Where do females even look for guys?

[antiantifa]

With a ridicilous 6-1 ratio of men to females on Tinder in Northern Europe and the fact that most of those females aren't even serious or gay, where the fuck do most women even look for men? Obviously clubs/bars are often populated with a fuck ton of thirsty females, but still, is there nothing casual?

I just decided to search up a local dating website, I made both profiles for men and women, here is what I found:

30 females in my region, most have butterfaces, about 1/2 of the female profiles didn't even have profile pictures or were obviously prostitutes.
150 men in my region, a lot of buff good looking chadlites.

 

[magnificentcel]

idk

 

[Blue]

That's what I was asking myself too. Apparently they expect you to be incredibly good looking as well as to actively pursue them IRL.

 

[antiantifa]

Most girls are looking to date other girls nowadays

But they won't prefer females over men.

 

[antiantifa]

That's what I was asking myself too. Apparently they expect you to be incredibly good looking as well as to actively pursue them IRL.

This isn't the discussion though, I don't care about details, I want to know WHERE.

 

[getra]

The mall, shopping centers, places with shitloads of young wealthy people

 

[antiantifa]

The mall, shopping centers, places with shitloads of young wealthy people

Bro Northern Europe doesn't have malls or shopping centers. We have fucking Lidls everywhere lmao.

 

[sensen]

Places you're too high inhib to go

 

[antiantifa]

Places you're too high inhib to go

Like what? Seriously.

JFL I am going to join a dance club if I have to.

 

[sensen]

Like what? Seriously.

JFL I am going to join a dance club if I have to.

Most meet men at their jobs. Clubs, bars/late night places are good for a fuck but little different for relationship. Plus all the women who go out at night to fuck are infertile and gross on the inside.

 

[Deleted member 9699]

instagram most likely and from work/school

 

[Blue]

This isn't the discussion though, I don't care about details, I want to know WHERE.

So do I lmao, was just pointing out obvious circumstances. My country is similar to nordic countries in that regard, very "introverted" culture and lack of public places for meeting new people. If I had to take a guess, most probably meet through their close-knitted social circle.

 

[Deleted member 12303]

nightclubs

 

[antiantifa]

Most meet men at their jobs. Clubs, bars/late night places are good for a fuck but little different for relationship. Plus all the women who go out at night to fuck are infertile and gross on the inside.

How so? Are you from northern Europe or not? Every single young females goes out here, it's extremely popular outside of coronavirus.
I've never seen stats showing most females meet men at work, not only that but most jobs are strongly gender-divided in northern Europe.

nightclubs

Outside of nightclubs?

So do I lmao, was just pointing out obvious circumstances. My country is similar to nordic countries in that regard, very "introverted" culture and lack of public places for meeting new people. If I had to take a guess, most probably meet through their close-knitted social circle.

That sucks, all my social circles have always been men dominated unless we went clubbing. Europe is very club-oriented tbh for meeting women, especially Eastern and Northern Europe.

 

[antiantifa]

instagram most likely and from work/school

Instagram? How do you just chat up a random foid and be like hey cutie or some shit? Either way my Instagram is lame as fuck

 

[Deleted member 12303]

How so? Are you from northern Europe or not? Every single young females goes out here, it's extremely popular outside of coronavirus.
I've never seen stats showing most females meet men at work, not only that but most jobs are strongly gender-divided in northern Europe.


Outside of nightclubs?


That sucks, all my social circles have always been men dominated unless we went clubbing. Europe is very club-oriented tbh for meeting women, especially Eastern and Northern Europe.

I guess the workplace and school is the best place

 

[antiantifa]

I guess the workplace and school is the best place

Fuck I am in all men school and I don't have work, borrowing money as student.

I actually scouted some local foid forums, they all say:

Going out(clubs/bars), Festivals, Excursions, Schools, Social events(birthdays/parties), Outside activities(Kickboxing/Dancing, etc...)

Very few mentions for online dating xd.

 

[sensen]

How so? Are you from northern Europe or not? Every single young females goes out here, it's extremely popular outside of coronavirus.
I've never seen stats showing most females meet men at work, not only that but most jobs are strongly gender-divided in northern Europe.

No, US so it makes sense why you say this. I've noticed the clubbing scene is much more vibrant and taken more serious in Northern Europe than basically anywhere else. I still think meeting women at jobs is still a thing, as long as you can find a job that mixes the genders a lot, it would be a cakewalk if you have social skills and decent looks.
I don't like clubbing that much so that would fucking suck. Maybe you could try bars instead. Slower pace.

 

[Deleted member 5969]

Social circle

 

[Deleted member 12303]

Fuck I am in all men school and I don't have work, borrowing money as student.

I actually scouted some local foid forums, they all say:

Going out(clubs/bars), Festivals, Excursions, Schools, Social events(birthdays/parties), Outside activities(Kickboxing/Dancing, etc...)

Very few mentions for online dating xd.

If your attractive and around foids they will likely try to socialize with you

 

[RecessedCel5]

With a ridicilous 6-1 ratio of men to females on Tinder in Northern Europe and the fact that most of those females aren't even serious or gay, where the fuck do most women even look for men? Obviously clubs/bars are often populated with a fuck ton of thirsty females, but still, is there nothing casual?

