What does it mean when a foid says she isn’t ready for a relationship?

[nopeguy8]

Recently started talking to this one girl last week.

I had a crush on her for a couple of months, and she was in my class too. I approached her during school and she gave me her socials.

For like the first 6 days of talking to her it was going well. She confessed to liking me too in class, but being way too shy to do anything about and shit like that.

I went on date with her, but than like the day after the date she told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship, and she didn’t see us dating.

I never been brought up the fact that I saw me and her in a relationship. It was 6 days, and she already dropped me this quick? What does this mean? I asked her questions if she just didnt find me attractive but she said no, that wasn’t the problems. She told me I did nothing wrong, but that she was just “not ready atm” and that she “enjoys her own company rn”

fuh bru

yo lmk if u guys want a SS

 

[jozsef316@gmail]

Drop a ssd u cuck

want a SS

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

It means she doesn’t want you but is “too nice” to tell you so. She has rejected you. Find someone else, plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[DrRodger]

Means she's only ready for chad

 

[gymcel64]

Means she's only ready for chad

Basically, even if it is a bit simplified.
Still baffles me how niggers end up on this site and then ask retarded questions like these.

 

[zennn]

It means she doesn’t want you but is “too nice” to tell you so. She has rejected you. Find someone else, plenty of fish in the sea.

I agree with gengar foids be foiding next second she sees someone hot she will fuck that guy without any second thoughts it’s the Foids nature we can’t do nothing but watch like cucks

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

I agree with gengar foids be foiding next second she sees someone hot she will fuck that guy without any second thoughts it’s the Foids nature we can’t do nothing but watch like cucks

Exactly, except we can do one thing: not give importance to such creatures.

 

[zennn]

Exactly, except we can do one thing: not give importance to such creatures.

 

[nopeguy8]

Drop a ssd u cuck

After class

 

[skell]

she’s playing hard to get

 

[jozsef316@gmail]

After class

 

[2s2f]

means your ugly

 

[2s2f]

she’s playing hard to get

nah bro she's just chadsexual

 

[skell]

nah bro she's just chadsexual

pursue pursue pursue
nigga either gets a case or his dreams

 

[nopeguy8]

means your ugly

So why would she say that she liked me from the start.

Even during the 6 day period of talking to her, she was calling me all sorta things bru

 

[nopeguy8]

she’s playing hard to get

Are you being for real? ? sorry for being a dumbass

 

[Zaphrix]

chad in ha guts

 

[nopeguy8]

chad in ha guts

shes LTB bro and i dont think she gets any play from any other guys anyways

 

[skell]

Are you being for real? ? sorry for being a dumbass

eh well yes but actually no
it’s prolly her first relationship and she might be unsure of her own feelings
win her over before she settles on no

 

[Zaphrix]

shes LTB bro and i dont think she gets any play from any other guys anyways

so there’s this graph right.

 

[nopeguy8]

so there’s this graph right.

son .

 

[nopeguy8]

eh well yes but actually no
it’s prolly her first relationship and she might be unsure of her own feelings
win her over before she settles on no

im very sure its her first relationship

how the fuck am i gonna win her over now bro ?

 

[niccolo]

Recently started talking to this one girl last week.

I had a crush on her for a couple of months, and she was in my class too. I approached her during school and she gave me her socials.

For like the first 6 days of talking to her it was going well. She confessed to liking me too in class, but being way too shy to do anything about and shit like that.

I went on date with her, but than like the day after the date she told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship, and she didn’t see us dating.

I never been brought up the fact that I saw me and her in a relationship. It was 6 days, and she already dropped me this quick? What does this mean? I asked her questions if she just didnt find me attractive but she said no, that wasn’t the problems. She told me I did nothing wrong, but that she was just “not ready atm” and that she “enjoys her own company rn”

fuh bru

yo lmk if u guys want a SS

Send ur and her face then we'll know the problem

 

[Banana ★ 🍌]

Recently started talking to this one girl last week.

I had a crush on her for a couple of months, and she was in my class too. I approached her during school and she gave me her socials.

For like the first 6 days of talking to her it was going well. She confessed to liking me too in class, but being way too shy to do anything about and shit like that.

I went on date with her, but than like the day after the date she told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship, and she didn’t see us dating.

I never been brought up the fact that I saw me and her in a relationship. It was 6 days, and she already dropped me this quick? What does this mean? I asked her questions if she just didnt find me attractive but she said no, that wasn’t the problems. She told me I did nothing wrong, but that she was just “not ready atm” and that she “enjoys her own company rn”

fuh bru

yo lmk if u guys want a SS

She isn’t ready for a realationship until you see her with Chad 2 weeks later

 

[skell]

im very sure its her first relationship

how the fuck am i gonna win her over now bro ?

communicate clearly
say you are still really into het
and wanna be with her

 

[N3ID3RZ]

Recently started talking to this one girl last week.

I had a crush on her for a couple of months, and she was in my class too. I approached her during school and she gave me her socials.

For like the first 6 days of talking to her it was going well. She confessed to liking me too in class, but being way too shy to do anything about and shit like that.

I went on date with her, but than like the day after the date she told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship, and she didn’t see us dating.

