What’s your long term settling down plan?

[OnlyWs]

i plan to enjoy the next 10-15 years and have mostly low commitment/ ltr but not live together

Then in my late 30’s settles down with a mid 20’s girl

Focus on having fun and making money until then

And assuming I’m rich enough have a family, if not just ltr without kids

 

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[SoundnVision]

i plan to enjoy the next 10-15 years and have mostly low commitment/ ltr but not live together

Then in my late 30’s settles down with a mid 20’s girl

Focus on having fun and making money until then

And assuming I’m rich enough have a family, if not just ltr without kids

Good luck fella you gonna need it

 

[OptimiseU]

I just turned 30 and probably slept with around 70ish girls across my life.

Most of them happened in the last few years when I was 24ish started improving looks (around covid) and then becoming less anxious/more NT due to repeat exposure and meditation.

When I was a teenager the internet information was so fucking wrong and retarded, you guys are so lucky to have access to this shit and also the crazy drugs like GLPs etc. So I didn't really get to the point where I was living well until I was like 26/27.

I think really in the last year it's got to the point where I literally get *nothing*, no dopamine at all, no validation at all, from sleeping with attractive women. It's just become a chore that I occasionally do just to retain the skill.

I think so now I'm going to devote myself to just picking a MTB/HTB to wife and then turn off the internet/social media and forget about all this stuff forever. I originally was going to wait until 35 but it actually gets boring faster than you think.

 

[OnlyWs]

I just turned 30 and probably slept with around 70ish girls across my life.

Most of them happened in the last few years when I was 24ish started improving looks (around covid) and then becoming less anxious/more NT due to repeat exposure and meditation.

When I was a teenager the internet information was so fucking wrong and retarded, you guys are so lucky to have access to this shit and also the crazy drugs like GLPs etc. So I didn't really get to the point where I was living well until I was like 26/27.

I think really in the last year it's got to the point where I literally get *nothing*, no dopamine at all, no validation at all, from sleeping with attractive women. It's just become a chore that I occasionally do just to retain the skill.

I think so now I'm going to devote myself to just picking a MTB/HTB to wife and then turn off the internet/social media and forget about all this stuff forever. I originally was going to wait until 35 but it actually gets boring faster than you think.

That's fair, I could see myself settling down sooner as well tbh