When she said she didn't feel a spark, so no to second date.

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Does this mean I fucked up by:

1. I was not attractive enough for her (it was dating app, she only saw my pics before, which I don't think are frauded, no filters/edit, my photos are quite crap anyway)

2. I was too non NT and didn't touch her or kiss her except for hello and goodbye hug, I wasn't autistic in conversation, i was very normal, good flowing, laughing, that was all good, but just a bit platonic, like hanging with a dude

3. Some other reason

???
 
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I am white, 6'2, athletic, broad build, 7/10 facially as rated by wheat waffles and tails. I also am a ginger with some acne scars (hard failos).

She was prob 7/10 ethnic, used heavily frauded makeup and filters but was still gl irl. Not crazy gl, my last gf was better, but still not bad. Also kinda interesting to talk to.
 
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Does this mean I fucked up by:

1. I was not attractive enough for her (it was dating app, she only saw my pics before, which I don't think are frauded, no filters/edit, my photos are quite crap anyway)

2. I was too non NT and didn't touch her or kiss her except for hello and goodbye hug, I wasn't autistic in conversation, i was very normal, good flowing, laughing, that was all good, but just a bit platonic, like hanging with a dude

3. Some other reason

???
the fuck are all these stoires about these dates i never experienced them

either i fuck first date, immediately try just to be a friend and be a degen (i kissed another girl at the queue to the wardrobe while on a date :lul:) or i simply ghost

never have i ever been told there is no chemistry the fuck is this normie shit i thought it was a meme
 
I am white, 6'2, athletic, broad build, 7/10 facially as rated by wheat waffles and tails. I also am a ginger with some acne scars (hard failos).

She was prob 7/10 ethnic, used heavily frauded makeup and filters but was still gl irl. Not crazy gl, my last gf was better, but still not bad. Also kinda interesting to talk to.
nigga at 6'2 u got cucked it's over
 
the fuck are all these stoires about these dates i never experienced them

either i fuck first date, immediately try just to be a friend and be a degen (i kissed another girl at the queue to the wardrobe while on a date :lul:) or i simply ghost

never have i ever been told there is no chemistry the fuck is this normie shit i thought it was a meme
yeh i dont wanna just slay though i want ltr with girl about my level. I am kinda bored of that
 
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if you looked like this, she woulda gave you a rimjob on the first date
 
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Does this mean I fucked up by:

1. I was not attractive enough for her (it was dating app, she only saw my pics before, which I don't think are frauded, no filters/edit, my photos are quite crap anyway)

2. I was too non NT and didn't touch her or kiss her except for hello and goodbye hug, I wasn't autistic in conversation, i was very normal, good flowing, laughing, that was all good, but just a bit platonic, like hanging with a dude

3. Some other reason

???
She found chad

I’m speaking from experience, either that or you was boring or an aspie.

my advice? Move on

when you meet a girl the most important thing is to break the touch barrier immideately if you fail to break this early and go for the kiss or touch later on she will be weirded out as she sees you as a freind
 
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yeh i dont wanna just slay though i want ltr with girl about my level. I am kinda bored of that
i was looking for LTR every time as well lol

the fuck were u doing at the date nigga usually after 5 minute u know if its over or not why are you even analysing it retrospect after the date is over

i'd just ask her if i'm gl and she's interested and if not i'll propose to go home lol
 
View attachment 1502818if you looked like this, she woulda gave you a rimjob on the first date
whoa good eye support mine is subhuman, my jaw is my good feature on my face, rest is good, except eye support which is utter dogshit. i got filler tho so it is abit better, but still eye area sucks overall
 
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whoa good eye support mine is subhuman, my jaw is my good feature on my face, rest is good, except eye support which is utter dogshit. i got filler tho so it is abit better, but still eye area sucks overall
how much did your filler cost
 
I am white, 6'2, athletic, broad build, 7/10 facially as rated by wheat waffles and tails. I also am a ginger with some acne scars (hard failos).

She was prob 7/10 ethnic, used heavily frauded makeup and filters but was still gl irl. Not crazy gl, my last gf was better, but still not bad. Also kinda interesting to talk to.
These are the most important points, along with where you live. Assuming she is young and fertile, she has a line of men wanting to date her, she can afford to pass on any guy that isn't perfect. Probably only 1 guy in 5 gets a second date with her.

7/10 gingers would be rare, and appeal would be only to some women, your gingerness may have been hidden in your photos.
 
She found chad

I’m speaking from experience, either that or you was boring or an aspie.

my advice? Move on

when you meet a girl the most important thing is to break the touch barrier immideately if you fail to break this early and go for the kiss or touch later on she will be weirded out as she sees you as a freind
no shit i'm gonna move on, i already deleted her from my phone, wtf u think im gna message her, ' i know u said no spark but pretty please can i see u agen'
how much did your filler cost
300
 
She found chad

I’m speaking from experience, either that or you was boring or an aspie.

my advice? Move on

when you meet a girl the most important thing is to break the touch barrier immideately if you fail to break this early and go for the kiss or touch later on she will be weirded out as she sees you as a freind
maybe i was a boring aspie. idk. i dont get what they want. conversation was fine, i guess they just want something also. the la;st girl i was dating and was asian fob so maybe she didn't clock my boringness as much
 
"didn't feel a spark" :lul: When you're ugly, you hear that more often. A Chad has never heard that phrase before. A Chad only hears sucking noises when Becky or Stacy gives him a BJ right after the date because they find him so hot.
 
