what is life experience for mentacels with asperger here?

[MagaPutinism]

its hard for me to socialize

 

[Incellectually_Shy]

This will take a bit...I'll offer my response later.

 

[MagaPutinism]

This will take a bit...I'll offer my response later.

nice

 

[Zer0/∞]

its hard for me to socialize

@AutismVictim @Incellectually_Shy @Nobagger @Bvnny @foofuufou @HAPAgymcel

 

[Zer0/∞]

@Bvnny.

 

[Incellectually_Shy]

Let's begin:

I was bullied in group therapy because of my anxiety and height. I was bullied in elementary school. I was shoved, laughed at, criticized by teachers and paced the playground alone.

 

[Deleted member 17723]

missed opportunities is what hurts the most. i had the same chances as my friends, but due to the fact that i have no awareness when it comes to social cues my teen years where miserable.

even when i got girls i would lose their interest over dumb things because of social retardation.

 

[Deleted member 17585]

Its always been hard for me to socialize but my biggest strength has been jestermaxxing and religionmaxxing but this may not work for you since my autism is different than yours. But overall my life is fine, I'm just in a tough spot atm

 

[Deleted member 3478]

I was always awkward chilling with someone or a group of people. Being monotone and unable to express emotions. Also lacking verbal wits and being unable to add “life” to a social situation.

This is why I stick to entirely online dating and looks fraud as much as possible to compensate. I’ve simply given up on “improving my social skills”

 

[Deleted member 17578]

i dont have autism, I dont have asperger. But still failed to socialize with normies and with women.

In the end it's all cope tbh. There's only 1 winner and that is whoever get results. No matter the mental/looks background

 

[SMVmaxxed #1 JIT]

aspergers is more than socializing ppl always figure out that I have sum type of mental handicap most times idk how tho
even ppl on discord and online apps recognize I might have a disability after a few convos

I wish I knew wat it was tho

 

[HAPAgymcel]

it fucking sucks, I can't fit into any coherent social circle (preventing me from le segs) so I just have a couple real friends across completely different classes

 

[Deleted member 3478]

aspergers is more than socializing ppl always figure out that I have sum type of mental handicap most times idk how tho
even ppl on discord and online apps recognize I might have a disability after a few convos

I wish I knew wat it was tho

I get away with it pretending to be tired/hung over/sick/busy. But eventually the cover is blown if I hang out with NT’s too much. I lack the ability to crack jokes all the time and talk a lot

 

[Deleted member 17723]

Its always been hard for me to socialize but my biggest strength has been jestermaxxing and religionmaxxing but this may not work for you since my autism is different than yours. But overall my life is fine, I'm just in a tough spot atm

religionmaxxing can be the healthiest or unhealtiest cope possible. just be wise and don't be a retarded Disneycel.

 

[Tusseleif]

Life experience, pretty shit. As a kid I had many friends and a good life, but I was still a bit weird nonetheless, but they were my best years up until age 13 and puberty. As a kid you can have a social life even with aspergers if you were properly socially developed from birth. But it’s over once puberty hits. Always lacked social awareness, skills, and if I didn’t have aspergers I most likely would live the same social and active life as my NT peers do. Teen years were just miserable. Ostracization, bullying, looksmin, loneliness, depression. Basically just rotted and played video games with no friends every all the time since I was 13-14. I’ve become better looking since then and been on dates, but they always fail because I’m weird socially, both NT-wise and personality-wise. It’s fucking impossible for me to be social and make aquaintances and even friends. They always become known with each other, but never me. Even the other outcast types make friends

 

[leslie4]

missed out on opportunities that i will never get back, i want more friends and a gf but i cant socialize, feels impossible to get a gf bc it's just cringe as fk to meet a girl bc i know that she will judge my autistic behaivor.

 

[Deleted member 17585]

religionmaxxing can be the healthiest or unhealtiest cope possible. just be wise and don't be a retarded Disneycel.

Its going fine rn its just im going along with it and seeing where god leads me

 

[Br0sk1]

Have all the friends I need and generally get along okay with coworkers.

Foids are where the battle has always been hard for me.

Got myself a landwhale gf I had for about 4.5 years so I could lose my virginity before turning 20. After dumping her, I've used online dating with little success, having met 12 (or maybe 13) women using it and typically getting rejected after the first date some time. One even rejected me after a video call and a phone conversation and declined an offer to go on a date.

 

[Deleted member 18789]

I always was lonely, and still am but now it's easier to cope without getting bullied anymore and I'm not controlled like kids are

 

[Deleted member 2382]

I drank to the point where every night I went out either ended in a slay or verbally abusing someone/getting into a fight
I am giga aspie when sober but when drunk I go on autopilot and will chat shit to absolutely anyone and approach countless girls

 

[Bvnny.]

missed opportunities is what hurts the most. i had the same chances as my friends, but due to the fact that i have no awareness when it comes to social cues my teen years where miserable.

even when i got girls i would lose their interest over dumb things because of social retardation.

Nigga is literally me

 

[Deleted member 17723]

Nigga is literally me

my friends even called me assexual a couple of times lol because they could clearly see that a girl i was talking to wanted me but ofc im retarded and too high inhib

 

[Bvnny.]

my friends even called me assexual a couple of times lol because they could clearly see that a girl i was talking to wanted me but ofc im retarded and too high inhib

I considered myself assexual during some of my high school years jfl

 

[Deleted member 17723]

I considered myself assexual during some of my high school years jfl

i just played video games and didnt care about girls. i was always a big Disneycel tho

i used to get a lot of attention in middle school, but once high school kicked in girls had already figured out that i'm retarded so they flaked to other guys.

in middle school a girl asked to kiss me and i didnt say anything and walked way. i have a lot of these stories lol

 

[MagaPutinism]

i just played video games and didnt care about girls. i was always a big Disneycel tho

i used to get a lot of attention in middle school, but once high school kicked in girls had already figured out that i'm retarded so they flaked to other guys.

in middle school a girl asked to kiss me and i didnt say anything and walked way. i have a lot of these stories lol

can relate