What I’ve learned being on this forum for 3 years

[AspiringMogger]

- The things you *need* to do are often the ones you want to do the least.

- You choose if you want to play the game. You don’t choose whether you win, but you choose *if* you want to play or not.

- Time is moving. Don’t stand still. If you feel stuck, it’s because you are stuck. You don’t have to be qualified. Just apply.

- Don’t do anything you don’t want to. The root of every decision comes from a desire to do something. Don’t be surprised if people start expecting of you, things you did out of your own free will.

 

[Deleted member 96018]

- The things you *need* to do are often the ones you want to do the least.

- You choose if you want to play the game. You don’t choose whether you win, but you choose *if* you want to play or not.

- Time is moving. Don’t stand still. If you feel stuck, it’s because you are stuck. You don’t have to be qualified. Just apply.

- Don’t do anything you don’t want to. The root of every decision comes from a desire to do something. Don’t be surprised if people start expecting of you, things you did out of your own free will.

1 and 4 kinda contradicting but I absolutely agree I cant even be mad because I am not even softmaxxed

 

[NinjaRG9]

- The things you *need* to do are often the ones you want to do the least.

- You choose if you want to play the game. You don’t choose whether you win, but you choose *if* you want to play or not.

- Time is moving. Don’t stand still. If you feel stuck, it’s because you are stuck. You don’t have to be qualified. Just apply.

- Don’t do anything you don’t want to. The root of every decision comes from a desire to do something. Don’t be surprised if people start expecting of you, things you did out of your own free will.

dnr

 

[Never Get Up]

 

[AspiringMogger]

1 and 4 kinda contradicting but I absolutely agree I cant even be mad because I am not even softmaxxed

I made point 4 longer, but I deleted it. Point 4 relates more to social interactions. Point 1 relates more to personal development.

 

[AspiringMogger]

dnr

I don’t believe you. You read every word I wrote.

 

[Accutane.and.ldar]

very inspiring op

 

[AspiringMogger]

very inspiring op

Thank you.

 

[NinjaRG9]

I don’t believe you. You read every word I wrote.

ur right

 

[Daddy's Home]

I learned that BP does not exist in real life, that people who place too much importance on their appearance (both girls and boys) are likely to have certain mental deficiencies / they are isolated / they come from abusive families, etc.

I also learned that making as many connections and social circles as possible is the best and most important thing you can do, because through them come opportunities for all kinds of resources (money, relationships, etc.), no matter how ugly or poor you are at the start

Less than 5% of those who take looksmaxing seriously actually manage to change their love life because of it, and the rest already looked good from the start, they just needed to take a shower, get a haircut, and buy some clothes from the mall, but that's what any normal person does

Also, people in real life don't care about looks in general because there are too few HTB/HTN+ people in reality for them to looksmatch, so most HTB/HTN+ people will marry and have children with random partners who are much uglier than themselves

The circle of friends you have who can vouch for you, money, career and behavior are generally more important in reality than anything

 

[Deleted member 86840]

- The things you *need* to do are often the ones you want to do the least.

- You choose if you want to play the game. You don’t choose whether you win, but you choose *if* you want to play or not.

- Time is moving. Don’t stand still. If you feel stuck, it’s because you are stuck. You don’t have to be qualified. Just apply.

- Don’t do anything you don’t want to. The root of every decision comes from a desire to do something. Don’t be surprised if people start expecting of you, things you did out of your own free will.

" - The things you *need* to do are often the ones you want to do the least. "

"- Don’t do anything you don’t want to."

explain

 

[fluxx]

- The things you *need* to do are often the ones you want to do the least.

- You choose if you want to play the game. You don’t choose whether you win, but you choose *if* you want to play or not.

- Time is moving. Don’t stand still. If you feel stuck, it’s because you are stuck. You don’t have to be qualified. Just apply.

- Don’t do anything you don’t want to. The root of every decision comes from a desire to do something. Don’t be surprised if people start expecting of you, things you did out of your own free will.

this is actually a pretty positive forum compared to other ones tbh

 

[AspiringMogger]

" - The things you *need* to do are often the ones you want to do the least. "

"- Don’t do anything you don’t want to."

explain

First point refers to personal development. Ie. Improving your career, improving your social skills etc.

Second one refers to social dynamics. If someone asks you to do something and you agree, you can’t be upset at them for asking.

 

[AspiringMogger]

this is actually a pretty positive forum compared to other ones tbh

This forum is what you make it.