What should i do?

[helpmemog1]

honestly i dont really like hanging out with my friend anymore. every time we hang out he somehow ends up hurting me. its not even normal joking around. he punches me hard, kicks me hard and one time he even choked me until i blacked out. that actually scared me and its not even funny.
and he always has something negative to say about everything i do, like whatever i do is never good enough for him. and when i try to be nice to him its just annoying. like if i say “bro you look good” he just goes “yeah i know”. and if i say girls will want him he just says they already do.
it just feels like he always puts me down while acting like hes better than everyone else. being around him just makes me feel bad and lately ive been thinking why am i even friends with him, i mean i am prob gonna get hate cause of this thread but idc, and i can't really stop being his friend cause he can get like 20 poeple to beat my ass up and if i try to fight back, he will just actaully punch me in the face like hard and 1 time my nose just broke.

 

[tansel]

you’re an abused dog, either put yourself down or keep suffering

 

[helpmemog1]

you’re an abused dog, either put yourself down or keep suffering

So what do i do? or can i just do nothing

 

[tansel]

So what do i do? or can i just do nothing

he was never your friend, all he does is assault you & make you feel bad.. stop talking to him & stop hanging out with him. why the fuck would he send 20 people to beat you up because you don’t want to be friends anymore?

 

[helpmemog1]

he was never your friend, all he does is assault you & make you feel bad.. stop talking to him & stop hanging out with him. why the fuck would he send 20 people to beat you up because you don’t want to be friends anymore?

Ya and i need to give him money or els he will send poeple to my house to personely have a talk with me thats beating my ass or just straight up killing me and i am making no joke he has almost killed someone in school before, so i just give it to him, and i strongly agree with ur point that he was never my friend

 

[tansel]

Ya and i need to give him money or els he will send poeple to my house to personely have a talk with me thats beating my ass or just straight up killing me and i am making no joke he has almost killed someone in school before, so i just give it to him, and i strongly agree with ur point that he was never my friend

bro i don’t understand lmao do you owe him money or something? i don’t understand why he would do all of this just to keep a friend

 

[helpmemog1]

bro i don’t understand lmao do you owe him money or something? i don’t understand why he would do all of this just to keep a friend

No i don't owe him a single penny, and the reason why i just give it to him cause i don't wanne get my ass beat by 20 men

 

[noark]

bro i don’t understand lmao do you owe him money or something? i don’t understand why he would do all of this just to keep a friend

ive met people like this, they are jesters, no logical thinking.

in his case i think trying to fight back is futile,
best OP can do is either gather proof and issue a contact ban, and make sure the bullying doesnt get to this point next time.

OR he could bully someone else to get the attention off him, as a last resort of course, just make sure not to get cucked right back instantly and to not take it too far

 

[tansel]

No i don't owe him a single penny, and the reason why i just give it to him cause i don't wanne get my ass beat by 20 men

alright i understand now, how much money would he want from you?

 

[noark]

alright i understand now, how much money would he want from you?

its stupid to pay, theyll always want more until you cant pay, destroys your reputation too

 

[helpmemog1]

ive met people like this, they are jesters, no logical thinking.

in his case i think trying to fight back is futile,
best OP can do is either gather proof and issue a contact ban, and make sure the bullying doesnt get to this point next time.

OR he could bully someone else to get the attention off him, as a last resort of course, just make sure not to get cucked right back instantly and to not take it too far

if i order a contact ban he will just message poeple do come "Visit me" he would say

 

[tansel]

its stupid to pay, theyll always want more until you cant pay, destroys your reputation too

so what’s the alternative? getting assaulted by 20 guys & almost dying?

 

[helpmemog1]

alright i understand now, how much money would he want from you?

depens really the most i have gave him was like 100 dollars

 

[helpmemog1]

its stupid to pay, theyll always want more until you cant pay, destroys your reputation too

Its the only postive thing i can do tbh i don't wanne die/ get beat-up

 

[tansel]

depens really the most i have gave him was like 100 dollars

i mean if you only pay $100 once & you have confirmation they’ll leave you alone then ig do that, if you think they’ll keep wanting more money from you then don’t do it.

 

[helpmemog1]

i mean if you only pay $100 once & you have confirmation they’ll leave you alone then ig do that, if you think they’ll keep wanting more money from you then don’t do it.

I can try man!. but tbh i am like genuily scared that he will demand for more money

 

[noark]

depens really the most i have gave him was like 100 dollars

whats the frequency of the payments? whats the lower limit?
if you can sustain it you should pay, until you learn martial arts and just get fit in general.

Do not get a big head either, being trained doesnt gurantee anything, just improves your odds.

Or just bully others with him like i said to get close into his inner circle until he stops bullying you.

 

[helpmemog1]

whats the frequency of the payments? whats the lower limit?
if you can sustain it you should pay, until you learn martial arts and just get fit in general.

Do not get a big head either, being trained doesnt gurantee anything, just improves your odds.

Or just bully others with him like i said to get close into his inner circle until he stops bullying you.

Like every other month or just every month

 

[noark]

I can try man!. but tbh i am like genuily scared that he will demand for more money

this is my point @tansel

Gather proof of all his friends, issue a contact ban with all of them,
And Gather especially good proof about the main bully and try to get him charged.

Or go ahead with the bullying as last resort,
You will eventually have to start martial arts or work out to avoid such cases in the near future.

 

[cryptt]

venting.org

 

[tansel]

this is my point @tansel

Gather proof of all his friends, issue a contact ban with all of them,
And Gather especially good proof about the main bully and try to get him charged.

