what’s the point of “hanging out”

[vermillioncorefan]

why do guys wanna come to the same physical location as each other and talk. can’t they just call? if ur not gonna fuck them then what is the different between irl and phone call on speaker

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Because hanging out and calling are two different things.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

Because hanging out and calling are two different things.

but what’s the advantage of hanging out? you can just call with speakerphone and set it to a loud volume.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

but what’s the advantage of hanging out? you can just call with speakerphone and set it to a loud volume.

It’s just different.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

It’s just different.

what’s different about it though? especially if u have a high quality speaker it’s the same thing as irl. i think these guys just wanna come in close physical contact w another man

 

[qxtwz7854]

it’s cool

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

what’s different about it though? especially if u have a high quality speaker it’s the same thing as irl. i think these guys just wanna come in close physical contact w another man

Sounds like you’re just projecting.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

Sounds like you’re just projecting.

nah i’m not i just don’t get it

it’s cool

what’s so cool about it though? isn’t it cooler to stay mysterious

 

[qxtwz7854]

what’s so cool about it though? isn’t it cooler to stay mysterious

it’s a really good cope

 

[vermillioncorefan]

it’s a really good cope

wdym it’s really good? i used to have friends yk “”real friends”” as they say but i was like yk it’s not as good as watching tv so i ghosted them

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

nah i’m not i just don’t get it

what’s so cool about it though? isn’t it cooler to stay mysterious

You’re not honest with yourself.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

You’re not honest with yourself.

i am honest with myself wdym? i had friends but ghosted them

 

[vermillioncorefan]

You’re not honest with yourself.

i genuinely don’t understand the appeal. people try to be my friend but i don’t want to be their freind

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

i am honest with myself wdym? i had friends but ghosted them

If you think it’s an excuse to have “close contact” then you’re not honest about you not projecting.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

i genuinely don’t understand the appeal. people try to be my friend but i don’t want to be their freind

So you’re a narcissistic asshole? Cool.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

If you think it’s an excuse to have “close contact” then you’re not honest about you not projecting.

nah i was just making a joke. i actually don’t understand it though not trolling

So you’re a narcissistic asshole? Cool.

nah i have a low opinion of myself. i just know if i am “friends” with them i’m gonna be bored and wish i could watch tv/eat fries instead

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Autism
Or larp

 

[Deleted member 56666]

you get vitamin d synthesis if you hangout outside

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

nag i was just making a joke. i actually don’t understand it though not trolling

Oh ok. I thought you were serious. Well sometimes you wanna go to a restaurant maybe or a movie theater but it’s fake and gay if you go by yourself, and also pathetic. You don’t feel like a loser if you’re hanging out, basically.

nah i have a low opinion of myself. i just know if i am “friends” with them i’m gonna be bored and wish i could watch tv/eat fries instead

I see. Same here. However I don’t hang out much with friends. Maybe once every month. The time between the second last time I hung out with best friends and the last time was like three months.

 

[Deleted member 56666]

and im truecel

 

[vermillioncorefan]

Autism
Or larp

i’m not being larp. i blocked all my friends and i ignore people irl and give minimum interaction cuz i don’t want them to think i’m their “friend” or whatever

 

[Deleted member 56666]

i can sense that everyone will have a good day tomorrow.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

Oh ok. I thought you were serious. Well sometimes you wanna go to a restaurant maybe or a movie theater but it’s fake and gay if you go by yourself, and also pathetic. You don’t feel like a loser if you’re hanging out, basically.

i go many places alone such as the beach the park restaurants etc. i just enjoy doing activities by myself. i have gone to these places with friends and i enjoyed it less than by myself. but i used to feel like a loser doing that but then i realized that’s just becaus of the way i looked at it so now i’m good.

I see. Same here. However I don’t hang out much with friends. Maybe once every month. The time between the second last time I hung out with best friends and the last time was like three months.

same bro that’s how i was.. now i haven’t seen a friend in about 8 months.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

you get vitamin d synthesis if you hangout outside

i go outside by myself

i can sense that everyone will have a good day tomorrow.

thanks bro u too

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

i go many places alone such as the beach the park restaurants etc. i just enjoy doing activities by myself. i have gone to these places with friends and i enjoyed it less than by myself. but i used to feel like a loser doing that but then i realized that’s just becaus of the way i looked at it so now i’m good.

Yeah. I am versatile. I can either hang out with friends or hang out by myself. I’m mostly alone anyway, so it’s nice to hang out with a friend sometime and just catch up, talk about life.

same bro that’s how i was.. now i haven’t seen a friend in about 8 months.

After a long time, it will be nice to hang out with a good friend. Not just an acquaintance but someone you could call a best friend. I only have two best friends but they’re both 28 and 29 respectively and either have a full-time job or they study and work at the same time, so they’re really busy. They also live by themselves. One lives in another city and another lives somewhat nearby. I am going to meet up with the 29 year old from here because I needed to buy a measuring tape and he needed one as well.