When you are young, you don't realize you are a genetic dead-end.

[Deleted member 17578]

I coped so fucking well when I was younger, I honestly can't believe it.

I was being treated like absolute filth, bullied EVERYWHERE. But I kept on going like the best strongest warrior.

It's just insane. As a 28yo, this is no longer possible.

 

[Deleted member 23558]

 

[Deleted member 26642]

The second you compare your life experiences to attractive people it's impossible to be motivated. I just thought girls hated guys

 

[LancasteR]

You delude yourself with naivety because as a young guy you‘re full of aspirations, hopes and dreams.
But one day it hits you in the face like a handful of bricks.

 

[Deleted member 31072]

You delude yourself with naivety because as a young guy you‘re full of aspirations, hopes and dreams.
But one day it hits you in the face like a handful of bricks.

At what age did it hit you?

Me, I think it dawned upon me about a year or 2 ago.

 

[Zonar]

Nigga you are htn

 

[LancasteR]

At what age did it hit you?

Me, I think it dawned upon me about a year or 2 ago.

17, at the time I also got to Hamza‘s channel and then ultimately found the blackpill and this forum.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

The second you compare your life experiences to attractive people it's impossible to be motivated. I just thought girls hated guys

This so much.

When I was younger I just thought: 'oh lol, girls just hate guys, it's normal haha.' I didn't care that much about being treated like filth by women.

Then it became impossible to cope once my better-looking friends got girlfriends when they were ~13yo.

That's when I slowly stopped socializing and retreated from society.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

You delude yourself with naivety because as a young guy you‘re full of aspirations, hopes and dreams.
But one day it hits you in the face like a handful of bricks.

I was getting blackpilled left and right in my teenage years. But I had a strong sense of hope:

'One day, I will also be attractive to girls. It will come.'

Then that hope slowly faded between 14-18yo.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Nigga you are htn

I don't care about being htn in mumbai

 

[Zonar]

I don't care about being htn in mumbai

U in Mumbai? Jfl its over

 

[LancasteR]

I was getting blackpilled left and right in my teenage years. But I had a strong sense of hope:

'One day, I will also be attractive to girls. It will come.'

Then that hope slowly faded between 14-18yo.

I still have that cope because I have still softmaxxing and Trimax before me.
But idk if it will help cause at the end we here are mentally also stunted, from lonely teenage years.
We basically have to force ourselves to look forward and forget the past, elsewise we will always get stuck in past mishaps.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

I still have that cope because I have still softmaxxing and Trimax before me.
But idk if it will help cause at the end we here are mentally also stunted, from lonely teenage years.
We basically have to force ourselves to look forward and forget the past, elsewise we will always get stuck in past mishaps.

I don't really care about looks that much anymore.

It's the brutal mental damage, the personality disorders you collect, which hurt the most at this point.

 

[zharupodrugu]

I was getting blackpilled left and right in my teenage years. But I had a strong sense of hope:

'One day, I will also be attractive to girls. It will come.'

Then that hope slowly faded between 14-18yo.

I was rejected from cold approaches 100% of the time. Sometimes brutally. I was going to clubs and just got drunk and danced with friends bitchless ofc. Yet, I was clueless

I still have that cope because I have still softmaxxing and Trimax before me.
But idk if it will help cause at the end we here are mentally also stunted, from lonely teenage years.
We basically have to force ourselves to look forward and forget the past, elsewise we will always get stuck in past mishaps.

nah, incels overstimate the importance of teenage love. Its cope. Otherwise i would remain sexless loser for eternity

 

[AspiringMogger]

I have delusionmaxxed severely. I’m 120% convinced I’m smarter than most millionaires. I’m gonna make a clothing brand with my roommate soon. I will make it or die trying. Cooperate wageslaving is not for niggas like me.

 

[LancasteR]

I don't really care about looks that much anymore.

It's the brutal mental damage, the personality disorders you collect, which hurt the most at this point.

fuaark man I wish I could delete the past memories of my life like in men in black

On the other hand it’s who I am nowadays, I wouldn’t wanna erase a part of myself.

nah, incels overstimate the importance of teenage love. Its cope. Otherwise i would remain sexless loser for eternity

It depends on the context.
It’s not just teenage love itself, but missing out on a important development milestone.
It’s hard to explain, and maybe "teenage love" IS a cope nowadays since everyone starts getting experience so early.
But you’re free of expectations and the "first love" is unconditional as a teen.
Maybe even all in this regard to the "Highschool" sweetheart-trope and experience is a cope to some, but ultimately there is a truth to it.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

I have delusionmaxxed severely. I’m 120% convinced I’m smarter than most millionaires. I’m gonna make a clothing brand with my roommate soon. I will make it or die trying. Cooperate wageslaving is not for niggas like me.

same here. I am convinced I am better than wage-slaves.

 

[zharupodrugu]

It depends on the context.
It’s not just teenage love itself, but missing out on a important development milestone.
It’s hard to explain, and maybe "teenage love" IS a cope nowadays since everyone starts getting experience so early.
But you’re free of expectations and the "first love" is unconditional as a teen.
Maybe even all in this regard to the "Highschool" sweetheart-trope and experience is a cope to some, but ultimately there is a truth to it.

i missed out on it completely. So what? Im still getting laid. Incels preach once u had no teen love u will never get bitch

 

[LancasteR]

i missed out on it completely. So what? Im still getting laid. Incels preach once u had no teen love u will never get bitch

Never said that. Don’t group me together with those that say this.
I meant something completely different, also everyone sees it in a other way.

 

[AspiringMogger]

same here. I am convinced I am better than wage-slaves.

Have you ever thought of becoming an entrepreneur? I work a fast food job, and I can’t for the life of me take it serious. I’m in uni too. I have no aspirations to climb the career ladder. Maybe if I had full ownership of what I was doing I would be more motivated to do something for myself.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Have you ever thought of becoming an entrepreneur? I work a fast food job, and I can’t for the life of me take it serious. I’m in uni too. I have no aspirations to climb the career ladder. Maybe if I had full ownership of what I was doing I would be more motivated to do something for myself.

yes I have thought about it, but society has worn me down too much already to commit

 

[Deleted member 17578]

fuaark man I wish I could delete the past memories of my life like in men in black

On the other hand it’s who I am nowadays, I wouldn’t wanna erase a part of myself.

It depends on the context.
It’s not just teenage love itself, but missing out on a important development milestone.
It’s hard to explain, and maybe "teenage love" IS a cope nowadays since everyone starts getting experience so early.
But you’re free of expectations and the "first love" is unconditional as a teen.
Maybe even all in this regard to the "Highschool" sweetheart-trope and experience is a cope to some, but ultimately there is a truth to it.

this so fucking much