Where does one meet Girls offline these days?

[marcushellberstrom88]

Seriously, I think this is the biggest white elephant. If it wasn't for online dating, there would be more motivation for both sexes to meet organically?
Can anyone list legit groups, activities where meeting single girls is a viable option?

If meetup? Which groups?

What activities?

 

[gymislife]

be chad and leave house

 

[alligatordude]

friend groups
Friend groups
Friend groups

 

[TommyElevenToes]

Try your local rec center for sports

 

[mortis]

be chad and stay inside. girls will break into your house

 

[alligatordude]

be chad and stay inside. girls will brake into your house

break*

 

[Deleted member 9090]

friend groups
Friend groups
Friend groups

where tf do these friend groups exist. and how do you even develop a relationship beyond friendship there?

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Supposedly church.
Anecdotally went to a church one day a few months ago. And surprisingly there has been mostly females and some in their 20s too. Very few males and mostly older guys, too.
Idk how to "meet" them. Still have to be chad, to start anything, otherwise you're just a creep, so.
Edit I should apply this to myself probably, actually, but I'm really not a religious person. If anything I ideologically hate christianity, even though I have nothing against religions themselves.
I'm agnostictheist, I suppose.

 

[alligatordude]

where tf do these friend groups exist. and how do you even develop a relationship beyond friendship there?

u enter friend groups thru guys friends and if ur good looking the girls in those friend groups will want to do stuff with you

perhaps re join up with old friends from middle or high school

 

[Deleted member 9090]

u enter friend groups thru guys friends and if ur good looking the girls in those friend groups will want to do stuff with you

perhaps re join up with old friends from middle or high school

my friends are incel

 

[Deleted member 9090]

u enter friend groups thru guys friends and if ur good looking the girls in those friend groups will want to do stuff with you

perhaps re join up with old friends from middle or high school

are you in such a friend group? ngl ive never heard of anything like that. most friend groups i know are exclusively male/female and the guys and girls meet on partys or through college/uni

 

[Deleted member 9090]

Supposedly church.
Anecdotally went to a church one day a few months ago. And surprisingly there has been mostly females and some in their 20s too. Very few males and mostly older guys, too.
Idk how to "meet" them. Still have to be chad, to start anything, otherwise you're just a creep, so.

honestly church is the safest way to go nowadays

 

[Germania]

Supposedly church.
Anecdotally went to a church one day a few months ago. And surprisingly there has been mostly females and some in their 20s too. Very few males and mostly older guys, too.
Idk how to "meet" them. Still have to be chad, to start anything, otherwise you're just a creep, so.

Which country?

 

[Deleted member 9090]

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[alligatordude]

are you in such a friend group? ngl ive never heard of anything like that. most friend groups i know are exclusively male/female and the guys and girls meet on partys or through college/uni

Yeah I’ve been exposed to such friend groups before

 

[manletofpeace81]

school/bar/mutual friends/slide in dm if youre chad

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Which country?

Where people are tall, blonde and their eyes are blue.

 

[sytyl]

socially affluent male/female friends, ideally during school... meeting people outside of school is virtually impossible

 

[Deleted member 10449]

Salsa bachata parties

So many foids there, really even if you are just a normie you should be able to get 1 number every 1 or 2 parties you go

 

[quakociaptockh]

Salsa bachata parties

So many foids there, really even if you are just a normie you should be able to get 1 number every 1 or 2 parties you go

Are there any countries left where this is allowed?

What continent are you from?

 

[Deleted member 10449]

Are there any countries left where this is allowed?

What continent are you from?

Right now this very moment I am not sure, but here in NL dance classes are still allowed, and this is also very good place to meet foids

In Greece they still had parties until like 2 weeks ago, rn it is total lockdown though

 

[Deleted member 10177]

be chad and leave house

mirin/crying at your sig

 

[quakociaptockh]

Right now this very moment I am not sure, but here in NL dance classes are still allowed, and this is also very good place to meet foids

What does it take to get from UK to NL? Do you need to self-quarantine or certificate of vaccination? Does Airbnb work?

Do people speak English there?

In Greece they still had parties until like 2 weeks ago, rn it is total lockdown though

UK had a lockdown for a while. Then they ended a lockdown, but dancing was explicitly prohibited. Then they changed rules so in general you could only meet in groups of 6 people.
So dancing classes restarted and people were divided into groups of 6 (3m + 3f).
Then they introduced the second lockdown.

I'm seriously thinking that they're after dancing in general. They want to ban dancing. They want to prohibit fun. They still want us go to work, but they want to take all life pleasures from us.

 

[Deleted member 10449]

What does it take to get from UK to NL? Do you need to self-quarantine or certificate of vaccination? Does Airbnb work?

Do people speak English there?



UK had a lockdown for a while. Then they ended a lockdown, but dancing was explicitly prohibited. Then they changed rules so in general you could only meet in groups of 6 people.
So dancing classes restarted and people were divided into groups of 6 (3m + 3f).
Then they introduced the second lockdown.

I'm seriously thinking that they're after dancing in general. They want to ban dancing. They want to prohibit fun. They still want us go to work, but they want to take all life pleasures from us.

