What is charisma

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Why is someone charismatic???
 
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Charisma is when you start twerking every day 2 times a day, you need to be disciplined for this tho not many guys stick to it. Just get in front of a mirror and shake that ass, great for Testosterone
 
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Charisma is when you start twerking every day 2 times a day, you need to be disciplined for this tho not many guys stick to it. Just get in front of a mirror and shake that ass, great for Testosterone
just be shaniqua theory
 
Charisma is a type of charm, a social magnet that naturally attracts people towards you

Charisma is knowing how to listen and relate to others. It’s about being able to make others smile and laugh, to brighten their day, to teach them something

When you’re charismatic, people listen to you, they imitate you, they look up to you
 
Charisma is when you have good maxilla, zygos, mandible, and ramus
 
Charisma is a type of charm, a social magnet that naturally attracts people towards you

Charisma is knowing how to relate and listen to others. It’s about being able to make others smile and laugh, to brighten their day, to teach them something

When you’re charismatic, people listen to you, they imitate you, they look up to you
how does a nigga become charismatic
 
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how does a nigga become charismatic
It’s depends on where you’re starting. Being sociable is spectrum. Some people are really good at it while others can barely handle a conversation

If you’re autistic or non NT, it’s gonna be really difficult, if not nearly impossible to be charismatic sadly

For most people, practicing is good for improving social skills and confidence. Don’t just open your mouth and speak. You should listen, engage and contribute to discussions appropriately. Maybe sign up for public speaking courses or get yourself a friend to practice with
 
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Good question. The average response that you will get on .org is that it's bones/face which is true but not entirely. Being truly charismatic as well as unique means owning yourself completely and unapologetically, good and bad. The biggest mistake people do when trying to become charismatic/unique is trying to perfect themselves until they have no flaws left (both physical and personality wise) but this is a mistake. Having some flaws proves that you are human and makes you overall more relatable and show confidence through the fact that you own your short comings. Being charismatic isn't even being NT or extroverted although that does help.
Andy Warhol was one of the biggest artists in the 70-80s and yet he was known for being a cold cunt who did whatever he pleased, he would show up to parties and people would gather around him, he would also leave unnanounced and would generally be a poster boy for autists everywhere. He wasn't from a rich or influential family, he wasn't handsome, in fact he was bald, skinny and wore a white wig and yet people were obsessed with him and his work despite being trashy (literally painted cans of tomato soup). What was his secret ? Owning all of himself, he couldn't be extroverted and bubbly like other artists or fake being the tortured artist kind. He just was himself despite what other people expected from him and thus ultimately set himself apart from other artists despite him being rather mediocre.
 
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Be like prime @Squidwardmaxx at 15.
 
Good question. The average response that you will get on .org is that it's bones/face which is true but not entirely. Being truly charismatic as well as unique means owning yourself completely and unapologetically, good and bad. The biggest mistake people do when trying to become charismatic/unique is trying to perfect themselves until they have no flaws left (both physical and personality wise) but this is a mistake. Having some flaws proves that you are human and makes you overall more relatable and show confidence through the fact that you own your short comings. Being charismatic isn't even being NT or extroverted although that does help.
Andy Warhol was one of the biggest artists in the 70-80s and yet he was known for being a cold cunt who did whatever he pleased, he would show up to parties and people would gather around him, he would also leave unnanounced and would generally be a poster boy for autists everywhere. He wasn't from a rich or influential family, he wasn't handsome, in fact he was bald, skinny and wore a white wig and yet people were obsessed with him and his work despite being trashy (literally painted cans of tomato soup). What was his secret ? Owning all of himself, he couldn't be extroverted and bubbly like other artists or fake being the tortured artist kind. He just was himself despite what other people expected from him and thus ultimately set himself apart from other artists despite him being rather mediocre.
so just deeper version of “just be yourself bro”. I agree tho, most charismatic guy i know isn’t best looking nor the funniest, he’s just….. likable and shines the room with his presence its real superpower. Maybe high agreeableness is the key
 
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so just deeper version of “just be yourself bro”. I agree tho, most charismatic guy i know isn’t best looking nor the funniest, he’s just….. likable and shines the room with his presence its real superpower. Maybe high agreeableness is the key
Precisely, it's less about being a social butterfly and more abt owning yourself completely which sound bluepilled as fuck but it's true. Warhol was quite a disagreeable man so I think it still ultimately boils to having the courage to be yourself because the thing is that you can be a highly agreeable person and still be seen by other as "fake" and you can be disagreeable and be seen as "real" and "authentic".
Most people have this wrong idea both about looks and charisma/personality/uniqueness that it's a size fits all "When I look like this I will finally be everyone's type" or " After I work on myself I will be able to have lots of friends" but the truth of the matter is that you will always have people who will dislike you no matter what you do but you will also find people who will like you as a whole.
 
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being out going most top comedians are not Chads and people still laugh at their jokes charisma also come from life experience and being confident in yourself
 
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being out going most top comedians are not Chads and people still laugh at their jokes charisma also come from life experience and being confident in yourself
nah man thats just jestermaxxing, charismatic guy just walks into the room and everyone likes him
 

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