Magical Apple
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You see the first thing a woman needs to prove to me is that she is a rational agent who will act within a predictable and reasonable self interest. A woman who does not act in a rational self interest even if she is a person with very good intentions is as problematic as a psychopath.
The second thing I need to trust a woman is, not her word but rather a clearly observable reality in such that her cheating on me or causing harm to me will cause enough harm to her in return that it does not benefit her self interest. While this is in no way an exact science its a very good place to start on finding out whether you can trust a woman for a long term relationship.
@Collagen or rope @AlexAP
The second thing I need to trust a woman is, not her word but rather a clearly observable reality in such that her cheating on me or causing harm to me will cause enough harm to her in return that it does not benefit her self interest. While this is in no way an exact science its a very good place to start on finding out whether you can trust a woman for a long term relationship.
@Collagen or rope @AlexAP