What is there to do in life?

[polonaecel]

Very good, keep going like this


Find new friends



Start keeping contact with them


Talk to your dad and your mother and tell them that you don't know what to do with girls because you don't interact with them much in the past

Ask them first what you shouldn't do when talking / interacting with a girl, and then what to do / what's okay to do
Tell your mom to teach you / practice on her about dialogue / body touches, what's ok and what's not, etc. to become more confident in yourself
Try reaching out to your cousins, boys or girls if they're around your age (with boys if they're more successful with girls, get them to tell you how they're doing, how they got over the emotions and fear of the unknown from the beginning), and with your female cousins, try to spend more time with them, interact face-to-face with them, so that your body and mind become much more familiar and comfortable with the idea of being around a female presence similar to your age


Very good


Talk to your parents about all these things, they are the ones who should and can help you. Things won't work themselves out if you don't ask for outside help
We are social creatures, we are not made to build and do things alone, we need team and cooperation

Im scared to tell my parents
and i cant find new friends

 

[Daddy's Home]

would a foid let someone like this slay?

 

[Outlander]

the first doesnt align with second buddy lol, been there though keep pushing nga

Wym

 

[be_brutal_pls]

Wym

the way ur living doesnt make any sense but i have done the same in highschool

 

[Outlander]

the way ur living doesnt make any sense but i have done the same in highschool

Lol

 

[Daddy's Home]

Im scared to tell my parents

That's a big problem. Your parents should theoretically be your best friends, the people you go to for help when you have the biggest problems in life. In any case, nothing bad would happen if you tell them, so just do it, it's not like they'll hurt you, right..? Like they're just your parents son..

i cant find new friends

This is theoretically impossible. Tell your parents to take you to some classes / dances / sports / social places where young people of your age who have similar interests like you gather, after school, and there you can make new friends very easily..

 

[polonaecel]

That's a big problem. Your parents should theoretically be your best friends, the people you go to for help when you have the biggest problems in life. In any case, nothing bad would happen if you tell them, so just do it, it's not like they'll hurt you, right..? Like they're just your parents son..



This is theoretically impossible. Tell your parents to take you to some classes / dances / sports / social places where young people of your age who have similar interests like you gather, after school, and there you can make new friends very easily..

Im really horrible at socialising my dad had to shout at me so i'd do something involving talking to someone
and yes im open with a lot of things about my parents but i cant handle the awkwardness of asking about girls
they told me that i don't need to get one now and i'll come to get one eventually

 

[gooner23]

your supposed to feel exactly that, heodnism will keep you like that. This is why religion, drugs, and motiviational videos exist coping should not have a negative connotation thats how you get by, you will get everything you want and still want more

 

[Daddy's Home]

Im really horrible at socialising my dad had to shout at me so i'd do something involving talking to someone
and yes im open with a lot of things about my parents but i cant handle the awkwardness of asking about girls
they told me that i don't need to get one now and i'll come to get one eventually

Yeah, so basically they're retarded and useless. Talk to the principal at your school if there isn't a school psychologist that you can actually talk to about your problems

Go to the doctor where you usually go with your parents, but alone now, and ask them to refer you to a psychologist / therapist, because you feel that you have big social problems, and with that one you will be able to tell him all your problems

Theoretically, these things most of the time should be solved in the family with your parents, but they are too retarded to really take care of you, gain your trust, and help / support you in solving the problems

As an idea, some normal parents would have dressed you well / get your a good haircut / keep you clean and in top physical condition / taught you from the age of 12-14 how to behave with girls, how to talk to them, how to touch them, etc. and even from then, from the beginning of high school / end of primary school, you could have already had your first more intimate interactions with them

 

[vision_n]

All i do is rot at home
not even games or this forum provide me dopamine like it used to
i look forward to the summer but now i dread it
because ill go crazy from the lack of social interaction which i only get at school
and i cant bring myself to do anything productive due to my pessimistic and defeatist mindset
how do i combat this?

adderal

 

[vision_n]

alright nah im sorry for my reply, didnt undertsand your case fully

all the best

 

[polonaecel]

Yeah, so basically they're retarded and useless. Talk to the principal at your school if there isn't a school psychologist that you can actually talk to about your problems

Go to the doctor where you usually go with your parents, but alone now, and ask them to refer you to a psychologist / therapist, because you feel that you have big social problems, and with that one you will be able to tell him all your problems

Theoretically, these things most of the time should be solved in the family with your parents, but they are too retarded to really take care of you, gain your trust, and help / support you in solving the problems

As an idea, some normal parents would have dressed you well / get your a good haircut / keep you clean and in top physical condition / taught you from the age of 12-14 how to behave with girls, how to talk to them, how to touch them, etc. and even from then, from the beginning of high school / end of primary school, you could have already had your first more intimate interactions with them

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im too scared to tell anyone about this except other people online, my parents taught me how to do everything its just im too much of a loser to put it into practice
bullying also mostly made me less social with others and i never told my parents about that because i thought "it wasnt that bad"

 

[Robloxfan25]

All i do is rot at home
not even games or this forum provide me dopamine like it used to
i look forward to the summer but now i dread it
because ill go crazy from the lack of social interaction which i only get at school
and i cant bring myself to do anything productive due to my pessimistic and defeatist mindset
how do i combat this?

