where did i go wrong w this girl ? help for future pls

[iLdar]

u prob right , but im not good w girls for reasons

What are the reasons
Also can i See Front rq

 

[slavvicularr]

prolly cuz ur a bitch and didn’t make any moves. Women want a confident chad not a low T pussy

just cuz i didn’t make moves doesn’t mean im low T but i get what ur saying

 

[slavvicularr]

What are the reasons
Also can i See Front rq

idk the reasons nga i just can’t talk to girls that i like. i talk and communicate completely fine with jst girls that i have no interest in .

and front i made a post a few weeks ago. but here you go broski

im the dude in blue shirt

 

[leorknight27]

If I had to guess it could be because you didn’t make a direct move early enough. But overall this shit is gunna happen a lot where a girl is gunna “lose feelings” or just not be interested anymore and it sucks but you just gotta move on cuz if you try and find out why they stopped talking to you 99% of the time they make up a bs excuse. At this point you just gotta move on don’t give her any attention at all. If you end up reconnecting great but just try and act like she doesn’t exist and you’ll move on.

 

[5OuttaTen]

Highest EQ forum user here:

You probably just didn’t escalate enough. You should have complimented her more and maybe tried to kiss her, she may have felt like just one option of many for you

 

[slavvicularr]

If I had to guess it could be because you didn’t make a direct move early enough. But overall this shit is gunna happen a lot where a girl is gunna “lose feelings” or just not be interested anymore and it sucks but you just gotta move on cuz if you try and find out why they stopped talking to you 99% of the time they make up a bs excuse. At this point you just gotta move on don’t give her any attention at all. If you end up reconnecting great but just try and act like she doesn’t exist and you’ll move on.

best advice i received so far thanks so much g

 

[slavvicularr]

Highest EQ forum user here:

You probably just didn’t escalate enough. You should have complimented her more and maybe tried to kiss her, she may have felt like just one option of many for you

maybe , yeah u prob right thanks a lot

 

[leorknight27]

best advice i received so far thanks so much g

No problem bhai

 

[iLdar]

idk the reasons nga i just can’t talk to girls that i like. i talk and communicate completely fine with jst girls that i have no interest in .

and front i made a post a few weeks ago. but here you go broski View attachment 5465627

im the dude in blue shirt

Ye Ur prolly focusing too much on seeming Appealing or doing too much, Just relax Bro and do Ur Thing

 

[slavvicularr]

Ye Ur prolly focusing to much on seeming Appealing or doing too much, Just relax Bro and do Ur Thing

yeah ur most likely right

 

[slavvicularr]

I mean if you really were looking at her friends more maybe don't do that next time? Maybe meet her in person and explain yourself if you really do like her. Other than that bro if she thinks she doesn't deserve you then I'm sorry you can't do anything about it, she doesn't want anything so don't force it to become something.

idk why i didn’t see ur reply earlier mb g , but i wanna clarify and say i wasn’t looking at her friends more , just talked to them more cuz we were in the same group together. maybe she got jealous . obv im not gna force her to make this smth she doesn’t want it to be.
also she doesn’t wanna meet in person for sum reason

 

[Epico]

they said it’s cuz i was paying more attention to her friends rather than her and she thought i wasn’t interested in her. keep in mind the girl herself never told me any of this so yeah w communication .

if that’s true, well that’s ur reason. Sometimes you gotta be the person that makes a move, should’ve shown more interest in the start. Make some real moves, try to get to know her better I guess. I mean sometimes it just isn’t possible to start a relationship, she might’ve just wanted to have some fun and didn’t realise you wanted more. Best thing you can do is be clear with what you want in the future while not taking so long to do anything

 

[slavvicularr]

if that’s true, well that’s ur reason. Sometimes you gotta be the person that makes a move, should’ve shown more interest in the start. Make some real moves, try to get to know her better I guess. I mean sometimes it just isn’t possible to start a relationship, she might’ve just wanted to have some fun and didn’t realise you wanted more. Best thing you can do is be clear with what you want in the future while not taking so long to do anything

idk why i’m sitting here defending her on .org but i’m quite confident in the fact that she wasn’t trynna just have fun. and yeah ur def right i shoulda been more confident

 

[Epico]

idk why i’m sitting here defending her on .org but i’m quite confident in the fact that she wasn’t trynna just have fun. and yeah ur def right i shoulda been more confident

I guess if ur confident in that she was interested, she just didn’t realise you were. If you still believe that something could happen between you 2 I guess be a man and try to talk to her about what you feel. Sounds like she got mad that you asked another girl out to dance, just talk about stuff like that and tell her that you didn’t realise what she wanted.

Just remember that she isn’t the world, you are what, 16? Not worth it to put too much energy into it if she doesn't seem interested. However definitely try to figure out what she actually wanted, if you feel like she’s worth it. Confidence is key(if you aren’t ugly)

 

[foidlovingmtn]

just cuz i didn’t make moves doesn’t mean im low T but i get what ur saying

it’s a low T trait. High T men crave sex so clearly u weren’t hungry enough to make a move.

 

[starboy35]

for information that may be nessesary to answer my question here some info
i’m 16 years old from russia , story happened in russia at some summer camp during the span of two weeks.

basically went to this summer camp where i met this cute girl ( mmtb -hmtb ) with alright base but softmaxxed imo( perfect teeth , tan , good hair , smells good and such)
days 1-3 we didn’t talk cuz we were in separate groups.
day 4 all 4 groups of 6 ppl went biking together and stuff and we talked a lil she was laughing at my jokes and stuff.
then there was a camp disco party or whatever you call it ( dance ) where one of the parts you can invite a girl to a slow dance but i didn’t cuz im a pussy ass nigga.
we kept talking randomly and i went into the girls room a couple times to use their phone( i forgot mine ) but only did that just so i could have a possibility of starting a convo w her.

then one night it was like 1am or smth i don’t remember how it happened but i ended up in the girls room shirtless and we talked with her for like 30 mins abt some random bs . i could tell she was kinda interested in me. also they same day in the evening some fucktards were glazing me saying i look good and the girls asked abt that. and asked me to show side profile which i thought was rly weird and whatever but i did and they said i looked like a model. we talked for a lil more and then i left to sleep.

few days pass and the whole camp had another dance or party idk. during the part where u can invite a girl to dance i invited her she said yes. the same night me and my hb who danced with her best friend went over into their room and jst talked till 3am or smth.
also we kinda layed together ( cuddled) but it wasn’t rly intimate for obvious reasons.

then in the next few days we kept talking , but not that much cuz i had some friends in the camp and we were in different groups.

long story short she started avoiding me before the third party( 5 day gap i think)
and i talked to her best friend and she said that the girl didn’t think i was the right person for her . broootal .

this happened right before the third dance and then i went and danced with some lmtb from a different group that i didnt rly know just to get back at her idk what i was thinking probably shoulda talked to her before doing it but whatever.

i talked to her friends and tried to get reasons on why she doesn’t wanna talk to me anymore. they said it’s cuz i was paying more attention to her friends rather than her and she thought i wasn’t interested in her. keep in mind the girl herself never told me any of this so yeah w communication .

obviously she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore . i tried texting her but she replies like 2hrs later and dry.


before u hate cuz this is rly long and incoherent, frick you i typed this on my phone and this is a vent post so shut the frick up buddy .

yeah idk just want advice on what i did wrong

Nga wrote a romance wth