What you should do when approaching women

[Deleted member 14781]

Game doesn't work. Women know when they want you. I don't really believe that they know if they sleep with you in the first second they meet you, some of us are in the grey area where we are not disgusting to them but not super hot neither. Problem is, you can't convince women they are attracted to you. It has to be natural. So cold approaching, spam approaching ecc are awful tactics that never work.
What you should do instead is NOTHING. You should looksmax, moneymax, statusmax, everythingmax and then WAIT for when you receive IOIs. Nothing else.
It's women who choose so going around approaching will never work. If women don't give you IOIs then you need to get better.

 

[Deleted member 8853]

Game doesn't work. Women know when they want you. I don't really believe that they know if they sleep with you in the first second they meet you, some of us are in the grey area where we are not disgusting to them but not super hot neither. Problem is, you can't convince women they are attracted to you. It has to be natural. So cold approaching, spam approaching ecc are awful tactics that never work.
What you should do instead is NOTHING. You should looksmax, moneymax, statusmax, everythingmax and then WAIT for when you receive IOIs. Nothing else.
It's women who choose so going around approaching will never work. If women don't give you IOIs then you need to get better.

Water

 

[Deleted member 14781]

Water

Yes drink water too it's very important

 

[Deleted member 8853]

Yes drink water too it's very important

Just shut up faggot graycel.

Tryna teach us the ways of the world eh?

 

[Deleted member 14781]

Just shut up faggot graycel.

Tryna teach us the ways of the world eh?

Why so aggressive?

 

[court monarch777]

Game doesn't work. Women know when they want you. I don't really believe that they know if they sleep with you in the first second they meet you, some of us are in the grey area where we are not disgusting to them but not super hot neither. Problem is, you can't convince women they are attracted to you. It has to be natural. So cold approaching, spam approaching ecc are awful tactics that never work.
What you should do instead is NOTHING. You should looksmax, moneymax, statusmax, everythingmax and then WAIT for when you receive IOIs. Nothing else.
It's women who choose so going around approaching will never work. If women don't give you IOIs then you need to get better.

 

[Deleted member 14455]

Just shut up faggot graycel.

Tryna teach us the ways of the world eh?

He's here couple of hours and already more memorable than you

 

[Deleted member 245]

Legit. Men should only approach when they receive an unmistakable IOI that suggests she's open to to talk to you.

Cold approach is dead and will get you kicked out of any venue you're in.

 

[Deleted member 14781]

Legit. Men should only approach when they receive an unmistakable IOI that suggests she's open to to talk to you.

Cold approach is dead and will get you kicked out of any venue you're in.

I wouldn't say "unmistakable" but the more the IOI is explicit the blunter you can be. If a woman stares at you maybe you can start talk about random stuff to her.

 

[Deleted member 245]

I wouldn't say "unmistakable" but the more the IOI is explicit the blunter you can be. If a woman stares at you maybe you can start talk about random stuff to her.

In 2021 it's better to be safe than sorry. Especially if you're in a venue (grocery store, gym, nightclub, bar) that can forbid you from coming back

 

[Deleted member 14781]

In 2021 it's better to be safe than sorry. Especially if you're in a venue (grocery store, gym, nightclub, bar) that can forbid you from coming back

Yeah true, my point is that the less the IOI is explicit the less your approach should be upfront. You can approach with some plausibile deniability (asking for something random) to see her attitude towards you, if she seems cold then you can always say that you were asking directions, otherwise you can escalate. The more the IOI is direct the more direct your approach can be too.