I can’t hop on a game pass like 20 mins either

 

[Daddy's Home]

im too scared to tell anyone

Your parents, or as I said, a psychologist from the doctor or school

I know it's hard because of the bullying in the past, but you have to start somewhere, things won't fix themselves, they'll just get worse

You need to regain your confidence. Go play a sport (even chess) after school, get good at it, beat other kids at it, and understand again that you can be strong and in control of your life

 

[polonaecel]

Your parents, or as I said, a psychologist from the doctor or school

My fear is the psychologist or parents will laugh at me when i bring up that the blackpill hurts me too
and i fear i have a victim complex and all the bullying is just being overexagerrated by me

I know it's hard because of the bullying in the past, but you have to start somewhere, things won't fix themselves, they'll just get worse

Im trying man, im trying but everything is just demotivating
I used to be called fat, i lost 10kg now they just call me ugly
and make fun of me for being weak

You need to regain your confidence. Go play a sport (even chess) after school, get good at it, beat other kids at it, and understand again that you can be strong and in control of your life

I tried to get good at sports but they make fun of me for how i run
and i can never get good at anything, i sued to play footballs hours everyday but i was horrible at it

 

[kisslessvirgin]

drugs & escorts

 

[Daddy's Home]

My fear is the psychologist or parents will laugh at me

They won't, they're there to help you, not judge you. You need to talk to them, they are your only anchor in this life. If they fall, everything falls. They gave birth to you and raised you until now. Your mother cooks you food every day not so that you feel the way you do now. Something is wrong with you, and they need to know that, like when you're sick, and they give you medicine because you have a headache

when i bring up that the blackpill hurts me too

You don't tell them about the blackpill lol, what correlation does it have, you just tell them what social problems you have / how you were treated / that you're not good at sports / how you were called ugly and isolated / how this affects you psychologically etc. and psychologists will be able to help you with exactly these problems

I used to be called fat, i lost 10kg now they just call me ugly
and make fun of me for being weak

i fear i have a victim complex and all the bullying is just being overexagerrated by me

This is not an exaggeration, it's a real problem, that's what I'm telling you now, here. You need help, and you need fast, because you are young. If you don't fix these things, you'll be going through life with the handbrake on all your life

i can never get good at anything

This is theoretically impossible. Try other sports that are more individual, not team based, like swimming, boxing, wrestling, etc. where you can become good only through passion and your own work. If you are not an athletic person / who likes physical activities, try mental ones, like I said, for example chess

 

[polonaecel]

This is theoretically impossible.

Possible with the mindset i have
and the fear of just telling anyone in general is overcoming me so im forced into this spot where im doomed to fail

try mental ones, like I said, for example chess

I used to be decent at speedcubing, could solve a rubikes cube in about 20-25s on average im prob gonna get back into it soon
its quite fun
this was when i was 10

 

[Daddy's Home]

the fear of just telling anyone in general is overcoming me so im forced into this spot where im doomed to fail

Start talking to Grok / ChatGPT / Gemini about these issues. Give them all the details and ask for solutions in terms of what you are willing to do and what you are not

They will be able to help you a lot with what you can start doing, they are very useful in this regard when you give them very detailed details and look for concrete solutions

 

[polonaecel]

Start talking to Grok / ChatGPT / Gemini about these issues. Give them all the details and ask for solutions in terms of what you are willing to do and what you are not

They will be able to help you a lot with what you can start doing, they are very useful in this regard when you give them very detailed details and look for concrete solutions

Ill give it a shot, thanks
claude ai mogs tho

 

[Sayori]

All i do is rot at home
not even games or this forum provide me dopamine like it used to
i look forward to the summer but now i dread it
because ill go crazy from the lack of social interaction which i only get at school
and i cant bring myself to do anything productive due to my pessimistic and defeatist mindset
how do i combat this?

drugs

 

[Diyorldar]

drugs

Can confirm

 

[polonaecel]

drugs

Drugs wont change my subhumanity

 

[takethezincpill]

Im the only person my age at church

its just so fucking over im sorry dude

 

[moreroidsmoref0ids]

All i do is rot at home
not even games or this forum provide me dopamine like it used to
i look forward to the summer but now i dread it
because ill go crazy from the lack of social interaction which i only get at school
and i cant bring myself to do anything productive due to my pessimistic and defeatist mindset
how do i combat this?