I just decided to search up a local dating website, I made both profiles for men and women, here is what I found:

30 females in my region, most have butterfaces, about 1/2 of the female profiles didn't even have profile pictures or were obviously prostitutes.
150 men in my region, a lot of buff good looking chadlites.

whats your criteria for rating these "butterfaces" and "chadlites"

 

[antiantifa]

whats your criteria for rating these "butterfaces" and "chadlites"

I can post some pictures of the foids:

Only found one cute girl out of 30:

Obvious whore:

 

[antiantifa]

whats your criteria for rating these "butterfaces" and "chadlites"

Here are pictures of the HTN/chadlites, same age bracket and same area:

The rest all look very averagish(3-4 PSL):

About 40% of men are butterfaces in general.

 

[RecessedCel5]

I can post some pictures of the foids:

Only found one cute girl out of 30:

Obvious whore:

over

 

[antiantifa]

No, US so it makes sense why you say this. I've noticed the clubbing scene is much more vibrant and taken more serious in Northern Europe than basically anywhere else. I still think meeting women at jobs is still a thing, as long as you can find a job that mixes the genders a lot, it would be a cakewalk if you have social skills and decent looks.
I don't like clubbing that much so that would fucking suck. Maybe you could try bars instead. Slower pace.

Coronavirus, bro.

If your attractive and around foids they will likely try to socialize with you

True, non-NT though.

 

[sensen]

Coronavirus, bro.


True, non-NT though.

In a couple months, corona shouldn't even be a thing man.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

Coronavirus, bro.


True, non-NT though.

Being non-NT doesn't stop women from finding you attractive and wanting to make conversation with you

 

[turkproducer]

In a couple months, corona shouldn't even be a thing man.

That’s if everyone agrees to take the vaccine, if not shits gonna be locked down lol

 

[Deleted member 11748]

my simp "friend" instragram maxed and uses his "chatting" skills to "pick up" girls.

He's rich btw

 

[sensen]

That’s if everyone agrees to take the vaccine, if not shits gonna be locked down lol

naaah, the new leader of the free world was elected, they're trying to lower numbers now. They turned the faucet off.

 

[Blue]

Being non-NT doesn't stop women from finding you attractive and wanting to make conversation with you

I've already told multiple guys, most people here aren't autistic and "non-Nt", they are literally NT per definition. Non-NT is a massive meme, it can be put in the same bracket as "just be confident bro", meaning that it's your social skills hindering you from succeeding with women and not your looks.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

I've already told multiple guys, most people here aren't autistic and "non-Nt", they are literally NT per definition. Non-NT is a massive meme, it can be put in the same bracket as "just be confident bro", meaning that it's your social skills hindering you from succeeding with women and not your looks.

I understand what you mean to be fair, however there are cases where you can be non-NT by definition and still find success. However that definition is definitely a lot more helpful

 

[antiantifa]

Being non-NT doesn't stop women from finding you attractive and wanting to make conversation with you

I never said they don't, they often do, but I just can't mentally sexually advance, do you understand? All of my gfs except one all hit one me first and made it very obvious.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

I never said they don't, they often do, but I just can't mentally sexually advance, do you understand? All of my gfs except one all hit one me first and made it very obvious.

I swear despite me being aspie it just is a case of is she flirting, and does she mind you touching her and getting more extreme each time.

What actually stops you from advancing though?

 

[antiantifa]

I've already told multiple guys, most people here aren't autistic and "non-Nt", they are literally NT per definition. Non-NT is a massive meme, it can be put in the same bracket as "just be confident bro", meaning that it's your social skills hindering you from succeeding with women and not your looks.

I understand what you mean to be fair, however there are cases where you can be non-NT by definition and still find success. However that definition is definitely a lot more helpful

I agree, I just use the NT term because it's so widely used. I am very confident, but I just mentally can't sexually advance on women, it's impossible for me. I know it sounds cope/dumb as fuck, but it's true. I'll talk to them, we'll have great conversations, but I am never able to "hit" on them like ask them on a date or ask their number.

I swear despite me being aspie it just is a case of is she flirting, and does she mind you touching her and getting more extreme each time.

What actually stops you from advancing though?

Mental inhibition. Often a female will touch me and I won't touch her back at all. My best form of sexual advancement is shoving food into a foid's mouth, lol.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

I agree, I just use the NT term because it's so widely used. I am very confident, but I just mentally can't sexually advance on women, it's impossible for me. I know it sounds cope/dumb as fuck, but it's true. I'll talk to them, we'll have great conversations, but I am never able to "hit" on them like ask them on a date or ask their number.


Mental inhibition. Often a female will touch me and I won't touch her back at all. My best form of sexual advancement is shoving food into a foid's mouth, lol.

You obviously aren't that confident if you are too high inhibition to reciprocate touch, the issue you mainly sound worried about is rejection despite clear signs of interest jfc.

Well nothing bad will happen if you do go into touch them, assuming you don't straight up go for their tits failed advances can't lead to anything bad happening to you.