Or go ahead with the bullying as last resort,
You will eventually have to start martial arts or work out to avoid such cases in the near future.

yeah he can issue a restraining order, that’s a good idea too. he would have to prob get his parents involved as well

 

[tansel]

Like every other month or just every month

bro don’t pay the guy every month lmao that’s insane

 

[helpmemog1]

this is my point @tansel

Gather proof of all his friends, issue a contact ban with all of them,
And Gather especially good proof about the main bully and try to get him charged.

Or go ahead with the bullying as last resort,
You will eventually have to start martial arts or work out to avoid such cases in the near future.

Thats pretty smart tbh!, i'll try and gather prove and contact the police if i have enough evidice etc, and what martial art should i learn?

 

[helpmemog1]

bro don’t pay the guy every month lmao that’s insane

I mean bro i am like genuily scared for my life

 

[helpmemog1]

venting.org

Huh what do u mean?

 

[helpmemog1]

yeah he can issue a restraining order, that’s a good idea too. he would have to prob get his parents involved as well

That's true

 

[cryptt]

Huh what do u mean?

how old are u?

 

[noark]

Thats pretty smart tbh!, i'll try and gather prove and contact the police if i have enough evidice etc, and what martial art should i learn?

Mma,
But if theres no mma gym near you, the martial art would depend on your frame,
Whats your frame?

If your more lanky id say kickboxing, muay thai or any striking martial art in general.
If your on the shorter end, id say bbj or wrestling, do your own research too

 

[helpmemog1]

how old are u?

15, more info is private man srry

 

[helpmemog1]

Mma,
But if theres no mma gym near you, the martial art would depend on your frame,
Whats your frame?

If your more lanky id say kickboxing, muay thai or any striking martial art in general.
If your on the shorter end, id say bbj or wrestling, do your own research too

Nah i am like pretty tall and i am not that skinny

 

[cryptt]

15, more info is private man srry

that guy wouldnt be considered a friend and how do u even get yourself in this?

 

[avenox]

fight back or just take it like a good boy, those are your inly 2 options

 

[helpmemog1]

that guy wouldnt be considered a friend and how do u even get yourself in this?

Hahahaha ya idk man, he always was kinda like gang and he always acts so nonchalant and he keeps on threating me

 

[helpmemog1]

fight back or just take it like a good boy, those are your inly 2 options

if i fight back i might genuily possible be killed

 

[tansel]

I mean bro i am like genuily scared for my life

dude ur 15 lmao, no 15 year old is going to risk life in prison for murder because of you, relax lol

 

[cryptt]

Hahahaha ya idk man, he always was kinda like gang and he always acts so nonchalant and he keeps on threating me

why do u hangout w him do u not have any actual friends

 

[avenox]

if i fight back i might genuily possible be killed

knuckle dusters

 

[helpmemog1]

dude ur 15 lmao, no 15 year old is going to risk life in prison for murder because of you, relax lol

Nah he is 17

 

[helpmemog1]

knuckle dusters

Mhmmm maybe but then his "Friends" will come after me

 

[noark]

Nah i am like pretty tall and i am not that skinny

Depends on your location as well, search for gyms nearby, preferably mma or any striking martial art

Get a weapon to try to shake him off,
if you feel comfortable enough, explain the situation to your coach so he gets grasp of your situation.

Go with the contact bans at the start, and the bullying as a last resort.

 

[helpmemog1]

why do u hangout w him do u not have any actual friends

He my Older friends just moved on cause they switched klasses to many times and just got differnt friends and everytime when i try to like join the conversetion i get ingored like a ghost

 

[avenox]

Mhmmm maybe but then his "Friends" will come after me

nigga learn mma or sneak upon him

just fight back

you WILL regret not fughting him the future

 

[helpmemog1]

Depends on your location as well, search for gyms nearby, preferably mma or any striking martial art

Get a weapon to try to shake him off,
if you feel comfortable enough, explain the situation to your coach so he gets grasp of your situation.

Go with the contact bans at the start, and the bullying as a last resort.

i will man i will search for the nearest mma school as soon ass possible and try to get some skill so i can reastilcy defense my self, Thanks for taking ur time out of ur day to help me

 

[cryptt]

He my Older friends just moved on cause they switched klasses to many times and just got differnt friends and everytime when i try to like join the conversetion i get ingored like a ghost

what continent are u from
and u cant do much if youre getting ignored u probably dont have any friends then how long has it been like this

 

[Mxrii0.]

buy pepper spray of amazon and spray him its so effective and burns like hell you have an excuse for what hes done to you if he says something to some feds it burns and hurts like hell (personal experiance btw)

 

[helpmemog1]

nigga learn mma or sneak upon him

just fight back

you WILL regret not fughting him the future

i don't wanne believe that but i do, but if i fight back i know my mandible will get crushed in 30 differnt pieces+ my nose+ every bone in my head and he will do it bro i genuily believe he is menatily insane, he said to me word for word "i might be insane cause i like hurting u"

 

[KG4]

i don't wanne believe that but i do, but if i fight back i know my mandible will get crushed in 30 differnt pieces+ my nose+ every bone in my head and he will do it bro i genuily believe he is menatily insane, he said to me word for word "i might be insane cause i like hurting u"

nigger buy a gun

 

[helpmemog1]

what continent are u from
and u cant do much if youre getting ignored u probably dont have any friends then how long has it been like this

i think u are from the nederlands cause of the "verstappen" But i am from europa, and this has been going on for about 7/8 months

 

[tansel]

Nah he is 17

alright man no 17 year old will risk life in prison for murder over you lol

 

[helpmemog1]

nigger buy a gun

i can't i don't live in the usa