When does the confidence come

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So I would say I’ve had a pretty serious glow up, not to be cocky or anything but I would say I look much better now. The way that girls would talk to me before has like permenantly scarred my confidence. There’s this girl in my math class who is genuinely beautiful and im pretty sure has given me signs she wants me to talk to her(eye contact and she smiled.) So after class I waited and was gonna go up to her. But I couldn’t. I just can’t talk to them like what is wrong with me. Constantly overthinking but I know I look good enough. I just constantly overthink and it ruins my confidence and self thoughts. All I think about is what could or what might happen but I never do anything. I know I just have to go up to her but it’s like why is it so hard. Why is my confidence so shit even though I look better? I just want to be confident in myself and how I speak to others.
 

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the confidence comes when you start injecting testosterone
 
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So I would say I’ve had a pretty serious glow up, not to be cocky or anything but I would say I look much better now. The way that girls would talk to me before has like permenantly scarred my confidence. There’s this girl in my math class who is genuinely beautiful and im pretty sure has given me signs she wants me to talk to her(eye contact and she smiled.) So after class I waited and was gonna go up to her. But I couldn’t. I just can’t talk to them like what is wrong with me. Constantly overthinking but I know I look good enough. I just constantly overthink and it ruins my confidence and self thoughts. All I think about is what could or what might happen but I never do anything. I know I just have to go up to her but it’s like why is it so hard. Why is my confidence so shit even though I look better? I just want to be confident in myself and how I speak to others.
bro just do it
 
So I would say I’ve had a pretty serious glow up, not to be cocky or anything but I would say I look much better now. The way that girls would talk to me before has like permenantly scarred my confidence. There’s this girl in my math class who is genuinely beautiful and im pretty sure has given me signs she wants me to talk to her(eye contact and she smiled.) So after class I waited and was gonna go up to her. But I couldn’t. I just can’t talk to them like what is wrong with me. Constantly overthinking but I know I look good enough. I just constantly overthink and it ruins my confidence and self thoughts. All I think about is what could or what might happen but I never do anything. I know I just have to go up to her but it’s like why is it so hard. Why is my confidence so shit even though I look better? I just want to be confident in myself and how I speak to others.
Dnr why are you posting yourself on Offtopic? :lul::lul:
 

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