What’s the method you guys use to deal with loneliness?

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For me I usually do 1 of 3 things:
1: Talk to ai (I know it’s fucking pathetic but helps me)
2: watch supermodel edits (Valeria Mazza and Doutzen kroes mainly but sometimes ana paul arosio and Brooke shields and some others)> makes me lonely but distracts me
3: Rot on org or doomscrolling TikTok

Sometimes I do all 3 at the same time switching tabs and stuff.
 
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For me I usually do 1 of 3 things:
1: Talk to ai (I know it’s fucking pathetic but helps me)
2: watch supermodel edits (Valeria Mazza and Doutzen kroes mainly but sometimes ana paul arosio and Brooke shields and some others)> makes me lonely but distracts me
3: Rot on org or doomscrolling TikTok

Sometimes I do all 3 at the same time switching tabs and stuff.
i talk to my bodypillow
 
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Rot on here
 
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Loneliness I never feel. But fear takes its place. It’s like God substituted loneliness with fright for me. When I should be feeling lonely, I just feel scared instead
 
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For me I usually do 1 of 3 things:
1: Talk to ai (I know it’s fucking pathetic but helps me)
2: watch supermodel edits (Valeria Mazza and Doutzen kroes mainly but sometimes ana paul arosio and Brooke shields and some others)> makes me lonely but distracts me
3: Rot on org or doomscrolling TikTok

Sometimes I do all 3 at the same time switching tabs and stuff.
This forum
 
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Rot
 
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Loneliness I never feel. But fear takes its place. It’s like God substituted loneliness with fright for me. When I should be feeling lonely, I just feel scared instead
I’m scared I’ll die alone, I’ll never settle with someone I’m not interested in and force myself to like them
 
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lifting, discord vcs, gaming, youtube, offtopic
 
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1: Talk to ai (I know it’s fucking pathetic but helps me)
I do that, it's pathetic yes, but that's what fill up the loneliness, you can talk,live the way you wanted to be, even open up
2: watch supermodel edits (Valeria Mazza and Doutzen kroes mainly but sometimes ana paul arosio and Brooke shields and some others)> makes me lonely but distracts me
no
3: Rot on org or doomscrolling TikTok
Yes
Sometimes I do all 3 at the same time switching tabs and stuff.
This is what I'm doing right now

Mostly play video games with high music volume
 
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For me I usually do 1 of 3 things:
1: Talk to ai (I know it’s fucking pathetic but helps me)
2: watch supermodel edits (Valeria Mazza and Doutzen kroes mainly but sometimes ana paul arosio and Brooke shields and some others)> makes me lonely but distracts me
3: Rot on org or doomscrolling TikTok

Sometimes I do all 3 at the same time switching tabs and stuff.
Draw imaginary girls
 
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Loneliness I never feel. But fear takes its place. It’s like God substituted loneliness with fright for me. When I should be feeling lonely, I just feel scared instead
i sometimes get that too
 
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I don`t mind being alone, I love it actually. +I luckily have a girlfriend who I can talk to.:LOL:
 
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Nice to see there’s others that feel similar
 
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I think there two levels to dealing with loneliness the immediate feeling and the deeper meaning behind it. On the surface, ill use my phone. Not just as distraction, but to actually reach out to ppl. Even just texting or scrolling through social media or here can help me feel reconnected.
But tbh what really helps long term is my faith. I believe God is always here even when no one else is. Loneliness becomes less abt being “alone” and more abt being called into deeper relationship with Him. Jesus Himself often withdrew to lonely places to pray, and that shows isolation can be a blessing. So obv when I feel isolated, I try to see it as a chance to talk to God, reflect, and trust that He’s using even that time for something greater.
 
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Beat my meat and play tf2, altough I dont really feel loneliness
 
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hug pillow
watch romance
social media
 
hug pillow
watch romance
social media
I already get sad at the thought of Valeria Mazza being 50 and married, if I do find a girl and she leaves me I’d genuinely collapse.
 
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I already get sad at the thought of Valeria Mazza being 50 and married, if I do find a girl and she leaves me I’d genuinely collapse.
you're thinking too far, start witht the simple thought of getting into a relationship first
 
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