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jubliantseehorse1

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Today I met up with a girl I’ve liked for 3 years. We hung out, got sushi, went to the arcade. But whilst at the arcade a family member came and got me. Turns out my grandmothers health condition was steadily worsening. I watched as she passed shortly later, walking home thinking what next?

The girl I’ve liked for so long was previously dating someone I dislike, (broke up 3 months ago), she cheated on him. after that we started talking. I can’t tell if she likes me, which is why I need help. We planned a hangout/date for Saturday, and I can’t tell whether I should confess or let her go. What if she’s talking to a different guy?

Im from New Zealand, just moved to Australia in January. Currently in New Zealand for my grandmother.

I need help to decide whether I should say fuck it and confess, or let her go? She is 16, I’m 15
I’m not an outward guy, I don’t like big crowds. And when we were hanging out I was shaking from anxiety and constantly fumbling around my phone. My heart has a deep pressure pain when thinking about a romantic situation or a situation where she’s using me, or rejects me.
 
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Today I met up with a girl I’ve liked for 3 years. We hung out, got sushi, went to the arcade. But whilst at the arcade a family member came and got me. Turns out my grandmothers health condition was steadily worsening. I watched as she passed shortly later, walking home thinking what next?

The girl I’ve liked for so long was previously dating someone I dislike, (broke up 3 months ago), she cheated on him. after that we started talking. I can’t tell if she likes me, which is why I need help. We planned a hangout/date for Saturday, and I can’t tell whether I should confess or let her go. What if she’s talking to a different guy?

Im from New Zealand, just moved to Australia in January. Currently in New Zealand for my grandmother.

I need help to decide whether I should say fuck it and confess, or let her go? She is 16, I’m 15
I’m not an outward guy, I don’t like big crowds. And when we were hanging out I was shaking from anxiety and constantly fumbling around my phone. My heart has a deep pressure pain when thinking about a romantic situation or a situation where she’s using me, or rejects me.
Sorry for your loss man. May ur grandma rest in peace. Also don't date her. If she cheated on another guy that should be enough to tell you to stay away from her
 
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Maybe if you tell her what happened, she'll feel sorry for you and she'll stay, but that's an option if you don't want to let her go at all
 
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