When did your insecurity start?

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For me it was when I was 10 and used to stare at a mirror for 2+ hrs daily crying at my bone structure and my weight
 
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For me it was when I was 10 and used to stare at a mirror for 2+ hrs daily crying at my bone structure and my weight
when i was 14 i guess, i was realizing bp without knowing what it is
 
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when i was 14 i guess, i was realizing bp without knowing what it is
I feel like most people accept that lookism does exist before ever looking into it
 
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at 11
 
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For me it was when I was 10 and used to stare at a mirror for 2+ hrs daily crying at my bone structure and my weight
11
 
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i started like “working out” at 10 because i was weird LOL

didnt really become insecure about my looks until about 2 years ago
 
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i started like “working out” at 10 because i was weird LOL

didnt really become insecure about my looks until about 2 years ago
Pushups in my room listening to motivational edits LOL
 
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when i was 14 i guess, i was realizing bp without knowing what it is
did the ceo of BP aka @Clavicular leave you traumatized

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Sumthing happens after becoming 10 where you just get massively insecure ig
I was bullied at 11 because I was severely overweight and ugly
 
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When I was like 5 or 6 years old and people were picking on me because I was a freckled ginger
 
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For me it was when I was 10 and used to stare at a mirror for 2+ hrs daily crying at my bone structure and my weight
when me and my ex broke up 3yrs ago
 
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I was bullied at 11 because I was severely overweight and ugly
I feel like even without knowing I had been shunned because of my looks
 
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When I was like 5 or 6 years old and people were picking on me because I was a freckled ginger
Being ginger when a kid is something I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy
 
10, as I was extremely skinny with my ribs sticking out. also my flared ribs, bad posture and winged scapula started to form.

I was bullied by people bigger than me and only when I got taller did that stop.
 
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Last year. Started with my hair
 
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For me it was when I was 10 and used to stare at a mirror for 2+ hrs daily crying at my bone structure and my weight
I don't know if I ever really had it. Though I've had fleeting spells where I might have felt unsure of myself. Its always been easy for me to re-calibrate. Never was able to rely on anyone for any sort of advice or emotional support. It's ironically easy to stay grounded when you're all you've got, given that you're of the right nature.
 
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I don't know if I ever really had it. Though I've had fleeting spells where I might have felt unsure of myself. It’s always been easy for me to re-calibrate. Never was able to rely on anyone for any sort of advice or emotional support. It's ironically easy to stay grounded when you're all you've got, given that you're of the right nature.
What made it worse for me was constant jokes from family
 
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10, as I was extremely skinny with my ribs sticking out. also my flared ribs, bad posture and winged scapula started to form.

I was bullied by people bigger than me and only when I got taller did that stop.
Even after u get taller it never really goes away
 
Even after u get taller it never really goes away
In a sense yeah, I can't look at my body with a good mentality, but I don't think im ever gonna get bullied again
 
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For me it was when I was 10 and used to stare at a mirror for 2+ hrs daily crying at my bone structure and my weight
Very young age. No one wanted to hold hands with me as a child i felt like everyone was disgusted by me
 
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Very young age. No one wanted to hold hands with me as a child i felt like everyone was disgusted by me
That’s a big one like when I was younger it seemed every kid had a gf even if it wasn’t serious and this goes back to like being like 7 yrs old
 
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Probably because unknowingly bp content was being fed to you by places like TikTok
Maybe but I didn’t even have tictok back then and was hardly on YouTube shorts either. Lowk just hated my fatness
 
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Mirin the angel beats profile aesthetic
 
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Maybe but I didn’t even have tictok back then and was hardly on YouTube shorts either. Lowk just hated my fatness
Tbh from a young age ppl started bullying me and no one really did anything about it that kinda started it
 
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