 

[antiantifa]

You obviously aren't that confident if you are too high inhibition to reciprocate touch, the issue you mainly sound worried about is rejection despite clear signs of interest jfc.

Well nothing bad will happen if you do go into touch them, assuming you don't straight up go for their tits failed advances can't lead to anything bad happening to you.

I know this sounds like cope, but my biggest issue is other people, I can flirt with a girl really well if we're a lone and be very intimate.

But in a social setting like a party/club, I just can't sexually advance, it's not appropriate in the culture where I grew up(Arabic), so I have problems with this concept.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

I know this sounds like cope, but my biggest issue is other people, I can flirt with a girl really well if we're a lone and be very intimate.

But in a social setting like a party/club, I just can't sexually advance, it's not appropriate in the culture where I grew up(Arabic), so I have problems with this concept.

So why are you trying to become something you are not? is there really an issue with only advancing with someone you are with long term?

 

[Deleted member 7044]

people here are introverted as fuck so they only meet people within their social circle and expand through existing friends

 

[antiantifa]

So why are you trying to become something you are not? is there really an issue with only advancing with someone you are with long term?

Because I live in a culture centered on fast paced sexual advancing? The girl touching me/flirting with me wants sexual tension in the moment, not a dude awkwardly asking for a date set a week later.

 

[antiantifa]

So why are you trying to become something you are not? is there really an issue with only advancing with someone you are with long term?

And to add, if I don't sexually advance on a female, I am sure they see it as an insult or some shit if they made it obvious they like you. As much as they cry that men only want one thing, they want men to want them sexually, if they needed a "friend" they'd just get a girlfriend.

 

[Blue]

I agree, I just use the NT term because it's so widely used. I am very confident, but I just mentally can't sexually advance on women, it's impossible for me. I know it sounds cope/dumb as fuck, but it's true. I'll talk to them, we'll have great conversations, but I am never able to "hit" on them like ask them on a date or ask their number.

So you're decent looking and get multiple shots with females?

 

[antiantifa]

So you're decent looking and get multiple shots with females?

I mean I consider my face averageish, but if you look at my rate my body thread, you can see I am lean, have some abs, have wide frame and have good height.

I do get many shots with females when I am in clubs/parties, I don't get any matches online though.

But it's just simple competition, in most clubs/parties I am simply one of the tallest and perhaps one of the most muscular men.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

Because I live in a culture centered on fast paced sexual advancing? The girl touching me/flirting with me wants sexual tension in the moment, not a dude awkwardly asking for a date set a week later.

You realise if she is sexually attracted to you as long as you continue flirting with her she isn't just going to lose that if you ask her on a date without fucking her. You all seem to forget how much looks can matter if you are interested and she is interested she won't just forget it

And to add, if I don't sexually advance on a female, I am sure they see it as an insult or some shit if they made it obvious they like you. As much as they cry that men only want one thing, they want men to want them sexually, if they needed a "friend" they'd just get a girlfriend.

Well let her be insulted it isn't your place to care though if that isn't what you want

 

[antiantifa]

You realise if she is sexually attracted to you as long as you continue flirting with her she isn't just going to lose that if you ask her on a date without fucking her. You all seem to forget how much looks can matter if you are interested and she is interested she won't just forget it

Well let her be insulted it isn't your place to care though if that isn't what you want

Yeah, I am just extremely high inhib bro. Some men just slide over, put their arms around women and chat with them. I could never do that, lol. I had a really gl tall girl(about 6'0) buy me drinks and flirt with me all night, I kept talking to her and dancing with her, after 4 hours of that she got tired of me not advancing and just just went home very irritated.

 

[antiantifa]

You realise if she is sexually attracted to you as long as you continue flirting with her she isn't just going to lose that if you ask her on a date without fucking her. You all seem to forget how much looks can matter if you are interested and she is interested she won't just forget it

Well let her be insulted it isn't your place to care though if that isn't what you want

U think one can hypnotize himself to be low inhib? I also micro-dose LSD and it helps a lot

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

U think one can hypnotize himself to be low inhib? I also micro-dose LSD and it helps a lot

Only healthy advice I can give is get over yourself lmao get a counsellor.

or just don’t persue casual sex ez

 

[antiantifa]

Only healthy advice I can give is get over yourself lmao get a counsellor.

or just don’t persue casual sex ez

it's spelled pursue, bro.

and fuck that shit I don't trust jew doctors.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

it's spelled pursue, bro.

and fuck that shit I don't trust jew doctors.

Huge IQ gonna pretend like I wasn’t typing it with my left hand whilst cooking.

I mean not really if they don’t prescribe you anything and help you get over being a pussy

 

[antiantifa]

Huge IQ gonna pretend like I wasn’t typing it with my left hand whilst cooking.

I mean not really if they don’t prescribe you anything and help you get over being a pussy

Bro what am I going to tell the psychologist? Hello, doc, I am low inhib with females, fix me?

What is this, a cartoon world? Some movie? You can't just decide to get therapy and get it, the psychologist must deem it reasonable, only then will my insurance pay for it.