What is even the point of leaving the basement if you have a shit time every single time you do it?

[apocalypse]

I've agreed to go out with some randoms many times in the last few weeks, forcing myself to leave the basement more like Jim Carrey

Thing is I suffered profoundly every time and had a terrible time and got nothing but misery from it.
I would just stay quiet for 95% of the time and let myself get NT-mogged to Hades, sometimes even with people pointing out how I don't talk much.

What is the point of repeating this exercise in futility and masochism? What argument do I have to not just call it a day and just stop socializing with people completely? I have no choice but to hermitmaxx

I never wanted it to be like this

 

[ballskin]

I've agreed to go out with some randoms many times in the last few weeks, forcing myself to leave the basement more like Jim Carrey

Thing is I suffered profoundly every time and had a terrible time and got nothing but misery from it.
I would just stay quiet for 95% of the time and let myself get NT-mogged to Hades, sometimes even with people pointing out how I don't talk much.

What is the point of repeating this exercise in futility and masochism? What argument do I have to not just call it a day and just stop socializing with people completely? I have no choice but to hermitmaxx

I never wanted it to be like this

Why are you going out with random people? Go by yourself and expose yourself before doing that, then overtime with very close friends meet up and do stuff like Watch a movie. Take it slowly.
Go to your local toastmasters as well to break the inhibitions.

 

[apocalypse]

Why are you going out with random people? Go by yourself and expose yourself before doing that, then overtime with very close friends meet up and do stuff like Watch a movie. Take it slowly.
Go to your local toastmasters as well to break the inhibitions.

My "friends" hate me

 

[Deleted member 4430]

this
thats the reasson i isolated myself, fucked my life

 

[apocalypse]

this
thats the reasson i isolated myself, fucked my life

Legit

 

[stamaster21]

Why are you going out with random people? Go by yourself and expose yourself before doing that, then overtime with very close friends meet up and do stuff like Watch a movie. Take it slowly.
Go to your local toastmasters as well to break the inhibitions.

Yup thats the problem going out with randoms sucks, if those people don't have a connection with you and or see you as high value person.
meeting up with friends going to see a movie, maybe have a sports night were you go to a bar to watch a sports game.

 

[DesperadoRatado]

you need looks, money and status to have fun at night outs

while incel sits in the corner contemplating suicide, chad has already made lasting memories that'll stay with him forever