 

[TyroneIncoming]

I disagree-I've had some success with it and I'm no Chad/Tyrone.
place yourself in her shoes, whats her response if a 6'3" jacked Chad approaches her? Its the only form of modern jestermaxxing that isn't completely cucked-you're out of your mind if you think an 8/10+ will approach a man or give obvious Indicators of interest outside of a club environment. Even then the onus is on you as a man to cold approach multiple women and see what sticks

 

[Deleted member 14781]

I disagree-I've had some success with it and I'm no Chad/Tyrone.
place yourself in her shoes, whats her response if a 6'3" jacked Chad approaches her? Its the only form of modern jestermaxxing that isn't completely cucked-you're out of your mind if you think an 8/10+ will approach a man or give obvious Indicators of interest outside of a club environment. Even then the onus is on you as a man to cold approach multiple women and see what sticks

Sorry i commented on the wrong thread. Yeah that's kinda true but an 8/10 will give an IOI only to the top men. They would give IOIs to Jason Momoa. If you don't receive ANY type of IOI you can still approach if you think it's worth it, just be casual because you can have some plausible deniability. Use the approach to sense how she reacts to you and if you sense she doesn't like you move on, at least you have an excuse and she can't say you were hitting on her.

 

[TyroneIncoming]

I'm not getting your point?
Approaching means putting yourself in the position of getting rejected. This is by definition jestermaxxing. Do you see other animals besides birds doing it? No.
This is how it goes between primates.

my points are:
-it is the least cucked form of jesterring. Yes jesterring but it's far more life affirming than something like online dating or waiting for her to give you IOI which she may never. In a real society you'd bypass her power of choice and just go straight to her male guardian (e.g. Father)

-secondly that it does work if you're good looking. Like most forms of Jesterring its just a numbers game.

 

[Deleted member 14781]

my points are:
-it is the least cucked form of jesterring. Yes jesterring but it's far more life affirming than something like online dating or waiting for her to give you IOI which she may never. In a real society you'd bypass her power of choice and just go straight to her male guardian (e.g. Father)

-secondly that it does work if you're good looking. Like most forms of Jesterring its just a numbers game.

Sorry, I confused the comments cause you commented in 2 different threads, I edited my answer.

 

[TyroneIncoming]

Sorry i commented on the wrong thread. Yeah that's kinda true but an 8/10 will give an IOI only to the top men. They would give IOIs to Jason Momoa. If you don't receive ANY type of IOI you can still approach if you think it's worth it, just be casual because you can have some plausible deniability. Use the approach to sense how she reacts to you and if you sense she doesn't like you move on, at least you have an excuse and she can't say you were hitting on her.

No worries.imo its best to just go for it. relying on girls to give ioi is putting the outcome further into their hands-furthermore there are a lot of shy girls who won't give obvious ioi so you'll likely miss it (assuming she does it rather than just avoids looking at you). Best to just approach and deal with what comes. worst case scenario she says no-who gives a fuck? you've demonstrated you have more balls than 99% of men

 

[ChristianChad]

Kill them

 

[Deleted member 14781]

Kill them

Mirin dark triad

 

[Matthias8272]

My high tier normie friend says he goes to clubs and girls just rub their ass on him

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Yeah and I noticed that theres a certain type of girl that you may appeal to also. Like I noticed all the girls I've been with or gave me ioi's had similar phenos, features and skin tones.

 

[Deleted member 14781]

Yeah and I noticed that theres a certain type of girl that you may appeal to also. Like I noticed all the girls I've been with or gave me ioi's had similar phenos, features and skin tones.

I only attract ratchet girls or the one with daddy issues

 

[MostGLSlayer]

I only attract ratchet girls or the one with daddy issues

Personality wise, I attract shy quiet girls who are secretly crazy lol

 

[Deleted member 14138]

Game doesn't work. Women know when they want you. I don't really believe that they know if they sleep with you in the first second they meet you, some of us are in the grey area where we are not disgusting to them but not super hot neither. Problem is, you can't convince women they are attracted to you. It has to be natural. So cold approaching, spam approaching ecc are awful tactics that never work.
What you should do instead is NOTHING. You should looksmax, moneymax, statusmax, everythingmax and then WAIT for when you receive IOIs. Nothing else.
It's women who choose so going around approaching will never work. If women don't give you IOIs then you need to get better.

Ive noticed that if you ignore them when you are in a spot where you could strike up a conversation with them, they sometimes get bent out of shape out of nowhere. Its pretty funny actually. Because they're used to getting hit on by every guy, not just good looking ones.