what is worse, not being able to cum or cumming too quickly?

[Aw Shucks III]

when gooning i can make myself cum in like 4 mins but sex with a condom is worthless i dont feel shit and last forever, whats worse, and what can i do to mitigate either?

 

[Aw Shucks III]

1000% serious btw

 

[Deleted member 259412]

2nd for her
1st for you

 

[Amex.]

2nd for her
1st for you

why would you want to cum quickly with a girl?

 

[Deleted member 259412]

why would you want to cum quickly with a girl?

Better than the first option

 

[sub3forfemcels]

ignore list

 

[PharmaPhaggot]

Get a thinner condom if you wanna cum faster

 

[dudebroguy]

You masturbate too much. Never use your hand to masturbate, it destroys the nerves you have something called "death grip syndrome". The solution is hilarious but it works:
1. Stop watching porn.

2. Get DHT gel/oil and put this on your dick and balls this will reinvigorate your dick and make it work as intended. You'd want to be on TRT while doing this as exogenous DHT will interrupt hypothalamic–pituitary–gonadal axis. (this step MAY be skipped but it helps a lot)

3. You need to buy a pocket pussy and basically fold a pillow in half, put the pocket pussy in there and use a belt to hold the contraption together and prop it up on your bed. You fuck that instead of masturbating, this will acclimate your brain to cumming through hip movement instead of using your hands and puts less nerve pressure on than using your hands.

Literally never masturbate by hand again. It fucks your brain up. I don't care what anyone says, this is the solution it worked for me nothing else did. I didn't enjoy sex until I did this.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

when gooning i can make myself cum in like 4 mins but sex with a condom is worthless i dont feel shit and last forever, whats worse, and what can i do to mitigate either?

You simply need to fuck more. It's all to do with the wiring of the brain. It's more acquainted with masturbation and probably porn.

I was the same way when I got married. At first I couldn't get it up for her, and then after I was able to get it up I couldn't bust. After about a month though I could have sex with her normally. Before her I had plenty of sex with girls who I didn't care about and never had any problems. With her I had to rewire my brain toward having sex with a woman I actually loved.

The movie Shame highlights this phenomenon. It's about a Wallstreet chad who's addicted to sex. In one scene he takes a girl back to his apartment and cannot get it up for her because he's actually trying to date her. He has feelings for her. After trying to fuck she apologizes and asks her to leave. Then he calls a hooker over and rails the shit out of her.

 

[Bullofturkishfoids]

You masturbate too much. Never use your hand to masturbate, it destroys the nerves you have something called "death grip syndrome". The solution is hilarious but it works:
1. Stop watching porn.

2. Get DHT gel/oil and put this on your dick and balls this will reinvigorate your dick and make it work as intended. You'd want to be on TRT while doing this as exogenous DHT will interrupt hypothalamic–pituitary–gonadal axis. (this step MAY be skipped but it helps a lot)

3. You need to buy a pocket pussy and basically fold a pillow in half, put the pocket pussy in there and use a belt to hold the contraption together and prop it up on your bed. You fuck that instead of masturbating, this will acclimate your brain to cumming through hip movement instead of using your hands and puts less nerve pressure on than using your hands.

Literally never masturbate by hand again. It fucks your brain up. I don't care what anyone says, this is the solution it worked for me nothing else did. I didn't enjoy sex until I did this.

Could I please DM you I wanna fix this problem and need help from someone that solved it in fact can you DM me im somehow not able to DM I dunno why

 

[Aw Shucks III]

2. Get DHT gel/oil and put this on your dick and balls this will reinvigorate your dick and make it work as intended. You'd want to be on TRT while doing this as exogenous DHT will interrupt hypothalamic–pituitary–gonadal axis. (this step MAY be skipped but it helps a lot)

couldnt dht gel make me bald doe?

 

[Aw Shucks III]

3. You need to buy a pocket pussy and basically fold a pillow in half, put the pocket pussy in there and use a belt to hold the contraption together and prop it up on your bed. You fuck that instead of masturbating, this will acclimate your brain to cumming through hip movement instead of using your hands and puts less nerve pressure on than using your hands.

what if i just dont touch my dick at all for a couple months would that work? pocket pussy sounds kinda gay to me icl

 

[Aw Shucks III]

You simply need to fuck more. It's all to do with the wiring of the brain. It's more acquainted with masturbation and probably porn.

I was the same way when I got married. At first I couldn't get it up for her, and then after I was able to get it up I couldn't bust. After about a month though I could have sex with her normally. Before her I had plenty of sex with girls who I didn't care about and never had any problems. With her I had to rewire my brain toward having sex with a woman I actually loved.

The movie Shame highlights this phenomenon. It's about a Wallstreet chad who's addicted to sex. In one scene he takes a girl back to his apartment and cannot get it up for her because he's actually trying to date her. He has feelings for her. After trying to fuck she apologizes and asks her to leave. Then he calls a hooker over and rails the shit out of her.

thank you mr rankin

 

[dudebroguy]

couldnt dht gel make me bald doe?

Might. If your dick doesn't work then what is the point of having hair to attract women. If you have this problem it really sucks it makes you hesitate when you hit on women, even if they're interested in you, you think forward and realize there is no point.

My hair is fine and I'm on a heaps high dose of testosterone. I was using a lot more of the DHT gel in the beginning and then one day I got a blowjob and it just worked. I was amazed. This shit just works.

 

[dudebroguy]

Could I please DM you I wanna fix this problem and need help from someone that solved it in fact can you DM me im somehow not able to DM I dunno why

i sent DM

 

[dudebroguy]

what if i just dont touch my dick at all for a couple months would that work? pocket pussy sounds kinda gay to me icl

Won't work. You need to do this like a workout. It's not gay, it's less gay than masturbating by hand if we're going to classify this by levels of gayness.

Your brain is fucked because you've been destroying the nerves in your dick with your hand and acclimating your brain into thinking you're succeeding in life by choking your dick with your hand (instead of thrusting your hips into pussy) while staring at pixels on a screen representing other people having sex.

You could also fix this by just having lots of sex but the girls will not appreciate being used as practice to make your dick work. By having the pocket pussy you can just do this without embarrassment in the privacy of your own home.