1 gram of test will fix all of your problems

 

[Luquier]

They won't, they're there to help you, not judge you. You need to talk to them, they are your only anchor in this life. If they fall, everything falls. They gave birth to you and raised you until now. Your mother cooks you food every day not so that you feel the way you do now. Something is wrong with you, and they need to know that, like when you're sick, and they give you medicine because you have a headache


You don't tell them about the blackpill lol, what correlation does it have, you just tell them what social problems you have / how you were treated / that you're not good at sports / how you were called ugly and isolated / how this affects you psychologically etc. and psychologists will be able to help you with exactly these problems



This is not an exaggeration, it's a real problem, that's what I'm telling you now, here. You need help, and you need fast, because you are young. If you don't fix these things, you'll be going through life with the handbrake on all your life


This is theoretically impossible. Try other sports that are more individual, not team based, like swimming, boxing, wrestling, etc. where you can become good only through passion and your own work. If you are not an athletic person / who likes physical activities, try mental ones, like I said, for example chess

I'm going to answer you in the most brutal and realistic way possible

First of all before I answer you that, from where did you come into this life, and for what purpose?

The answer is, your parents brought you here, and the reason is because your mother found your father attractive enough and capable enough to support a family, so he deserved to let her pregnant and pass on his gene, because that means you, from their gene, have a good chance of continuing our species, and your father decided to ejaculate in your mom because he found her attractive, and that she would make beautiful & healthy children

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Basically, you're here because your parents had faith that you'd be able to breed in the future because of their genetics, and carry our species forward

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That's why they taught you to talk, to go to kindergarten to interact with other people and be social, to go to school to learn to have a career to make money to be able to financially support a family, instead of staying at home all day..

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So you were born and conceived and taught with the ultimate goal of asking a woman to be your wife, and produce children with her, work to make money to keep them alive, grow old, die, and your children do the same, with the hope that our species will multiply, dominate the planet, eventually the universe, etc. and to be at the top of the food chain

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2ndly, all these are theoretical things, in practice things are much more complicated

Life for the majority of the planet's population is absolutely miserable and an ongoing suffering/depression/lack of opportunity and improvement, a hell on earth with no access to resources, education, medicine, water, food, labor rights, modern day slavery, chronic diseases etc.

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But regardless of these conditions, most people continue to do 2 things, want love and want children, whether they live in downtown New York or in a isolated tribe in Africa

This is because the parents of any child were born with the thought that they deserve to be loved and to multiply

3rd thing, now I will answer your question:



Given your particular situation where you supposedly have access to the internet and this forum, you probably live in decent conditions anyway, what you should do in this life is:

You go to school, you learn to be useful to society in one way or another, and based on that you gain material (money) and human resources (friends, relationships), you find a girl, marry her, have sex, have children, raise them and teach them to do all these points too, you grow old, you retire, you die

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So in theory, you have a lot of things to do in life, but when you feel that there is nothing to do, it means that you probably got lost / stopped on the way somewhere, and started doing other things as coping mechanisms (spend a lot of time on the Internet daily and consume any form of audio and video media, watch movies / anime, video games, root on the bed, scroll on the phone to short videos, consumption of alcohol, drugs, excessive viewing of pornography, etc.), by which you just wait for time to pass, for reality to change by itself / solve by itself, and after that you continue this path above





Is there any solution to these things so that you can move on in life?

My answer is probably yes, but we don't know it for your particular situation, and most likely you won't know the answer anyway, because the fact that you stuck/coping doesn't happen by accident, it comes from external things that you can't control, because if it wasn't for causes outside of your control, you would have solved them, like you solve thirst by drinking water

Now that we know these things, and judging by your likely age (you're probably in high school), you in life should do the following (theoretically speaking):

- you make friends / connections and learn to be as social / outgoing as possible, spend as much time as possible with them in real life / outside of school

- get a girlfriend and experience love with her, so you know what to do practically when you have a girlfriend as an adult

- study well at school to get to a good university to have a good career afterwards

An interesting thing is that your parents should make sure that you will be able to do this, and if they don't, you should ask them for explanations / ask for their help to work these things out together

If they can't help you either, well, you should talk to a teacher at school to help you / you go to a doctor and tell him your problem / problems to help you, and they will send you to specialized help (therapy / psychologist) who will listen to you and try to give you practical and concrete solutions, point by point, to all your problems

If you can't fix your situation even after talking to these people, well.. ngl is kinda gg..

High IQ and large text size pilled

 

[Luquier]

I tried to get good at sports but they make fun of me for how i run
and i can never get good at anything, i sued to play footballs hours everyday but i was horrible at it

BIG MAN LUQUIER KEEP RUNNING LETS GO

 

[ascendingincel3179]

just like me

lmk if u figure it out

 

[polonaecel]

just like me

lmk if u figure it out

I actually have

I found games i find fun so thats that

 

[iblamexyz]

All i do is rot at home

go to mass

 

[ascendingincel3179]

ngl yea only way my power cut i had no games my life had no purpose

maybe when i ascend and get a better personality more opportunites to do shit will come