frentanyl
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How do you guys text a girl with the intention of moving things forward?? I normally do the following
"hi, you in [city]?"
they will then say yes (because I already stalked all their pics and stuff and know where they live down to the neighbourhood)
"how come I never see you around? where are you hiding?"
they will then say they're not hiding
...and that is basically the opening. From there, I will ask stuff about them like are they at uni, what's their age (I try to avoid this now because it makes me have to admit I am like 10 years older than them sometimes lol) and then I will ask for their number, or just ask them to go out and have a drink or whatever.
The thing is... on dating apps (unlike Instagram) it is OBVIOUS that you are in the same city, so that opener doesn't make sense.
What is your guys message sequence to actually push the meeting forward and not just get stuck in the classic "hi how are u" "im good wbu" "im good" situation??
"hi, you in [city]?"
they will then say yes (because I already stalked all their pics and stuff and know where they live down to the neighbourhood)
"how come I never see you around? where are you hiding?"
they will then say they're not hiding
...and that is basically the opening. From there, I will ask stuff about them like are they at uni, what's their age (I try to avoid this now because it makes me have to admit I am like 10 years older than them sometimes lol) and then I will ask for their number, or just ask them to go out and have a drink or whatever.
The thing is... on dating apps (unlike Instagram) it is OBVIOUS that you are in the same city, so that opener doesn't make sense.
What is your guys message sequence to actually push the meeting forward and not just get stuck in the classic "hi how are u" "im good wbu" "im good" situation??
