lining up to sit next to you and ask you out then you are a truecell and looks are your only problem

Ok

 

[2peasinapod]

Ok

FACE

 

[Deleted member 534]

FACE

IS everything

I guess I should take personalitymaxing boot camp this summer to up my social circle game

maybe I come across little arrogant which I doubt I’m not