Which one is more important to mantain a long term relashionship (being a man) IQ or Looks?

[lent vent]

From my experience and beliefs, looks are more important to attract a women to you, but after you are with her for a time, what will make the girl decide if she's going to stay and devote herself to you is you intelligence ( IQ plays a big role) and overall capacity to solve problems or be good at something.

What do you guys think?
Do you believe that an attractive women would devote herself to a man which only quality is his looks?
I don't believe that any girl would be happy with a stupid guy, or at least a guy dumber than her

 

[lent vent]

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[ghoulmania]

both would matter for 2 reasons and different stages in the relationship but here's the ranking;-
1- Looks (your girl won't stay if you don't look good)
2- IQ and this is for when you acc have kids, and start a family being a low IQ dude would fuck u over in every aspect of life and enslave you and your children

 

[lent vent]

both would matter for 2 reasons and different stages in the relationship but here's the ranking;-
1- Looks (your girl won't stay if you don't look good)
2- IQ and this is for when you acc have kids, and start a family being a low IQ dude would fuck u over in every aspect of life and enslave you and your children

I agree, but I mean, every attractive girl I know sees intelligence as an attractive trait in a man.
I've been with a girl who said that she felt confortable with me because I was intelligent.
I think IQ starts to matter after 2-3 months of close relashionship

 

[lent vent]

both would matter for 2 reasons and different stages in the relationship but here's the ranking;-
1- Looks (your girl won't stay if you don't look good)
2- IQ and this is for when you acc have kids, and start a family being a low IQ dude would fuck u over in every aspect of life and enslave you and your children

What do you think?

I agree, but I mean, every attractive girl I know sees intelligence as an attractive trait in a man.
I've been with a girl who said that she felt confortable with me because I was intelligent.
I think IQ starts to matter after 2-3 months of close relashionship

 

[ghoulmania]

I agree, but I mean, every attractive girl I know sees intelligence as an attractive trait in a man.
I've been with a girl who said that she felt confortable with me because I was intelligent.
I think IQ starts to matter after 2-3 months of close relashionship

yeah also having high IQ will make people admire you more

 

[lent vent]

yeah also having high IQ will make people admire you more

Highly agree, women hipergamy go to every aspect of a guy, so they will look for a more intelligent man

 

[ghoulmania]

Highly agree, women hipergamy go to every aspect of a guy, so they will look for a more intelligent man

Looks is the key to being noticed by women in a sense not the sole driver of a relationship maybe goes from 100% to 60% in serious relations

 

[Gen1leman]

Simple- looks attracts personality keeps

 

[lent vent]

Looks is the key to being noticed by women in a sense not the sole driver of a relationship maybe goes from 100% to 60% in serious relations

I believe that in some cases, fame, status, money and intelligence can put up with looks.
Ofc that depends of the level on both.
My neighbor is married with a genuinely Stacy, and hes mtn and bald. They have 5 children, and she is loyal to him, even with his lack of looks.
But hes a very successful doctor, intelligent as fuck.

 

[killuacel]

looks

 

[lent vent]

Simple- looks attracts personality keeps

Agree, but don't you think that personality may play a huge factor in attraction also? Because if looks were the only attraction factor, 95% of guys would be doomed

 

[lent vent]

Agree, but don't you think that personality may play a huge factor in attraction also? Because if looks were the only attraction factor, 95% of guys would be doomed

And im sure you know not very attractive guys who have beautiful girlfriends

 

[Peubert]

IQ and this is for when you acc have kids, and start a family being a low IQ dude would fuck u over in every aspect of life and enslave you and your children

wrong, looks would carry even in a family, cuz u could be a horrible father/husband and ur wife would still stay with u cuz of halo effect

hell, u could abuse ur kids and wife and they would still "unconditionally" like u

 

[lent vent]

wrong, looks would carry even in a family, cuz u could be a horrible father/husband and ur wife would still stay with u cuz of halo effect

hell, u could abuse ur kids and wife and they would still "unconditionally" like u

But that would happen if the looks level was highly different between the man and women.
A very successful or famous guy would get away with that too

 

[ghoulmania]

wrong, looks would carry even in a family, cuz u could be a horrible father/husband and ur wife would still stay with u cuz of halo effect

hell, u could abuse ur kids and wife and they would still "unconditionally" like u

but in a family many factors come to play tbh like personality and financial shit while yeah we'd assume an attractive guy and chick would have a happy family we don't really know if they're abusive the kids obviously would rebel since that's our most natural state we don't care about authority

 

[lent vent]

but in a family many factors come to play tbh like personality and financial shit while yeah we'd assume an attractive guy and chick would have a happy family we don't really know if they're abusive the kids obviously would rebel since that's our most natural state we don't care about authority

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