what even is self awareness anyway

[Deleted member 137296]

my main personality flaw according to literally anyone ive ever interacted with is that i have no self awareness at all/come across as an extremely narcy arrogant douchebag - wtf does this mean? how does self awareness work. is it just because im not acting in accordance to my place in the dominance hierarchy?

 

[ImVerySorry]

my main personality flaw according to literally anyone ive ever interacted with is that i have no self awareness at all - wtf does this mean? how does self awareness work. is it just because im not acting in accordance to my place in the dominance hierarchy?

Self awereness is knowing that youre an asshole when youre an asshole.

 

[Vermilioncore]

A curse upon our lives

 

[Deleted member 137296]

Self awereness is knowing that youre an asshole when youre an asshole.

im too smart to intentionally come across as an arrogant asshole tho

 

[Deleted member 1813]

Do you lack the ability to step back and think “maybe i shouldn’t have said that” or do you just say “they’re a sensitive bitch”

You should be able to read the room and understand when things are appropriate to say.

 

[ihateexplaining]

you’re too confident for the assigned worth other have given you.

 

[ImVerySorry]

Do you lack the ability to step back and think “maybe i shouldn’t have said that” or do you just say “they’re a sensitive bitch”

You should be able to read the room and understand when things are appropriate to say.

This

 

[batman1997]

If you're smart they call you arrogant, if you're dumb they call you Low IQ, if you Talk too much they call you annoying. People dont know what they actually want just be yourself.

 

[Pento]

my main personality flaw according to literally anyone ive ever interacted with is that i have no self awareness at all/come across as an extremely narcy arrogant douchebag - wtf does this mean? how does self awareness work. is it just because im not acting in accordance to my place in the dominance hierarchy?

How you are in social situations, how you view yourself and how you view the world. Most people have a very self-centered view of the world

 

[Deleted member 146915]

Self awareness in this context means awareness and intuition of how others will percieve your actions

 

[Deleted member 137296]

i think people fail to consider that maybe im not an arrogant douchebag and perhaps im just better than you at most things and its my sincere transparency thats gets understandably mistaken as arrogant douchebaggery

 

[Deleted member 1813]

i think people fail to consider that maybe im not an arrogant douchebag and perhaps im just better than you at most things and its my sincere transparency thats gets understandably mistaken as arrogant douchebaggery

This is literally demonstrating your lack of self awareness nigga

 

[Deleted member 132430]

being self aware would be you realizing the thread u made right now is insanely cringe

 

[Deleted member 137296]

being self aware would be you realizing the thread u made right now is insanely cringe

wait why is it cringe

 

[Deleted member 137296]

Do you lack the ability to step back and think “maybe i shouldn’t have said that” or do you just say “they’re a sensitive bitch”

i dont step back and think, i pretty much always say the first thing that comes to my mind

You should be able to read the room and understand when things are appropriate to say.

translation: be an agreeable cuck

 

[Deleted member 1813]

i dont step back and think, i pretty much always say the first thing that comes to my mind

translation: be an agreeable cuck

There’s your answer

 

[Deleted member 137296]

being self aware would be you realizing the thread u made right now is insanely cringe

why is it cringe


also why do people just call me cringe and then refuse to elaborate as to why im cringe. its almost like they want to see me fail

 

[Deleted member 137296]

There’s your answer

why is this a bad thing

whats the point in being agreeable if you dont agree with what the other person is saying

 

[Deleted member 1813]

why is this a bad thing

whats the point in being agreeable if you dont agree with what the other person is saying

I will try to understand you more.

Do you find conflict fun?
Do you argue to win or meet in the middle?
Do you think more than you feel?
Is being right more important than people’s feelings?

You can see being agreeable as being a cuck but you won’t stop getting this lack of self awareness response from people if you don’t develop your emotional intelligence.

It can be a useful skill to strategically develop relationships with people until you don’t need them.

 

[Deleted member 137296]

Do you find conflict fun?
Do you argue to win or meet in the middle?
Do you think more than you feel?
Is being right more important than people’s feelings?

conversations arent fun if theyre not debates and i win

You can see being agreeable as being a cuck but you won’t stop getting this lack of self awareness response from people if you don’t develop your emotional intelligence.

It can be a useful skill to strategically develop relationships with people until you don’t need them.

eq is for women (and men) who are too low iq to become engineers