What I hate about the dating market

[Deleted member 5927]

That it's a competition. Why can't everyone just have their own life partner to share experiences with, have a family with, be loved and to love, never be lonely, go about their daily lives with? Why does it have to be a competition? Why can't we all just be happy, why do some people have to not be happy?

What a fucking shit show. I wish everyone was just given a life partner at birth instead of this ABSOLUTELY INSANE competition where men break their fucking backs improving themselves, change their entire lifestyles to become something women want, just to get a shred of happiness. Fucking hell man, my ancestors long ago considered women PROPERTY, JFL.

 

[Feminineboi]

Because some of our genetics are inferior

 

[Deleted member 5818]

3 words

natural selection son

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Because some of our genetics are inferior

if i can't get my looksmatch this society is a scam

 

[KrissKross]

Survival of the fittest

 

[Yoyo2233]

3 words

natural selection son

What’s natural selection mean

 

[Deleted member 5818]

What’s natural selection mean

google it son

 

[Deleted member 5927]

What’s natural selection mean

It doesn't mean the fittest survive, what it actually means in reality is that those organisms who possess traits that don't allow them to survive in a given environment, do not survive. This leaves the populous (if any remain at all) with less genetic variation, and the remaining organisms in the species are those who had genetics which allowed them to survive a given environmental hazard.

 

[Yoyo2233]

It doesn't mean the fittest survive, what it actually means in reality is that those organisms who possess traits that don't allow them to survive in a given environment, do not survive. This leaves the populous (if any remain at all) with less genetic variation, and the remaining organisms in the species are those who had genetics which allowed them to survive a given environmental hazard.

What are such traits that won’t allow you to survive?

 

[Deleted member 5927]

What are such traits that won’t allow you to survive?

It depends on the environment. For example say the earth dropped 40° F for good. Many animals that already live in cold climates would likely freeze to death. Maybe those with subhuman genetics that mutated them and allowed them to have ridiculous amounts of fur (maybe the 1% of some mutated polar bear) survive, and the 99% die off. The only thing left is that one mutated population of polar bear with a ridiculous amount of fur. As a result they breed and the only thing left is a new population of polar bears with excessive fur.

Thats how natural selection works in theory, but keep in mind whether or not evolution is true or not I have no clue. That's just how it works, IN THEORY.

 

[Yoyo2233]

It depends on the environment. For example say the earth dropped 40° F for good. Many animals that already live in cold climates would likely freeze to death. Maybe those with subhuman genetics that mutated them and allowed them to have ridiculous amounts of fur (maybe the 1% of some mutated polar bear) survive, and the 99% die off. The only thing left is that one mutated population of polar bear with a ridiculous amount of fur. As a result they breed and the only thing left is a new population of polar bears with excessive fur.

Thats how natural selection works in theory, but keep in mind whether or not evolution is true or not I have no clue. That's just how it works, IN THEORY.

Well what are some traits wth at are absolutely selected for in human males?

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Well what are some traits wth at are absolutely selected for in human males?

At the moment, nothing. Natural selection is a wide definition though. Natural selection is literally just this bullshit lingo for "genetic traits that don't survive, do not survive"

it's literally just stating the obvious if you fully understand it.

 

[Bitch]

Because life is a one tough fucking competition that is going on 24/7.

 

[oatmeal]

At the moment, nothing. Natural selection is a wide definition though. Natural selection is literally just this bullshit lingo for "genetic traits that don't survive, do not survive"

it's literally just stating the obvious if you fully understand it.

+ the genetic traits that are passing are not actually very helpful nowadays.

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Yes the majority of men has always been disposable, (used for wars, dangerous jobs, wageslaving, betabuxxing etc) only top tier men reaps all the rewards in life while we fight for scraps.

All females have to do is not get fat, be loyal, submissive and they can attract >80% of men.
Rigged shit fr

 

[Deleted member 10782]

Basic evolution and natural selection. We are just monkeys playing dress up. Women cannot be blamed for the way the are, because it's their nature. They evolved to choose the most attractive mate to reproduce with. Attractiveness has a strong correlation to fitness and chance of reproduction.

