Discussion what event in your life made you an incel

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was there a specific event like a falling out with someone or getting bad rep or having no friends?

if so, how did it lead you here?
I wouldnt call myself an incel because i have friends and a gf but,

im on this site because :

I was always ugly growing up, when i was like 13 girls asked me out as a joke
then when i was 14 this girl played me like crazy and then she told me "I like ur personality and ur really sweet but i js dont like you" and then proceeded to have a fat crush on my htn best friend who barely knows her and then she said "I love him" (BARELY TALKS TO HIM, KNOWN HIM FOR 3 MONTHS BTW).

And then i remember venting about it to one of my female friends and she told me like "its ok, u have a nice smile". Like fuckkk brooooooooooooooooo

\what about you
 
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I wouldnt call myself an incel because i have friends and a gf but,

im on this site because :

I was always ugly growing up, when i was like 13 girls asked me out as a joke
then when i was 14 this girl played me like crazy and then she told me "I like ur personality and ur really sweet but i js dont like you" and then proceeded to have a fat crush on my htn best friend who barely knows her and then she said "I love him" (BARELY TALKS TO HIM, KNOWN HIM FOR 3 MONTHS BTW).

And then i remember venting about it to one of my female friends and she told me like "its ok, u have a nice smile". Like fuckkk brooooooooooooooooo

\what about you
happens to the best of us man

as for me I got bullied alot for my weight and looks in elementary (26 BMI) and tried to search up ways to lose weight and stuff which led me down the rabbit hole
 
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as for me I got bullied alot for my weight and looks in elementary (26 BMI) and tried to search up ways to lose weight and stuff which led me down the rabbit hole
i relate

I was really fat as a kid, i think when was 11 i was like 163 cm and 70kg
 
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i relate

I was really fat as a kid, i think when was 11 i was like 163 cm and 70kg
I was 147cm and 53kg if I remember correctly :feelswhy: got a decent growth spurt tho
 
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Getting dumped by my oneitis started the rot, which took a few years to fully manifest.

I was on here in under 6 months from that event but the tone of my early posts was far more optimistic.
 
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I wouldnt call myself an incel because i have friends and a gf but,

im on this site because :

I was always ugly growing up, when i was like 13 girls asked me out as a joke
then when i was 14 this girl played me like crazy and then she told me "I like ur personality and ur really sweet but i js dont like you" and then proceeded to have a fat crush on my htn best friend who barely knows her and then she said "I love him" (BARELY TALKS TO HIM, KNOWN HIM FOR 3 MONTHS BTW).

And then i remember venting about it to one of my female friends and she told me like "its ok, u have a nice smile". Like fuckkk brooooooooooooooooo

\what about you
poor swagger :pepefrown:
 
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falsely accused solely because of the way my face looks
 
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I switched schools plenty of time


Looking back I always had opportunities even as a subhuman


Right now I'd say I'm decent looking, had 3 matches just yesterday and I ghosted them because I'm not interested


I would say losing my oneitis made me less interested in women in general, that and sleeping with a fat bitch which made realize sex isn't all that on it's own


Overall I realize it is about personality, it seems arrogant to say it but I wish I could give my body and face to someone on this forum so that it's not wasted on me
 
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was there a specific event like a falling out with someone or getting bad rep or having no friends?

if so, how did it lead you here?
Being ethnic and ugly is the "event".

You don't become incel because you slipped over infront of stacy and everyone laughed at you or whatever the fuck
 
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was there a specific event like a falling out with someone or getting bad rep or having no friends?

if so, how did it lead you here?
My mental state and use of androgenic compounds
 

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