What would u all do if u were late teens ( 20 years old ) ?

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I am nearly 20 and don't know what to do.
My life would be good if I were not abused by parents indirectly without them knowing.

Now I am stuck with worrying about
-my future wife, ( if I would past ones ),

- ND (can't initiate anywhere because of lonely teen years barely any friends,

If i intitiate, people and I also feel I am being awkward)

My stats :- I am MTN, below average height by 2 inches.

My father asks me to talk with people but I can't relate normal people as if i don't have any common things with them i.e. normies.

He says I am average but I now and he knows I am below average and trys to sugarcoates me that iam average and should talk with others. He goes out often. And i know I am below average e

I dont know if anyone feels the same.

Also nothing interests me now.
 
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I am nearly 20 and don't know what to do.
My life would be good if I were not abused by parents indirectly without them knowing.

Now I am stuck with worrying about
-my future wife, ( if I would past ones ),

- ND (can't initiate anywhere because of lonely teen years barely any friends,

If i intitiate, people and I also feel I am being awkward)

My stats :- I am MTN, below average height by 2 inches.

My father asks me to talk with people but I can't relate normal people as if i don't have any common things with them i.e. normies.

He says I am average but I now and he knows I am below average and trys to sugarcoates me that iam average and should talk with others. He goes out often. And i know I am below average e

I dont know if anyone feels the same.

Also nothing interests me now.
I would just wagecuck

Simple/Easy

Find jobs that dont require lots of talking

Dont even try making friends unless it naturally comes to you
 
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I would just wagecuck

Simple/Easy

Find jobs that dont require lots of talking

Dont even try making friends unless it naturally comes to you
knew a guy like this when i was working weekends at mcdonalds

he spent the last 8 years wage slaving and still had no friends. he was really awkward like jeffrey dahmer. i felt bad and struck up conversations when i saw him but he was incredibly difficult to talk to

OP, only do this for a year or so to stack bread and force social interaction then DO something else. dont waste your life wageslaving and being an autistic retard
 
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I am nearly 20 and don't know what to do.
My life would be good if I were not abused by parents indirectly without them knowing.

Now I am stuck with worrying about
-my future wife, ( if I would past ones ),

- ND (can't initiate anywhere because of lonely teen years barely any friends,

If i intitiate, people and I also feel I am being awkward)

My stats :- I am MTN, below average height by 2 inches.

My father asks me to talk with people but I can't relate normal people as if i don't have any common things with them i.e. normies.

He says I am average but I now and he knows I am below average and trys to sugarcoates me that iam average and should talk with others. He goes out often. And i know I am below average e

I dont know if anyone feels the same.

Also nothing interests me now.
Dw about a wife, theyre all fake but If something is meant to be, it will find Its way to you

Regarding social skills, the best approach would be just participating in public meet ups, whether Its a random hangout, some museum tour or fitness classes

With time youll get more experience and feel more comfortable around people, your social anxiety will vanish and possibly would get a few connections.

We are naturally seeking human contact so It would be a nice experience regardless
 
Dw about a wife, theyre all fake but If something is meant to be, it will find Its way to you

Regarding social skills, the best approach would be just participating in public meet ups, whether Its a random hangout, some museum tour or fitness classes

With time youll get more experience and feel more comfortable around people, your social anxiety will vanish and possibly would get a few connections.

We are naturally seeking human contact so It would be a nice experience regardless
Some people tried in talking to me but when i talked i undoubtedly did jestermaxxing now they pester me to tell a joke. Anything I say they say wow nice joke
Due to this recently I avoided then when asked make a joke.
While I was moving away they called my name repeatedly to not go from them.
We were earlier same class mates then transferred to different class.
 
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Some people tried in talking to me but when i talked i undoubtedly did jestermaxxing now they pester me to tell a joke. Anything I say they say wow nice joke
Due to this recently I avoided then when asked make a joke.
While I was moving away they called my name repeatedly to not go from them.
We were earlier same class mates then transferred to different class.
Well the nice part about those meetups is the people always seeing you as a new character, not knowing your past, behaviour etc

So you can always try from the start and always improve
 

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