Whitepill me on why getting children is not inherently negative

[lilxder2]

i think its bad, you just force suffering on another being just for a couple years where you can have fulfillment of taking care of a child until they turn 10 and start hating you anyway
please give me a reason why its not -EV to get a child

 

[optimisticzoomer]

It is always negative
Most people are just simpletons and either a) are bored and think kids are a solution; b) are slaves to what society tells them to do; c) are retards who had an accidental fertilisation and then didn't do anything to terminate it