I d presume you need to self quarantine for like 2 weeks, for sure there is airbnb but now that UK exited EU I don't know how it works coming here. But till 2 months ago we had dance classes where we would switch partners throughout the class, and thrice per week there were socials where you could dance with anyone who was there

There are classes now, no parties and no partner switching during dancing, but you can still approach foids when not on the dance floor and chat

 

[Chico Chicowski]

throw a party, imagine in 2020 asking the same boring question, most non-creative ppl will say: tinder, meetups,volunteer -
if everybody can do it its worthless, u need to be creative

 

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[mewcoper]

join clubs, courses, events espeacially female dominant ones it's better than cold approaching in bar like autist

 

[Deleted member 10536]

This is exactly what it feels to me too, from irl interactions. It's non-nt to try to approach girls and interact with them and this is exactly the chart that represents my felt experience.
Idk if it's real or not...

 

[chance]

Ted Kaczynski was right.

 

[randomvanish]

at church

 

[Deleted member 7785]

Ted Kaczynski was right.

fuck kaczynski

 

[chance]

fuck kaczynski
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who even is this fat faggot? you got it wrong boyo

 

[FuckMyLife]

Bars, clubs, some hobby groups etc
See below for the best advice you can get































Be good looking for this shit to work

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

This is exactly what it feels to me too, from irl interactions. It's non-nt to try to approach girls and interact with them and this is exactly the chart that represents my felt experience.
Idk if it's real or not...

We're fucked. It's over for us.

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

Bars, clubs, some hobby groups etc

Be good looking for this shit to work

Looks threshold is lower offline than online. I'm tired... oh so tired.

 

[FuckMyLife]

Looks threshold is lower offline than online. I'm tired... oh so tired.

Tbh this. Doesn't matter though if you look like shit, you still won't get anything except disgusted looks from women. Talking from experience

 

[HellenicChad]

If you don't have friends best choice is hobbies/events or on the street and supermarkets/malls. Bars, cafes and the like are very difficult and require balls of steel and uber-high energy.

 

[Deleted member 9699]

abortion clinic

 

[MentalistKebab]

Leaching off from my sisters social circle

 

[Bert7]

Go explore your town/city and especially walking trails and hiking spots. I started hiking alone this passed summer and encounter girls all the time. Easy to spark up conversations outside as well. Non-formal environment.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Go explore your town/city and especially walking trails and hiking spots. I started hiking alone this passed summer and encounter girls all the time. Easy to spark up conversations outside as well. Non-formal environment.

Have you really?
They start to legit RUNNING away here.
It's so dangerous for them and they're so afraid...

 

[ChangeOfHeart]

I ascended through friend groups, but meeting girls offline is fucking cope now. If you were a basement dwelling faggot, you are fucked until Covid is over.

 

[Bert7]

Have you really?
They start to legit RUNNING away here.
It's so dangerous for them and they're so afraid...

that's crazy man. That doesn't mean it will always be like that, and also it could be a small sample size. In your own words, how far along your ascension process are you? Dressing well, physique down? Confidence and social skills, where would you rank them?

 

[Deleted member 10536]

that's crazy man. That doesn't mean it will always be like that, and also it could be a small sample size. In your own words, how far along your ascension process are you? Dressing well, physique down? Confidence and social skills, where would you rank them?

Very very far. I'm just not gymmaxxed/surgerymaxxed, in a way... Jfl.
Sure I still do need to do minor things, like eye lashes, eye brows, better style for hair, but small things imo.
Confidence ok. I can speak to girls np, social skills aren't great. Hard to improve, as talking with myself doesn't help, but they're not disaster...
Went from 0-2 tinder matches to, tbh actually 40matches + some likes.

 

[Bert7]

Very very far. I'm just not gymmaxxed/surgerymaxxed, in a way... Jfl.
Sure I still do need to do minor things, like eye lashes, eye brows, better style for hair, but small things imo.
Confidence ok. I can speak to girls np, social skills aren't great. Hard to improve, as talking with myself doesn't help, but they're not disaster...
Went from 0-2 tinder matches to, tbh actually 40matches + some likes.

Sounds like you're on the right track then buddy. I wouldn't overthink a couple broads running away.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Sounds like you're on the right track then buddy. I wouldn't overthink a couple broads running away.

I went on 3 dates by now. All girls said they liked me and would like to meet again. And none did
I'll just die a virgin

 

[Bert7]

I went on 3 dates by now. All girls said they liked me and would like to meet again. And none did
I'll just die a virgin

Sounds like experience. Losing is part of the game. In every field of life you will lose, so fall in love with it and enjoy the process. It's about stacking small victories that compound over time. Brother I have been rejected and dropped so many times. I can remember only a handful of them. They all fade away with time so keep focusing on winning and moving towards your goal.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Sounds like experience. Losing is part of the game. In every field of life you will lose, so fall in love with it and enjoy the process. It's about stacking small victories that compound over time. Brother I have been rejected and dropped so many times. I can remember only a handful of them. They all fade away with time so keep focusing on winning and moving towards your goal.

I don't mind losing, whatever. The problem is that opportunities are so rare and few in between. So that sucks and also not enough time.
Too old by now, too.

 

[Bert7]

I don't mind losing, whatever. The problem is that opportunities are so rare and few in between. So that sucks and also not enough time.
Too old by now, too.

How old?

 

[Deleted member 10536]

How old?

Approaching wizardry
Will acquire all the spells and magic powers.