
Changmentum
We will all make it
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People keep referencing these TikTok comments as examples of women only wanting Chads. However, if you look at their profiles, most of their ex-boyfriends are hardly ever even HTN. Why is that? I think the Blackpill gets right that both men/females innately desire certain discernible features (for women it’s a sharp jawline, height, etc). All things equal, most human beings want to procreate with a Chad/Stacy. However, given humans non-monogamous nature, human beings often find multiple even many people attractive. It’s like me having sexual attraction to a model, but still wanting to date a MTB girl with a good personality. It’s like how most people feel about their own limitations. It’s like a short good-looking guy wishing to be tall, but nonetheless accepting his circumstances. Dating a Chad/Stacy in a would be like a cherry on top, but most people settle with MTNs/MTBs, often because of geographic proximity (lack of Chads/Stacys in an area and most people don’t like long-distance relationships) or a desire for companionship (both genders hate being lonely), or just inability to attract said Chads/Stacy. Of course this doesn’t mean looks don’t matter nor you should improve your looks; but proximity and a need for companionship are underrated aspects of attraction that can transcend the Blackpill at times.
I also think that when a women on TikTok says she wants Chads, while it may be true that it is her true desire, often times she just comments it for validation and attention. Remember, girls are the more attention-seeking gender. They also hide their feelings or motivations better than men, so you can’t trust their word at face value.
I also think that when a women on TikTok says she wants Chads, while it may be true that it is her true desire, often times she just comments it for validation and attention. Remember, girls are the more attention-seeking gender. They also hide their feelings or motivations better than men, so you can’t trust their word at face value.
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