I never been brought up the fact that I saw me and her in a relationship. It was 6 days, and she already dropped me this quick? What does this mean? I asked her questions if she just didnt find me attractive but she said no, that wasn’t the problems. She told me I did nothing wrong, but that she was just “not ready atm” and that she “enjoys her own company rn”

fuh bru

yo lmk if u guys want a SS

i mean if she confessed on liking you and then pulled back she prob was genuinely not ready for smth maybe she liked you at first then you did smth to make her switch up idk you say anything that may have triggered her ?

 

[nopeguy8]

i mean if she confessed on liking you and then pulled back she prob was genuinely not ready for smth maybe she liked you at first then you did smth to make her switch up idk you say anything that may have triggered her ?

i cant remember, but like a day after the date, she told me that some rumours were apparently going around of us dating, and that some people were basically harrasing her.

Idk if that was the reason, could be, but at the same time nobody from her social circle knows who i am, so why would thye care?

 

[nopeguy8]

communicate clearly
say you are still really into het
and wanna be with her

Bro she told me she wasnt comfortable in a relationship

here is the screenshot

even if i was to say that stuff dont u think i should at least wait a week or two ?

 

[skell]

Bro she told me she wasnt comfortable in a relationship

here is the screenshot

even if i was to say that stuff dont u think i should at least wait a week or two ?

ahhhhhh
valuable context

"i'm just a lot more comfortable with my own company"
"I'm just not the right person to experience that stuff with"

your partner has anxious avoidant attachment, search it up and it will make sense
remember, according to what you said she liked you too
so why is she suddenly pulling back now?
this isn't a question of logic

 

[nopeguy8]

ahhhhhh
valuable context

"i'm just a lot more comfortable with my own company"
"I'm just not the right person to experience that stuff with"

your partner has anxious avoidant attachment, search it up and it will make sense
remember, according to what you said she liked you too
so why is she suddenly pulling back now?
this isn't a question of logic

So what am i supposed to do?

 

[skell]

So what am i supposed to do?

I personally do not have experience dealing with an anxious avoidant partner so take what I say with a grain of salt (you should rather consult the plethora of online resources for ppl with anxious avoidant partners since this isn't a rare phenomenon)
you can pull your weight in this relationship but at the end of the day, she needs to pull her weight too or this will fall apart
we have not yet confirmed your partner is anxious avoidant, so they best thing to ask her is why she feels like she isn't a good match for you
does it come from self esteem issues? ask her this question in a way it doesn't come off as too forward
help her work through her feelings which will give you a better idea of what you are working with

whatever you do
do not give up on her
you people are young enough that fixing this now will save her from a lifetime of pain and failed relationships

 

[Med Amine]

She wanst quick dick

 

[nopeguy8]

I personally do not have experience dealing with an anxious avoidant partner so take what I say with a grain of salt (you should rather consult the plethora of online resources for ppl with anxious avoidant partners since this isn't a rare phenomenon)
you can pull your weight in this relationship but at the end of the day, she needs to pull her weight too or this will fall apart
we have not yet confirmed your partner is anxious avoidant, so they best thing to ask her is why she feels like she isn't a good match for you
does it come from self esteem issues? ask her this question in a way it doesn't come off as too forward
help her work through her feelings which will give you a better idea of what you are working with

whatever you do
do not give up on her
you people are young enough that fixing this now will save her from a lifetime of pain and failed relationships

fuck bro the thing is, i never dated her
remember, i asked her out i think like last week

yesterday, i responded to her message, just saying i understand yadadada and she just responded with "that's okay, thanks for respecting my boundaries"????

i don't want to give up on her, i like her a lot, but if she feels that way i have no other choice but to accept that its over and to move on bhai

listen, if she even had that attachment issue thing, how would i even approach her again and ask her about her feelings. i feel like if i do, even after i responded to the messages in the SS, dont u think at this point i would be borderline harrasing her? i dont want to get a SA charge or restraining order so i have to be careful

 

[try2beme]

U alr know what it means deep down

 

[jozsef316@gmail]

quick dick

 

[nopeguy8]

U alr know what it means deep down

yea bru ik

 

[DrunkenSailor]

So why would she say that she liked me from the start.

Even during the 6 day period of talking to her, she was calling me all sorta things bru

It happens

Just move on, words mean little, actions are more important

 

[skell]

dont u think at this point i would be borderline harrasing her

you are not harassing her until she directly tells you to stop

 

[skell]

.

 

[nopeguy8]

nigga wtf have you done

what do u mean

 

[skell]

what do u mean

sorry thought I was responding to a pm (shit ton of tabs open)

 

[Hernan]

it means you're too ugly for her.

 

[nopeguy8]

sorry thought I was responding to a pm (shit ton of tabs open)

alr

 

[N3ID3RZ]

Bro she told me she wasnt comfortable in a relationship

here is the screenshot

even if i was to say that stuff dont u think i should at least wait a week or two ?

ask her to be friends n benefits then if she isn’t ready for a relationship because then you guys can still b friends js without a label and yk do more unless she isn’t going like that

 

[nopeguy8]

ask her to be friends n benefits then if she isn’t ready for a relationship because then you guys can still b friends js without a label and yk do more unless she isn’t going like that

Alr

but the whole ordeal happened 2 days ago. how long should i wait before talking to her again. also what do u think i should even say?

Make sure to look at the SS in the thread because i dont wanna cause any issues with her or maybe have another even more brutal moment happen to me again

 

[nopeguy8]

ask her to be friends n benefits then if she isn’t ready for a relationship because then you guys can still b friends js without a label and yk do more unless she isn’t going like that

Also, she said sure to being on "friendly" terms.


JFL at whatever that means