"didn't feel a spark" :lul: When you're ugly, you hear that more often. A Chad has never heard that phrase before. A Chad only hears sucking noises when Becky or Stacy gives him a BJ right after the date because they find him so hot.
Yeah, it is a shame im not a mind reader. it would be so much easier if I knew girls found me gl or not. so i could just duck out instead of having to read this bullshit microsignals
 
Yeah, it is a shame im not a mind reader. it would be so much easier if I knew girls found me gl or not. so i could just duck out instead of having to read this bullshit microsignals
Yeah. People should be straight about this kind of thing.
 
Yeah. People should be straight about this kind of thing.
such a shame, she was an attractive arab girl police officer :feelswhy:, perfect height for me 5'7, oh well, back to OLD
 
such a shame, she was an attractive arab girl police officer :feelswhy:, perfect height for me 5'7, oh well, back to OLD
Would you want your gf to think you are in the same range of attractiveness as most PSL gods? Like if your gf told you you mogged O Pry, how would you feel? I am curious tbh. I would want her to be pretty blunt about this and give me a straight x/10 rating if anything.
 
@darkness97

See what I mean by not escalating with seduction, you end up like this guy.
 
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See what I mean by not escalating with seduction, you end up like this guy.
Idk. If it was him to guage. If he escalated too much, he could have ended up metoo'ed. Though 7/10 face + 6'2" height justifies taking an aggressive approach like that.
 
Idk. If it was him to guage. If he escalated too much, he could have ended up metoo'ed. Though 7/10 face + 6'2" height justifies taking an aggressive approach like that.
Jesus I don't mean rape her
 
She found chad

I’m speaking from experience, either that or you was boring or an aspie.

my advice? Move on

when you meet a girl the most important thing is to break the touch barrier immideately if you fail to break this early and go for the kiss or touch later on she will be weirded out as she sees you as a freind
not true
 
Jesus I don't mean rape her
Depends on the approximate SMV difference between him and her. He should have tried to escalate a bit more but nothing too aggressive. Remember, she SMVmogs him. Not the other way round. If you SMVmog a girl by a very large amount, you can get away with pretty much anything.
 
@darkness97

See what I mean by not escalating with seduction, you end up like this guy.
legit. part of me thinks that he wasn't that into her or something. as in, he just wasn't that 'comfortable' with her lol. i chalk this up to lack of interest.

if it was me lol i would have dropped the ball before the meet up even happened.
 
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@MostGLSlayer This thread made me think of something. i was going to start a thread about it but lol, forget about it.

do you think that he would have been better off just starting off as friends with this girl and slowly escalated? i can't help but feel that even with my most attractive female friends there is a discomfort in imagining intimacy with them. Like, i don't trust them enough to see me in a vulnerable state such as proposing for sex or being naked.

Would it be just better to take it slower so the trust is built so the fear of mine goes down? i understand that this could esily put you in the friendzone, but i'd argue that that is just a lack of attractiveness more than anything.

what do you think?
 
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@MostGLSlayer This thread made me think of something. i was going to start a thread about it but lol, forget about it.

do you think that he would have been better off just starting off as friends with this girl and slowly escalated? i can't help but feel that even with my most attractive female friends there is a discomfort in imagining intimacy with them. Like, i don't trust them enough to see me in a vulnerable state such as proposing for sex or being naked.

Would it be just better to take it slower so the trust is built so the fear of mine goes down? i understand that this could esily put you in the friendzone, but i'd argue that that is just a lack of attractiveness more than anything.

what do you think?
Just hang out in private a few times, doesnt take take long to get comfortable.
 
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She found chad

I’m speaking from experience, either that or you was boring or an aspie.

my advice? Move on

when you meet a girl the most important thing is to break the touch barrier immideately if you fail to break this early and go for the kiss or touch later on she will be weirded out as she sees you as a freind
What does it mean when you meet new girls and they actually the ones that break the touch barrier first by touching you?
 
What does it mean when you meet new girls and they actually the ones that break the touch barrier first by touching you?
It is a good sign it means she’s physically attracted to you. I’d argue if you touch a girl and she doesn’t pull away but instead touches you back then your good to go, if the girl imitates it’s even better as she’s into you

she could also be a whore though
 
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It is a good sign it means she’s physically attracted to you. I’d argue if you touch a girl and she doesn’t pull away but instead touches you back then your good to go, if the girl imitates it’s even better as she’s into you

she could also be a whore though
What are signs girls find you attractive? Is them constantly trying to talk with you, laughing with you and touching with you good signs? Or is it them being friendly? (i got told by a few girls that they find me hot/ had a few girls crush on me too not to brag) just wonder
 
What are signs girls find you attractive? Is them constantly trying to talk with you, laughing with you and touching with you good signs? Or is it them being friendly? (i got told by a few girls that they find me hot/ had a few girls crush on me too not to brag) just wonder
Girls letting you touch them and actively attempting to get you to follow/speak to them. If they touch you as well. Honestly many things

if your aspie just know you may put her off LOL women hate aspies
 
she found a better looking dude and is looking to go out with him
 
Does this mean I fucked up by:

1. I was not attractive enough for her (it was dating app, she only saw my pics before, which I don't think are frauded, no filters/edit, my photos are quite crap anyway)

2. I was too non NT and didn't touch her or kiss her except for hello and goodbye hug, I wasn't autistic in conversation, i was very normal, good flowing, laughing, that was all good, but just a bit platonic, like hanging with a dude

3. Some other reason

???
ITS OVER!!!!!
 

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