What happens on a date

[New Poster]

Great, you've passed the looks threshold! A girl is attracted to you and she's hot and bothered enough to set aside time for a date. She dresses up. There's sexual tension.





Then you sit for an hour. No chance of escalation. No tension. No nothing. Just small talk for a whole hour. Your mystique wears off. She knows what bands you're into and that you have a so-so sense of humor. She's analyzed every flaw in your face
Everything's cooled off.

Now you need to get her interested enough again to get back to her place. Maybe you pass the second barrier.






And now you're in the car. You got fifteen more minutes of awkward unsexy convo. Things cool off again...

You get back to her place and have to get things going a third time. You got to go from 0 to 60 and get past a whole nother barrier. Maybe, just maybe, you'll get past it.

 

[Gonthar]

Then you sit for an hour. No chance of escalation. No tension. No nothing. Just small talk for a whole hour.

If you didn't successfully initiated flirting in this time, getting closer, touching, hugging, kissing her, there's little chance you'll go to her place.

 

[the BULL]

i escalate in 20 minutes on average
after the introduction charming phase in which you unload your arsenal of knowledge and witty jokes with sexual background to sound brilliant
i get closer and start holding hands and touching face and kissing
then they can start feeling i'm really horny by themselves and bring me to their place

 

[Deleted member 21735]

Great, you've passed the looks threshold! A girl is attracted to you and she's hot and bothered enough to set aside time for a date

not from my experience. what happpens is that she just wants to kill time

 

[New Poster]

If you didn't successfully initiated flirting in this time, getting closer, touching, hugging, kissing her, there's little chance you'll go to her place.

i escalate in 20 minutes on average
after the introduction charming phase in which you unload your arsenal of knowledge and witty jokes with sexual background to sound brilliant
i get closer and start holding hands and touching face and kissing
then they can start feeling i'm really horny by themselves and bring me to their place

Often there's a table between you and her

 

[the BULL]

not from my experience. what happpens is that she just wants to kill time

you have 0 rizz
and low t
you should get very horny and go with it
you both know why are you going out on a date

 

[New Poster]

you have 0 rizz
and low t
you should get very horny and go with it
you both know why are you going out on a date

I indeed have low t
Not sure about my rizz

 

[buckchadley31]

i escalate in 20 minutes on average
after the introduction charming phase in which you unload your arsenal of knowledge and witty jokes with sexual background to sound brilliant
i get closer and start holding hands and touching face and kissing
then they can start feeling i'm really horny by themselves and bring me to their place

fucking sexy chad can you teach me more please

 

[the BULL]

Often there's a table between you and her

i don't stay there for long
propose to sit on a bench if we're eating ice cream
or after drinking coffee
i never go on dinner dates

 

[Deleted member 23778]

I play the gentleman role aka ask her if I can kiss her. They always say yes. Then once you do so she gets horny instantly. In many cases the bitch will even ask if she can kiss you if you don't make a move soon enough

 

[Deleted member 21735]

you have 0 rizz
and low t
you should get very horny and go with it
you both know why are you going out on a date

we both know but the reasons are different lmao

 

[New Poster]

I play the gentleman role aka ask her if I can kiss her. They always say yes. Then once you do so she gets horny instantly. In many cases the bitch will even ask if she can kiss you if you don't make a move soon enough

Milady your way in between those legs

 

[the BULL]

we both know but the reasons are different lmao

what kind of girls are you dating bro

 

[Deleted member 21735]

what kind of girls are you dating bro

dont you know?

 

[Deleted member 23778]

Milady your way in between those legs

Nowadays in the age of metoo I find women actually like if you act like kind of a pussy as long as you make your intent clear.