You can't be mad at the dating market or at the blackpill, because it's nature. It's like getting mad at the fact that we need water to survive, or that sometimes it rains. All you can do is accept it and HONK.

What I find unfair is that the world chooses to hide and reject the blackpill, rather than making it public knowledge. That is a conscious choice made by humans, which is a power move to benefit chads and women. You could argue this is natural as well, but I think it's more political.

Even if it won't change the state of the dating market, I will feel happier when eventually most people accept the blackpill and understand what the odds really are and how the world really works. But that will never happen as most people are low IQ. Unfortunately, women do not select for high IQ.

 

[Deleted member 6341]

At the moment, nothing. Natural selection is a wide definition though. Natural selection is literally just this bullshit lingo for "genetic traits that don't survive, do not survive"

it's literally just stating the obvious if you fully understand it.

Sluts aren't having Chad's babies though, they're having protected sex and taking birth control pills. And most fathers in modern society are weak boned guys who look like they are cooperative partners who will help with the kids. Unironically, beta men and very low IQ men pass more of their genes on to the next generation because they are more likely to get married and have kids compared to all the "blackpillers".

 

[Deleted member 8576]

natural selection

 

[Deleted member 6341]

Well what are some traits wth at are absolutely selected for in human males?

Height is absolutely selected for. I've noticed looking at couples the man is always taller no matter what women refuse to date someone shorter than them unless he's extremely good looking. And even then I would say it is better to be a 6'3" high tier normie than a 5'8" Chad.

Look at this couple (for example). The man looks tall and big framed. He has a bad face, but he has a white wife, and she is better looking than him. I would say the facial difference between them is at least 2 PSL points, but the guy's height and frame somewhat compensate for his lack of facial attractiveness. If the guy were 5'7", he would be a typical Chinese incel, but he isn't.

 

[Yoyo2233]

Basic evolution and natural selection. We are just monkeys playing dress up. Women cannot be blamed for the way the are, because it's their nature. They evolved to choose the most attractive mate to reproduce with. Attractiveness has a strong correlation to fitness and chance of reproduction.

You can't be mad at the dating market or at the blackpill, because it's nature. It's like getting mad at the fact that we need water to survive, or that sometimes it rains. All you can do is accept it and HONK.

What I find unfair is that the world chooses to hide and reject the blackpill, rather than making it public knowledge. That is a conscious choice made by humans, which is a power move to benefit chads and women. You could argue this is natural as well, but I think it's more political.

Even if it won't change the state of the dating market, I will feel happier when eventually most people accept the blackpill and understand what the odds really are and how the world really works. But that will never happen as most people are low IQ. Unfortunately, women do not select for high IQ.

What do you mean attraction has a strong correlation to fitness? What does “fitness” mean? The man who can run the fastest etc

 

[Gonthar]

Back in the old days there was someone for everyone, most people would get a girlfriend at an early age and marry her after a while, it was uncommon to have been in multiple relationships and girls who whored around were usually slut-shamed.

 

[Deleted member 5349]

Height is absolutely selected for. I've noticed looking at couples the man is always taller no matter what women refuse to date someone shorter than them unless he's extremely good looking. And even then I would say it is better to be a 6'3" high tier normie than a 5'8" Chad.

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Look at this couple (for example). The man looks tall and big framed. He has a bad face, but he has a white wife, and she is better looking than him. I would say the facial difference between them is at least 2 PSL points, but the guy's height and frame somewhat compensate for his lack of facial attractiveness. If the guy were 5'7", he would be a typical Chinese incel, but he isn't.

Height + frame are extremely important as they indicate a strong protection factor which is ideal for child rearing, tribe protection, and fighting success/resource accumulation in a more primitive environment that humans evolved in. There are studies that show height and frame account for 70% of attraction