What would you guys do in this situation?

[Nihlismmaxxer]

So I made a tinder with my pics when I was low bodyfat around 135 at 5’10 and I’ve gotten my fair share of matches, but I’ve gained weight now and my looks have gone done. Nothing crazy I’m 160lbs now and that’s after semi consistent 10 months of gymceling. I don’t look nearly as good tho, and it’s really making me depressed and not want to meet or really take tinder seriously. But I do crave intimacy and even just going on a date again.

 

[Deleted member 21393]

Before I say Jfl at gymceling I’ll ask what’s your body fat compared to before?

 

[Nihlismmaxxer]

Before I say Jfl at gymceling I’ll ask what’s your body fat compared to before?

Hmmm I would say before I was 10 percent I was extremely lean and had hollow cheeks. Now I even look bloated sometimes, they have me on Jew pills making me gain weight too. I would put myself now at 15-16 percent, I don’t have love handles or anything

 

[Deleted member 21393]

Hmmm I would say before I was 10 percent I was extremely lean and had hollow cheeks. Now I even look bloated sometimes, they have me on Jew pills making me gain weight too. I would put myself now at 15-16 percent, I don’t have love handles or anything

Who’s they? What pills are you taking ? Does your face hold a lot of fat?

 

[Nihlismmaxxer]

Who’s they? What pills are you taking ?

Vraylar and they as in the psychiatrist

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

So I made a tinder with my pics when I was low bodyfat around 135 at 5’10 and I’ve gotten my fair share of matches, but I’ve gained weight now and my looks have gone done. Nothing crazy I’m 160lbs now and that’s after semi consistent 10 months of gymceling. I don’t look nearly as good tho, and it’s really making me depressed and not want to meet or really take tinder seriously. But I do crave intimacy and even just going on a date again.

I'd probably update my pics and then plan a date or sumthin even though you technically look worse/higher bf%, you might get a few unmatches but better than getting flaked or not meeting up with them at all

 

[Nihlismmaxxer]

Before I say Jfl at gymceling I’ll ask what’s your body fat compared to before?

Why Jfl at gymceling? I do it mainly to stay somewhat in shape without doing these diets that made me feel like garbage to go so low bodyfat

 

[Nihlismmaxxer]

I'd probably update my pics and then plan a date or sumthin even though you technically look worse/higher bf%, you might get a few unmatches but better than getting flaked or not meeting up with them at all

You think just meeting up is a bad idea?

 

[Deleted member 21393]

Why Jfl at gymceling? I do it mainly to stay somewhat in shape without doing these diets that made me feel like garbage to go so low bodyfat

I can’t speak for anyone else but I gymceld for almost 6 years and am 5’7 and got to almost 210lb using nandrolone and test. I didn’t get any acne or gyno I was literally a unit. I was going crazy in the gym but my body fat was like 20% probably and women found me absolutely repulsive. I mean women still do that will never change but I know they didn’t like the way I looked then either.

 

[Nihlismmaxxer]

I can’t speak for anyone else but I gymceld for almost 6 years and am 5’7 and got to almost 210lb using nandrolone and test. I didn’t get any acne or gyno I was literally a unit. I was going crazy in the gym but my body fat was like 20% probably and women found me absolutely repulsive. I mean women still do that will never change but I know they didn’t like the way I looked then either.

Is your bodyfat lower now?

 

[Deleted member 21393]

Is your bodyfat lower now?

It’s was actually probably around 21-23% then. Right now it’s probably around 15-16ish. I’m going to take dnp soon and get to 10% if I can and try to sustain 10-12% eating just chicken and beef after the dnp cycle.

 

[Nihlismmaxxer]

It’s was actually probably around 21-23% then. Right now it’s probably around 15-16ish. I’m going to take dnp soon and get to 10% if I can and try to sustain 10-12% eating just chicken and beef after the dnp cycle.

What does this look like to you? I was more bloated here but I since dropped down. 5’10 160

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

You think just meeting up is a bad idea?

I mean, I personally wouldn't as I wouldn't be comfortable in showing up differently than I look in pictures, but worst case scenario if you're comfortable with meeting up with them there's no harm done in trying but you can expect flakes. If you don't look that different then just meet up with them, hard to tell as I can't see the before and after pics

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

What does this look like to you? I was more bloated here but I since dropped down. 5’10 160

Great frame, looks good in both !

 

[Nihlismmaxxer]

Great frame, looks good in both !

Fr? I thought I look too fat. I appreciate it tho bro!

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Fr? I thought I look too fat. I appreciate it tho bro!

Body looks good, if your face isn't too bloated duo to higher bf% I'd just go out with girls on tinder and not change photos

 

[Nihlismmaxxer]

Body looks good, if your face isn't too bloated duo to higher bf% I'd just go out with girls on tinder and not change photos

Face is somewhat bloated that’s the issue

 

[Deleted member 21393]

What does this look like to you? I was more bloated here but I since dropped down. 5’10 160

Yeah it really just depends how much fat your face holds. But I’d just go with what niko says and see what happens

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Face is somewhat bloated that’s the issue

Hmm, what you can do as well is text with the girls, move the convo over to snap or something like that, text a bit there where you guys exchange pics and if she doesn't say anything and is still down its a green light to recommend a date

 

[Deleted member 21393]

But if it affects your matches to the point where you can’t get dates then that’s a problem

 

[Nihlismmaxxer]

Hmm, what you can do as well is text with the girls, move the convo over to snap or something like that, text a bit there where you guys exchange pics and if she doesn't say anything and is still down its a green light to recommend a date

I did that with a hinge girl. We went on a date and made out in her car. She went to a Halloween party the next night tho and said she met a special guy so she ghosted me. I guess that atleast means I’m still kissable

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I did that with a hinge girl. We went on a date and made out in her car. She went to a Halloween party the next night tho and said she met a special guy so she ghosted me. I guess that atleast means I’m still kissable

That's good, In that case I'd just go on more dates with different girls, good luck Bhai!