When do you accept that it’s actually over?

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This is not really related to the looksmaxxing shit in general but honestly a depressing post. I found out about looksmaxxing 2022 ish and have seriously improved ever since but it was all really softmaxxing i never tried peptides or had surgery or even got soft fixes like braces or expander because money has been tight for a while now. I am recessed in some sort of ways and i know I can’t fix it at least not right now and with the new looksflation it’s actually been horrible. Around my area for every 30 men there’s 1 woman it’s obviously exaggerated but you get the idea and you either have to be 10/10, rich, or tall and im neither. I started to lose hope and im slowly giving up on this failed journey maybe it was never meant to be , for the next while im just gonna focus on my studying and gym I have lost hope in my life and I have no purpose anymore . I have considered roping many times honestly and still do but I never had the guts to do it and I always think selflessly but either way I have been depressed and dealing with this dilemma for a long time maybe around 1 or 2 years now and honestly I hate the happy act I have to put around every single day. Honestly even if it’s corny I have genuinely nobody to tell this to and I suffer in silence everyday. Please check up on your loved ones and make sure they are well. Sorry for this horrible post too , love you all.
 
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It's never over until you fix facial flaws with surgery, grow hair out completely with majestic layers, moneymaxx, get at your best physique, you sign up on 9000 dating apps, lose bodyfat, etc

it's a lot about outreach too, if you stay at home all day and you're a majestic looking dude but nobody can see you on social media or anywhere then it's impossible finding someone special, sign up on as many dating apps or look at pictures deeply and try to see what's wrong

I'd just focus on moneymaxxing get on many jobs as possible while studying if you can, there's no need to stress about things you can't control

and from reading that, I feel you deeply and hope you do get through this. It won't be like this forever.

Take care :Comfy:
 
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Never, I am 18% bodyfat, fashion and hair maxxed out. Have a few surgeries planned. Personally for myself I’d say it’s probably over, you can’t escape negative reinforcement you got until 19.
 
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If there was a when, i don’t think anyone can accept it’s over, you keep believing
 
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It's never over until you fix facial flaws with surgery, grow hair out completely with majestic layers, moneymaxx, get at your best physique, you sign up on 9000 dating apps, lose bodyfat, etc

it's a lot about outreach too, if you stay at home all day and you're a majestic looking dude but nobody can see you on social media or anywhere then it's impossible finding someone special, sign up on as many dating apps or look at pictures deeply and try to see what's wrong

I'd just focus on moneymaxxing get on many jobs as possible while studying if you can, there's no need to stress about things you can't control

and from reading that, I feel you deeply and hope you do get through this. It won't be like this forever.

Take care :Comfy:
Thank you legend 🤍
 
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P.S sorry for bad English it’s not my main language

This is not really related to the looksmaxxing shit in general but honestly a depressing post. I found out about looksmaxxing 2022 ish and have seriously improved ever since but it was all really softmaxxing i never tried peptides or had surgery or even got soft fixes like braces or expander because money has been tight for a while now. I am recessed in some sort of ways and i know I can’t fix it at least not right now and with the new looksflation it’s actually been horrible. Around my area for every 30 men there’s 1 woman it’s obviously exaggerated but you get the idea and you either have to be 10/10, rich, or tall and im neither. I started to lose hope and im slowly giving up on this failed journey maybe it was never meant to be , for the next while im just gonna focus on my studying and gym I have lost hope in my life and I have no purpose anymore . I have considered roping many times honestly and still do but I never had the guts to do it and I always think selflessly but either way I have been depressed and dealing with this dilemma for a long time maybe around 1 or 2 years now and honestly I hate the happy act I have to put around every single day. Honestly even if it’s corny I have genuinely nobody to tell this to and I suffer in silence everyday. Please check up on your loved ones and make sure they are well. Sorry for this horrible post too , love you all.
It’s not over for me but wish you the best
 

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