What is the least social suicide way to answer 'do you have a gf' as an incel?

[neurosis]

yes -> 'show us' -> error 404 -> caught in a lie -> cringe
no -> just outright signal to everyone youre an incel (kinda based)-> cringe

personally i think the phrase 'not at the moment' is optimal as it leaves it up to interpretation. he may have had a gf in the past, who knows

 

[Kiwi'sSub5]

yes -> 'show us' -> error 404 -> caught in a lie -> cringe
no -> just outright signal to everyone youre an incel (kinda based)-> cringe

personally i think the phrase 'not at the moment' is optimal as it leaves it up to interpretation. he may of had a gf in the past, who knows

ye thats a pretty smart answer honestly

 

[ey88]

Not right now

 

[Panzram]

yes -> 'show us' -> error 404 -> caught in a lie -> cringe
no -> just outright signal to everyone youre an incel (kinda based)-> cringe

personally i think the phrase 'not at the moment' is optimal as it leaves it up to interpretation. he may of had a gf in the past, who knows

i just say no and keep it at that, i don't have the energy to play bullshit games and hide my inceldom

 

[ey88]

i just say no and keep it at that, i don't have the energy to play bullshit games and hide my inceldom

Yeah no one gives a shit idk why he is making this such a big deal

 

[FaceandBBC]

Put a 9mm through their dome.

 

[renos]

Not right now is good

 

[niggacum492139]

they will know you are an incel as soon as they look at ur face no need to hide

 

[neurosis]

also just answering with a blunt 'no' comes across as very non nt and stand off ish, sort of like people ask you this question all the time and youre sick of it.

answering normie questions with binary definitive answers in general is quite ineffective, unless it benefits your reputation always be as vague and ambiguous as possible

incel social survival manual 101

 

[Pento]

Just say no, not anymore

 

[Tallcell]

Isn't it better just to say "it's hard to explain". That's what chicks do, right?

 

[Seth Walsh]

yes -> 'show us' -> error 404 -> caught in a lie -> cringe
no -> just outright signal to everyone youre an incel (kinda based)-> cringe

personally i think the phrase 'not at the moment' is optimal as it leaves it up to interpretation. he may have had a gf in the past, who knows

"Not at the moment" is cringe and insecure. Just say "no I don't"

 

[neurosis]

Isn't it better just to say "it's hard to explain". That's what chicks do, right?

comes across as if youre in a situationship or something, runs the risk of normies asking for evidence

 

[davidlaidisme67]

yes -> 'show us' -> error 404 -> caught in a lie -> cringe
no -> just outright signal to everyone youre an incel (kinda based)-> cringe

personally i think the phrase 'not at the moment' is optimal as it leaves it up to interpretation. he may have had a gf in the past, who knows

I legit make ai photos of me and my oneitis together just in case

 

[greycel]

“no” but give a short reasoning, not framed as defensive though (v important)

For example “no, I only really [good NT filler word] believe in one girl and one guy.. and I haven’t found that one girl yet [slight smile]”

 

[mbi876]

yes -> 'show us' -> error 404 -> caught in a lie -> cringe
no -> just outright signal to everyone youre an incel (kinda based)-> cringe

personally i think the phrase 'not at the moment' is optimal as it leaves it up to interpretation. he may have had a gf in the past, who knows

Just say no?? Lol

 

[Klasik616]

Yeah no one gives a shit idk why he is making this such a big deal

Women absolutely care
If you have a girlfriend they see you as a potential partner + "personality halo"

 

[qrdprdmrd]

I legit make ai photos of me and my oneitis together just in case

Bbbbb….based

 

[ey88]

Women absolutely care
If you have a girlfriend they see you as a potential partner + "personality halo"

Redpill cope

 

[Klasik616]

yes -> 'show us' -> error 404 -> caught in a lie -> cringe
no -> just outright signal to everyone youre an incel (kinda based)-> cringe

personally i think the phrase 'not at the moment' is optimal as it leaves it up to interpretation. he may have had a gf in the past, who knows

Say you never had one that's the best way to answer

 

[ey88]

Say you never had one that's the best way to answer

Nigga that has to be the worst way to answer

 

[Klasik616]

Redpill cope

Not actually,
When a dude doesn't have options women think he's a weirdo who has a bad personality.
Personality is not real remember.