 

[Deleted member 23819]

i don't stay there for long
propose to sit on a bench if we're eating ice cream
or after drinking coffee
i never go on dinner dates

And after the date the girl gets to see this, peak sex appeal

 

[the BULL]

dont you know?

no
usually if you ask a girl to go on a date you 2 only, and she isn't attracted to you, the first thing she will say is "just as friends though"

 

[Deleted member 21735]

no
usually if you ask a girl to go on a date you 2 only, and she isn't attracted to you, the first thing she will say is "just as friends though"

never heard that tbh tbh, girls are more elusive about these thigs

 

[New Poster]

Nowadays in the age of metoo I find women actually like if you act like kind of a pussy as long as you make your intent clear.

Do what works for you. If that means taking a bow after you ejaculate, go for it.

 

[the BULL]

And after the date the girl gets to see this, peak sex appeal

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this better?? learn lighting
i fucked them really good with my athletic fit body
moaning and shit

 

[Deleted member 23778]

Do what works for you. If that means taking a bow after you ejaculate, go for it.

 

[the BULL]

never heard that tbh tbh, girls are more elusive about these thigs

stop larping

 

[Deleted member 21735]

stop larping

larp about what?

 

[New Poster]

"I take my leave of you, miss"

 

[Ken]

Buy food for her, boring conversation, kiss rejection, go home and cry.

 

[Allandro]

Great, you've passed the looks threshold! A girl is attracted to you and she's hot and bothered enough to set aside time for a date. She dresses up. There's sexual tension.





Then you sit for an hour. No chance of escalation. No tension. No nothing. Just small talk for a whole hour. Your mystique wears off. She knows what bands you're into and that you have a so-so sense of humor. She's analyzed every flaw in your face
Everything's cooled off.

Now you need to get her interested enough again to get back to her place. Maybe you pass the second barrier.






And now you're in the car. You got fifteen more minutes of awkward unsexy convo. Things cool off again...

You get back to her place and have to get things going a third time. You got to go from 0 to 60 and get past a whole nother barrier. Maybe, just maybe, you'll get past it.

The last time I went to a date I kissed the girl and she wrote me on instagram that day later that she only wanted to be my friend...( but who the heck accepts the invite of a stranger on a bus to hang out without being interested?) she just noticed that I am aspie and rejected me

 

[Deleted member 24186]

The last time I went to a date I kissed the girl and she wrote me on instagram that day later that she only wanted to be my friend...( but who the heck accepts the invite of a stranger on a bus to hang out without being interested?) she just noticed that I am aspie and rejected me

 

[Gonthar]

Often there's a table between you and her

When I used to date, I would go to bars with a more intimate atmosphere, that had couches, so you could easily slide next to her, I studied PUA intensively, and had a lot of "routines" for flirting and escalating, like asking her to show me her rings or bracelets, so I could take her hand and touch her, then I would turn it around and start reading her palm(I've learned palmistry, physiognomy, astrology and other pseudo-sciences that girls absolutely loved and many were quite impressed by my knowledge and readings).
Sadly, even though many dates went very well and my game was top-notch, in the end my rate of success was very low - I would end up ghosted or in the friend-zone, even when I managed to be very smooth, charming, funny, witty, escalate quickly, touch, hug and kiss the girls.
I had no idea what exactly went wrong, I always felt that I somehow missed something crucial from the art of PUA, until I've found the black pill, then everything made sense.

 

[Allandro]

Cycling is love, cycling is life

 

[Deleted member 23778]

When I used to date, I would go to bars with a more intimate atmosphere, that had couches, so you could easily slide next to her, I studied PUA intensively, and had a lot of "routines" for flirting and escalating, like asking her to show me her rings or bracelets, so I could take her hand and touch her, then I would turn it around and start reading her palm(I've learned palmistry, physiognomy, astrology and other pseudo-sciences that girls absolutely loved and many were quite impressed by my knowledge and readings).
Sadly, even though many dates went very well and my game was top-notch, in the end my rate of success was very low - I would end up ghosted or in the friend-zone, even when I managed to be very smooth, charming, funny, witty, escalate quickly, touch, hug and kiss the girls.
I had no idea what exactly went wrong, I always felt that I somehow missed something crucial from the art of PUA, until I've found the black pill, then everything made sense.

