what should i do the moment my gf starts being slightly more distant?

[Deleted member 9819]

only a question for non incels who know how to deal with females btw

i feel like that moment is coming soon, whats the ideal thing to do? (without dumping her obviously)

 

[Yliaster]

you should of already been talking to other girls from jump

 

[Deleted member 9819]

you should of already been talking to other girls from jump

i already do but i would still choose my gf over any of them

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

You're feeling bored with her or the other way around? Spice it up, nigga.

 

[Deleted member 8608]

only a question for non incels who know how to deal with females btw

i feel like that moment is coming soon, whats the ideal thing to do? (without dumping her obviously)

unironically break up with her

 

[Thinking_Machine]

you'll have to emotionally put yourself on the line and see if she wants to engage, e.g., just ask what's up in a loving, non-confrontatoinal manner. give her a couple opportunities to discuss what's up, then after that you can distance yourself also if she's not opening up.

 

[Looks234]

Preselection. Girls get off to knowing they’re BF can easily replace them.

 

[Deleted member 9819]

You're feeling bored with her or the other way around? Spice it up, nigga.

she's been almost two weeks on a camp where she can only use her phone for half an hour, which we use to call each other (but its usually really dry)

most probably when she comes back everything is gonna be fine as always but idk

 

[Yliaster]

i already do but i would still choose my gf over any of them

why you think she's gonna become distant soon btw? (pm if you don't wanna discuss publicly)

 

[Thinking_Machine]

she's been almost two weeks on a camp where she can only use her phone for half an hour, which we use to call each other (but its usually really dry)

most probably when she comes back everything is gonna be fine as always but idk

lol if it's not even in-person then don't sweat it bro. that's insecure behaviour.

consider it a blessing. my gf and i don't even message each other other than to arrange things. gives us lots to talk about when we see each other, and it's always great with her. lots of trust and love.

i dumped my ex because she couldn't go two days without calling me and a day without texting me. shit's oppressive.

 

[Deleted member 9819]

why you think she's gonna become distant soon btw? (pm if you don't wanna discuss publicly)

she's been almost two weeks on a camp where she can only use her phone for half an hour, which we use to call each other (but its usually really dry)

im just overthinking probably but i will be able to tell after she comes back

 

[Looks234]

Dump her. She wants new dick.

 

[Deleted member 9819]

consider it a blessing. my gf and i don't even message each other other than to arrange things. gives us lots to talk about when we see each other, and it's always great with her. lots of trust and love.

ye its the same when shes here we spend more time together than talking through the phone

i dumped my ex because she couldn't go two days without calling me and a day without texting me. shit's oppressive.

nigga im the opposite i can only find a female attractive if shes obsessed with me

 

[Deleted member 9801]

im just overthinking probably but i will be able to tell after she comes back

What are u scared of? Are u worried she met a new guy at the camp?

 

[Deleted member 9819]

What are u scared of? Are u worried she met a new guy at the camp?

nah i doubt that mostly cuz almost everyone there probably knows she already has a bf

 

[Deleted member 9801]

nah i doubt that mostly cuz almost everyone there probably knows she already has a bf

Then what are u overthinking?

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

Just breakup with her if you're going to worry so much tbh. Girls should be adding value to your life, not making it harder

 

[AlexBrown84]

Just cheat

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

Just cheat

Come out with me, I’m outside rn

 

[AlexBrown84]

Come out with me, I’m outside rn

What do you look like

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

What do you look like

I'm 5'5 and indian g