 

[ey88]

Not actually
When a dude doesn't have options women think he's a weirdo who has a bad personality

Say you never had one that's the best way to answer

 

[Alias!]

yes -> 'show us' -> error 404 -> caught in a lie -> cringe
no -> just outright signal to everyone youre an incel (kinda based)-> cringe

personally i think the phrase 'not at the moment' is optimal as it leaves it up to interpretation. he may have had a gf in the past, who knows

Zog didn’t give me a government gf yet

 

[hilpolp]

yes -> 'show us' -> error 404 -> caught in a lie -> cringe
no -> just outright signal to everyone youre an incel (kinda based)-> cringe

personally i think the phrase 'not at the moment' is optimal as it leaves it up to interpretation. he may have had a gf in the past, who knows

I mean them just looking at your subhuman face should be enough

 

[neurosis]

are there anyways to imply you dont have a gf without implying you dont 'have a gf' ie arent totally sexually inexperienced essentially

 

[greycel]

also just answering with a blunt 'no' comes across as very non nt and stand off ish, sort of like people ask you this question all the time and youre sick of it.

answering normie questions with binary definitive answers in general is quite ineffective, unless it benefits your reputation always be as vague and ambiguous as possible

incel social survival manual 101

It completely depends on how you say it

If you say nope, stressing the “n” for half a second
N-oh-puh

While smiling slightly towards the end.. nobody would gaf, because you own it.
If you say “yes” or “no” like a robot, without any NT mannerisms.. then you’re ambiguous and people always assume the worst in those situations

 

[Klasik616]

Nigga that has to be the worst way to answer

It's a joke obviously unless you're antisocial and you want to make people disgusted.

 

[Eltrē]

It completely depends on how you say it

If you say nope, stressing the “n” for half a second
N-oh-puh

While smiling slightly towards the end.. nobody would gaf, because you own it.
If you say “yes” or “no” like a robot, without any NT mannerisms.. then you’re ambiguous and people always assume the worst in those situations

This is the most autistic post I've seen in months

 

[neurosis]

my biggest fear is if they follow up with something like 'have you ever had a gf' and then i just blankly stare at them

 

[Klasik616]

my biggest fear is if they follow up with something like 'have you ever had a gf' and then i just blankly stare at them

Time to create an story right of the sudden
I said a random name
Never let people know you're incel
Or they will leave you

 

[Seth Walsh]

my biggest fear is if they follow up with something like 'have you ever had a gf' and then i just blankly stare at them

Just tell them to fuck off. It's not some normie deposition. If they ask, say "no" and if they say have you ever had a gf just say "that's not important"

 

[greycel]

my biggest fear is if they follow up with something like 'have you ever had a gf' and then i just blankly stare at them

The types of people that would do that would be confrontational, or lower inhib, or it’s normalized for them and amongst the people they surround themselves with

That’s why during conversation it’s best you don’t leave yourself open to attack

If you leave a former situation as neutral, then you’ll be seen as weak if they pry and you fold.
It’s why owning up to it (at least slightly through your previous ambiguous answer) future-proofs yourself, and they don’t perceive victory when they get information that you had “hidden”, out of you

It sounds autistic as @Eltrē said, but all normies know the dynamics of social conduct
Only autistic people have difficulty learning/identifying them

 

[Seth Walsh]

The types of people that would do that would be confrontational, or lower inhib, or it’s normalized for them and amongst the people they surround themselves with

That’s why during conversation it’s best you don’t leave yourself open to attack

If you leave a former situation as neutral, then you’ll be seen as weak if they pry and you fold.
It’s why owning up to it (at least slightly through your previous ambiguous answer) future-proofs yourself, and they don’t perceive victory when they get information that you had “hidden”, out of you

It sounds autistic as @Eltrē said, but all normies know the dynamics of social conduct
Only autistic people have difficulty learning/identifying them

What to do if therapist asks "so, are you sexually active"?

 

[greycel]

What to do if therapist asks "so, are you sexually active"?
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I’m not intimidated by a roastie
“No”

 

[New Poster]

Just do what ever poster on here does: claim to get a ton of matches on dating apps, rated highly by other men, but can’t get a gf because non-nt

 

[widdi]

-Larp being Christian and waiting till marriage
-Say you are gay