A lot of PUA shit is aspie af tbh

 

[Gonthar]

A lot of PUA shit is aspie af tbh

If you are completely clueless on what to say or how to act, it can give you a structure, routines to follow, subjects to talk about, methods to escalate, ways to get close to her, etc...
If you don't have game, it's pretty much over unless you're a Chad, but having good game doesn't guarantee you'll eventually get anywhere, it's just another prerequisite, ultimately your looks determine how successful you'll be.

 

[Allandro]

When I used to date, I would go to bars with a more intimate atmosphere, that had couches, so you could easily slide next to her, I studied PUA intensively, and had a lot of "routines" for flirting and escalating, like asking her to show me her rings or bracelets, so I could take her hand and touch her, then I would turn it around and start reading her palm(I've learned palmistry, physiognomy, astrology and other pseudo-sciences that girls absolutely loved and many were quite impressed by my knowledge and readings).
Sadly, even though many dates went very well and my game was top-notch, in the end my rate of success was very low - I would end up ghosted or in the friend-zone, even when I managed to be very smooth, charming, funny, witty, escalate quickly, touch, hug and kiss the girls.
I had no idea what exactly went wrong, I always felt that I somehow missed something crucial from the art of PUA, until I've found the black pill, then everything made sense.

What's your PSL bhai?

 

[KingBetaTut]

View attachment 2005296

this better?? learn lighting
i fucked them really good with my athletic fit body
moaning and shit

How many years do I need to gymcel to reach this?

 

[Deleted member 23778]

If you are completely clueless on what to say or how to act, it can give you a structure, routines to follow, subjects to talk about, methods to escalate, ways to get close to her, etc...
If you don't have game, it's pretty much over unless you're a Chad, but having good game doesn't guarantee you'll eventually get anywhere, it's just another prerequisite, ultimately your looks determine how successful you'll be.

Nah I feel it held me back even more by using it. If someone would have just told me "tell her you like her and want to hang out" it would have saved me years of frustration as opposed to the c&f/neg shit that is gay af

 

[Gonthar]

What's your PSL bhai?

Around 4 maybe, I'm also 5'5.

 

[RAITEIII]

Great, you've passed the looks threshold! A girl is attracted to you and she's hot and bothered enough to set aside time for a date. She dresses up. There's sexual tension.





Then you sit for an hour. No chance of escalation. No tension. No nothing. Just small talk for a whole hour. Your mystique wears off. She knows what bands you're into and that you have a so-so sense of humor. She's analyzed every flaw in your face
Everything's cooled off.

Now you need to get her interested enough again to get back to her place. Maybe you pass the second barrier.






And now you're in the car. You got fifteen more minutes of awkward unsexy convo. Things cool off again...

You get back to her place and have to get things going a third time. You got to go from 0 to 60 and get past a whole nother barrier. Maybe, just maybe, you'll get past it.

I recall the magic when u two are so attracted and u look in the eyes lol it was magic.

Will it ever happen again lol. I rarely fall for someone

 

[Allandro]

Around 4 maybe, I'm also 5'5.

I agree that game is important btw, I see HTNs doing as well as chadlites in high school having a good game. I think that good game gives you 1 point+ on the normie scale.

 

[6ft4]

I'll never have the T levels necessary to make a sexual advancement on a female again

 

[New Poster]

I'll never have the T levels necessary to make a sexual advancement on a female again

Aren't you like a 20-something gymcel? Shouldn't you be so horny that you're fantasizing about fucking every woman who walks past you?

 

[6ft4]

Aren't you like a 20-something gymcel? Shouldn't you be so horny that you're fantasizing about fucking every woman who walks past you?

I can only get aroused by whale sized females now but even on 6 weeks no fap I don't have the desire to have any contact with females irl since I am living in the countryside now so can rot without any human interaction