what to do after first tinder date

[12percentorbust]

went on a date with a girl from tinder and ended up kissing her but not smashing even though we went back to her place she was playing games and kept saying she wont do anything on the first date so it was awkward when i kept trying to smash, should i msg her again or just ghost cuz i dont wanna seem like a desperate virgin

 

[BigBiceps]

What will you win by fleeing and not seeming like a desperate virgin? You might actually get a girlfriend out of her still, if you don't let that one fuckup ruin it all.

 

[Deleted member 15781]

wait a day or two to message her and get her to date u, u could fuck her for a bit that would probably be nice

 

[Stopping@Nothing19]

remember that even if you fuck it up there is always another girl that will come along so don't put all your eggs in one basket

 

[koalendo]

it’s too late now she already perceives you as a beta male, you should’ve established dominance and fulfilled her fantasies by raping her on the first date.

but it’s ok you can implement the lessons you’ve learnt with a different girl next time

 

[12percentorbust]

What will you win by fleeing and not seeming like a desperate virgin? You might actually get a girlfriend out of her still, if you don't let that one fuckup ruin it all.

its desperate to hit her up first after being thirsty af on the first date lol ur right tho im just being a bitch

wait a day or two to message her and get her to date u, u could fuck her for a bit that would probably be nice

u think a day or two is enough? especially cuz its the weekend now and these whores love to go clubbin with their friends on weekends jfl

 

[Deleted member 15781]

its desperate to hit her up first after being thirsty af on the first date lol ur right tho im just being a bitch

u think a day or two is enough? especially cuz its the weekend now and these whores love to go clubbin with their friends on weekends jfl

maybe after a day ask her if she wants to hangout again

 

[.👽.]

didnt she message you after?

 

[Abominari]

She wanted you to take that pussy by force obviously . Non tinder girls rule is just fuck her after the third, but almost every Woman won’t wait that long these days. Like they’re going for the record. How old are you

 

[Abominari]

Btw don’t seem desperate or annoying but asking her how’s its going the next day isn’t that bad. If she likes ypu she’s waiting for ylu to make the move and if she doesn’t it doesn’t matter anyways

 

[turkproducer]

just wait a bit and hit her up again soon, not that hard

no need to message more than a handful of times a day max, let her msg you if you want.

 

[Abominari]

just wait a bit and hit her up again soon, not that hard

no need to message more than a handful of times a day max, let her msg you if you want.

It’s hard to explain that the very attitude of this post is what turns them off

be assured, you’re the man and you’ll fuck her best friend and send pics if she ghosts you

 

[12percentorbust]

maybe after a day ask her if she wants to hangout again

just straight up ask for a date or make bullshit small talk first?

Btw don’t seem desperate or annoying but asking her how’s its going the next day isn’t that bad. If she likes ypu she’s waiting for ylu to make the move and if she doesn’t it doesn’t matter anyways

this is what im scared of tbh hate feeling like im begging for pussy

just wait a bit and hit her up again soon, not that hard

no need to message more than a handful of times a day max, let her msg you if you want.

how long do u think is enough time and im not sure she would hit me up first jfl

didnt she message you after?

 

[turkproducer]

It’s hard to explain that the very attitude of this post is what turns them off

be assured, you’re the man and you’ll fuck her best friend and send pics if she ghosts you

sometimes people can only learn through experience, that’s why i don’t bother too much being their dad

god knows i fucked up a lot of situations like these

 

[aBetterMii]

Brag thread

 

[currylover]

Take her on a romantic hike to the woods. Pack a nice lunch and tell her how much you love nature, which will wet her panties. As the sun falls, fuck her behind the bushes. Women love an adventure.

 

[Abominari]

sometimes people can only learn through experience, that’s why i don’t bother too much in their dad

god knows i fucked up a lot of situations like these

Yea I wish I woulda listened to old heads.

 

[Abominari]

just straight up ask for a date or make bullshit small talk first?

this is what im scared of tbh hate feeling like im begging for pussy


how long do u think is enough time and im not sure she would hit me up first jfl

Just be casual and stop worrying tbh. Women can smell insecurity like a bloodhound, inherently blackpilldd. My gf is ‘Stacy’ and the fucking stories and pressure she had/has to not only be a whore but the shit they actually know due to having physical disadvantage would surprise many

It’s not always you if she ghosts. I’ve ghosted plenty of attractive girls for the one I have now; maybe in another universe it woulda worked but it’s in the cards

 

[12percentorbust]

sometimes people can only learn through experience, that’s why i don’t bother too much being their dad

god knows i fucked up a lot of situations like these

tinder dates are ruthless tho lol if the girl is not 10000% into u, u need to play a perfect game

 

[qwertz]

Brag thread

yep. i've never gotten a match on tinder that wasn't a bot, a girl advertising her OF, or a scammer.

 

[turkproducer]

tinder dates are ruthless tho lol if the girl is not 10000% into u, u need to play a perfect game

i know, it’s too much effort for me now

i prefer meeting girls irl

Yea I wish I woulda listened to old heads.

i wish i could restart life ngl

 

[Abominari]

i know, it’s too much effort for me now

i prefer meeting girls irl

i wish i could restart life ngl

Imagine being 13 with the knowledge ypu have now and a 8/10+ body/face
Insanity

Feelings of youthful invincibility madr it impossible to learn. for me at least

 

[Abominari]

tinder dates are ruthless tho lol if the girl is not 10000% into u, u need to play a perfect game

my firsttinder date she literally hopped on my dick. I don’t have a huge slay count because it’s boring without feelings but have slayer friends who fuck because it’s what they’re supposed to do or something

im probably more likely to play the silent game irl; really just depends. If a girl is hitting g you up on tinder ylu honestly have to fuck up somehow IMO because that shit should be free

 

[12percentorbust]

my firsttinder date she literally hopped on my dick. I don’t have a huge slay count because it’s boring without feelings but have slayer friends who fuck because it’s what they’re supposed to do or something

im probably more likely to play the silent game irl; really just depends. If a girl is hitting g you up on tinder ylu honestly have to fuck up somehow IMO because that shit should be free

thats what i mean, if a girl hits u up or is showing a lot of interest u dont really have to do anything

but if shes not 100% sure she wants to fuck u, u cant fuck up at all

 

[Abominari]

thats what i mean, if a girl hits u up or is showing a lot of interest u dont really have to do anything

but if shes not 100% sure she wants to fuck u, u cant fuck up at all

I have a lot of friends who can bag prime women with some time because of their aura who cannot get any on tinder. Some are short too. Just a consideration for the lad

One thing I wonder is what % of people on here would even know how to use it if they woke up as ‘chad’

 

[Deleted member 12002]

went on a date with a girl from tinder and ended up kissing her but not smashing even though we went back to her place she was playing games and kept saying she wont do anything on the first date so it was awkward when i kept trying to smash, should i msg her again or just ghost cuz i dont wanna seem like a desperate virgin

Let her be the one to contact you next. Do not contact her first. If she doesn't ever contact you again then so be it.