Where the Blackpill falls short

[Changmentum]

People keep referencing these TikTok comments as examples of women only wanting Chads. However, if you look at their profiles, most of their ex-boyfriends are hardly ever even HTN. Why is that? I think the Blackpill gets right that both men/females innately desire certain discernible features (for women it’s a sharp jawline, height, etc). All things equal, most human beings want to procreate with a Chad/Stacy. However, given humans non-monogamous nature, human beings often find multiple even many people attractive. It’s like me having sexual attraction to a model, but still wanting to date a MTB girl with a good personality. It’s like how most people feel about their own limitations. It’s like a short good-looking guy wishing to be tall, but nonetheless accepting his circumstances. Dating a Chad/Stacy in a would be like a cherry on top, but most people settle with MTNs/MTBs, often because of geographic proximity (lack of Chads/Stacys in an area and most people don’t like long-distance relationships) or a desire for companionship (both genders hate being lonely), or just inability to attract said Chads/Stacy. Of course this doesn’t mean looks don’t matter nor you should improve your looks; but proximity and a need for companionship are underrated aspects of attraction that can transcend the Blackpill at times.

I also think that when a women on TikTok says she wants Chads, while it may be true that it is her true desire, often times she just comments it for validation and attention. Remember, girls are the more attention-seeking gender. They also hide their feelings or motivations better than men, so you can’t trust their word at face value.

 

[BlendedBlade]

True but kinda water

 

[ForestRotter]

DNRD

 

[Changmentum]

True but kinda water

Eh, a good portion of people in the looksmaxxing/incelsphere have a very black-and-white way of thinking about lookism.

 

[BlendedBlade]

Eh, a good portion of people in the looksmaxxing/incelsphere have a very black-and-white way of thinking about lookism.

They’re low IQ then

Being tall HTN with NT is literally insane SMV compared to being autistic CL

 

[bruhtoobrutal]

dnr

 

[e.skimo]

inb4 all the greys spam "dnr"- oh nvm

 

[fashioncel]

All you're saying is women Want Chad but they also settle for a htn In most cases, That doesn't make the blackpill fall short, Doesn't that make it more right because women Want Chad, but they might settle down for a Beta buxxer but Women will never love the Beta buxxer, They'll never moan when the Beta buxxer Has sex with them, They don't even want to see his face or body, same with a htn tbh.

 

[True truecel]

bruh this isnt even redpill its just locationpill

 

[BlendedBlade]

All you're saying is women Want Chad but they also settle for a htn In most cases, That doesn't make the blackpill fall short, Doesn't that make it more right because women Want Chad, but they might settle down for a Beta buxxer but Women will never love the Beta buxxer, They'll never moan when the Beta buxxer Has sex with them, They don't even want to see his face or body, same with a htn tbh.

Touch some grass nigga most women don’t even get HTNs

 

[Changmentum]

All you're saying is women Want Chad but they also settle for a htn In most cases, That doesn't make the blackpill fall short, Doesn't that make it more right because women Want Chad, but they might settle down for a Beta buxxer but Women will never love the Beta buxxer, They'll never moan when the Beta buxxer Has sex with them, They don't even want to see his face or body, same with a htn tbh.

I’m inclined to agree that a decent portion of men in relationships are cucked to some extent, but I’d have to do more research on divorce rates to come to a better conclusion. Also, women have types to some extent (unless they’re not too ugly), and I’m sure some do like their MTN boyfriends by mathematical probability.

 

[fashioncel]

Touch some grass nigga most women don’t even get HTNs

I live in a Desert filled country there's almost no grass here.

 

[fashioncel]

I’m inclined to agree that a decent portion of men in relationships are cucked to some extent, but I’d have to do more research on divorce rates to come to a better conclusion. Also, women have types to some extent (unless they’re not too ugly), and I’m sure some do like their MTN boyfriends by mathematical probability.

But they still will cuck him for Chad.

 

[BlendedBlade]

But they still will cuck him for Chad.

I think it depends on the woman

if she is a slut she will cuck you regardless

There are loyal ones but they’re becoming rare

 

[Changmentum]

But they still will cuck him for Chad.

Some do, but I try to avoid thinking in broad generalities without unsubstantiated data.

 

[fashioncel]

I think it depends on the woman

if she is a slut she will cuck you regardless

There are loyal ones but they’re becoming rare

There is no such thing as loyalty for men and women.

 

[imdelusional]

People keep referencing these TikTok comments as examples of women only wanting Chads. However, if you look at their profiles, most of their ex-boyfriends are hardly ever even HTN. Why is that? I think the Blackpill gets right that both men/females innately desire certain discernible features (for women it’s a sharp jawline, height, etc). All things equal, most human beings want to procreate with a Chad/Stacy. However, given humans non-monogamous nature, human beings often find multiple even many people attractive. It’s like me having sexual attraction to a model, but still wanting to date a MTB girl with a good personality. It’s like how most people feel about their own limitations. It’s like a short good-looking guy wishing to be tall, but nonetheless accepting his circumstances. Dating a Chad/Stacy in a would be like a cherry on top, but most people settle with MTNs/MTBs, often because of geographic proximity (lack of Chads/Stacys in an area and most people don’t like long-distance relationships) or a desire for companionship (both genders hate being lonely), or just inability to attract said Chads/Stacy. Of course this doesn’t mean looks don’t matter nor you should improve your looks; but proximity and a need for companionship are underrated aspects of attraction that can transcend the Blackpill at times.

I also think that when a women on TikTok says she wants Chads, while it may be true that it is her true desire, often times she just comments it for validation and attention. Remember, girls are the more attention-seeking gender. They also hide their feelings or motivations better than men, so you can’t trust their word at face value.

I agree with you but also keep in mind, this is not about PSL, this is about SMV, and the average MTB nowadays has more SMV than a leanmaxxed, tall chad.
You yourself said in your post "but most people settle with MTN's/MTB's", yeah, because most people fall under the PSL 4 tier, so, as you may realise, a MTB can't get anything past chadlite and a MTN can't even get a HTB jfl
What the blackpill discusses is the female innate desire: THey will say that looks dont matter and they will be with a MTN, but the moment chad shows up they would beg for a sniff of his cock.
This scenario will never happen because of 1) Chads are rare, 2)Chads don't approach MTB's

You can't escape the blackpill.

 

[mrdouchebag]

Water is wet.
Sky is blue.
Roses are red.
Violets are blue.
No shit sherlock nigga.

The average woman has significantly more and significantly better casual sex/short term options than the average man, but when it comes to serious relationships, the average woman has more or less the same options as the average man. The people at the middle of the desirability totem pole don't have the first pick, the people at the top of the totem pole have the first pick. Whether women consider 80% of men below average is irrelevant in long term relationships. The ratio is 1:1 and people generally stick with one other person. The 50th percentile woman will end up with a man around the 50th percentile of attractiveness, not someone in the 70th or 95th percentile, because all those men are getting locked down by women in the 70th or 95th percentile of female attractiveness. And no matter what women claim to sound like tough feminists, something is better than nothing. Most women still want husband and kids. Being alone and childless or a single mom making average wage hustling all day is not preferable to any sane and reasonable woman.