'What doesn't kill you make you stronger' is a cope

[MagaPutinism]

Throught my life i suffered alot with my non-nt aspie brain and it didn't make me stronger even mildly,

if you have drive inside you and learn things from that it will make you stronger, suffering alone don't does that effect and makes you even weaker,

If you become disabled by accident are you stronger? OBVIOUSLY NOT you are a vegtable and you have less power,

When i had my 3 years psychosis i had crazy discipline to do what the voices told me to do and no it didn't make me stronger

 

[Eduardo DOV]

yes but sometimes it does

 

[Deleted member 16275]

Depends on response

If you respond to suffering with courage, it makes you stronger

 

[Deleted member 21620]

Throught my life i suffered alot with my non-nt aspie brain and it didn't make me stronger even mildly,

if you have drive inside you and learn things from that it will make you stronger, suffering alone don't does that effect and makes you even weaker,

If you become disabled by accident are you stronger? OBVIOUSLY NOT you are a vegtable and you have less power,

When i had my 3 years psychosis i had crazy discipline to do what the voices told me to do and no it didn't make me stronger

you were born in the wrong time. you would have been a gigamogger in caveman time

 

[Tom Jones]

If you get hit by a drunk driver and goes quadriplegic. Just makes makes you stronger.

It’s a retarded statement.

What it is based on is basically acute physically stress and acute mental stress. Both of which will adapt you to stress.

But the expression is ridiculous. It’s very circumstantial

 

[Deleted member 4362]

It can make or break you

 

[Deleted member 14693]

When I look back on my life, all the tribulations and hardships I've endured I've come to the conclusion that every single one of them destroyed my soul a little bit inside. I never gained anything from being called ugly, I never gained anything from being socially excluded, I never gained anything from being awkward. I've only missed out on teenage life, on college life, on friendships, on relationships. I had a hard life and I'm 10000x weaker now than I was when I was 16, Back then I got teased in hs and had no friends, but was strong enough to endure and to say that I'm gonna come out of it alive and not let it get to me. Right now when I'm teased at anyplace, after years of the same bullshit, I don't even have the courage to even react. I overthink shit and think about suicide all the time. I cant stand hardships anymore. I can't... I will chimp out and/or sui.I'm not even a shadow of my former self anymore, I just don't care anymore.

I've noticed similar things with different people I knew. Guys who were bullied, excluded, made fun of never really achieved anything later in life. They were much, much worse as adults. Depressed, empty, suicidal. I do not know one exception to this rule. Meanwhile the Chads and Stacies are doing just as well as they did before. Some less so than others, but in general, the lucky and beautiful and dominant are lucky and beautiful and dominant now. And stronger as well, cause if something bad happens, they know they lived through decades of joy and fun so they would endure it.

So if you ever here the "Hardships makes you a stronger person" you should automatically know that it's just a cope, sadly.

 

[Tom Jones]

When I look back on my life, all the tribulations and hardships I've endured I've come to the conclusion that every single one of them destroyed my soul a little bit inside. I never gained anything from being called ugly, I never gained anything from being socially excluded, I never gained anything from being awkward. I've only missed out on teenage life, on college life, on friendships, on relationships. I had a hard life and I'm 10000x weaker now than I was when I was 16, Back then I got teased in hs and had no friends, but was strong enough to endure and to say that I'm gonna come out of it alive and not let it get to me. Right now when I'm teased at anyplace, after years of the same bullshit, I don't even have the courage to even react. I overthink shit and think about suicide all the time. I cant stand hardships anymore. I can't... I will chimp out and/or sui.I'm not even a shadow of my former self anymore, I just don't care anymore.

I've noticed similar things with different people I knew. Guys who were bullied, excluded, made fun of never really achieved anything later in life. They were much, much worse as adults. Depressed, empty, suicidal. I do not know one exception to this rule. Meanwhile the Chads and Stacies are doing just as well as they did before. Some less so than others, but in general, the lucky and beautiful and dominant are lucky and beautiful and dominant now. And stronger as well, cause if something bad happens, they know they lived through decades of joy and fun so they would endure it.

So if you ever here the "Hardships makes you a stronger person" you should automatically know that it's just a cope, sadly.

Yes as I wrote earlier.
When you get called ugly on the daily it’s chronic stress.

If you give Chest compressions to a dude with a systole and survives. You het stronger. If someone says you did a great fucking job. It strengthen you. If you hit a deadline thought impossible. You become stronger. If you talk to a girl and fail yet move on you get stronger too.
If you take a minute sprint. You’ll gain mostly good.

But if anyone from childhood has stressed you in any way chronically you are unlucky

 

[AscensionMan98]

When I look back on my life, all the tribulations and hardships I've endured I've come to the conclusion that every single one of them destroyed my soul a little bit inside. I never gained anything from being called ugly, I never gained anything from being socially excluded, I never gained anything from being awkward. I've only missed out on teenage life, on college life, on friendships, on relationships. I had a hard life and I'm 10000x weaker now than I was when I was 16, Back then I got teased in hs and had no friends, but was strong enough to endure and to say that I'm gonna come out of it alive and not let it get to me. Right now when I'm teased at anyplace, after years of the same bullshit, I don't even have the courage to even react. I overthink shit and think about suicide all the time. I cant stand hardships anymore. I can't... I will chimp out and/or sui.I'm not even a shadow of my former self anymore, I just don't care anymore.

I've noticed similar things with different people I knew. Guys who were bullied, excluded, made fun of never really achieved anything later in life. They were much, much worse as adults. Depressed, empty, suicidal. I do not know one exception to this rule. Meanwhile the Chads and Stacies are doing just as well as they did before. Some less so than others, but in general, the lucky and beautiful and dominant are lucky and beautiful and dominant now. And stronger as well, cause if something bad happens, they know they lived through decades of joy and fun so they would endure it.

So if you ever here the "Hardships makes you a stronger person" you should automatically know that it's just a cope, sadly.

Its more so if you actually make it successfully, then your a unmoggable machine as you have seen the darker side of humanity and you can have much better emotional control. You also appreciate experiences and other good things more then someone born into it.

 

[Deleted member 22611]

The phrase is more accurately understood and translated as

What does not destroy me makes me stronger.

That should clear up this thread.