Who here has failed in life?

Also to @Insomnia bc we are from the same country

1. In my country, that equivalent is around $13-14k when you already have 5-10 years of experience and you work in a very good and big company (you're in like the top 10-15% of the country's population if you reach this income, most of them having around $6-8k per year)

You end up in a very good situation if you have a girlfriend who is at the same point as you, and you manage to have somewhere around $25k together per year

(But yeah, I'm over 25, and I still don't have this income unfortunately)

90%+ of the country's elderly population is poor or dependent, almost no one invests, most elderly people have a pension below average income

2. I haven't had a partner that long or any future prospects

(mostly because of point 1., but also the fact that my family is relatively poor, full of narcissists and autists, and this extends to the extended family members, where almost no one in it has managed to overcome their condition much, so everything I have and do I did relatively alone from 0, but I'm far from the luxury of having my own home, car etc. and other general conditions to facilitate an LTR at this point and prospects of marriage/children, so I prefer not to waste girls' time)


Stuck in dead end, replaceable jobs with no authority, no skills that took decades to build and no upward mobility left

3. That's like 85-90% of the population of my country (me being included, even though I have a university degree, a master's degree, and 3 years of experience at some of the largest multinationals in the country, things that 99% of people my age would dream of)

Everything is so expensive here that very few can afford the luxury of learning and shit and staying / keeping their white collar job which is relatively poorly paid in the first years but has more prospects for the future. So most prefer to work something physical & on shifts (so they can be replaced at any time), in order to manage to support a family with 1-2 children, and they will keep doing this their whole lives..
 
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Jfl nigga took a millenium to comprehend
 
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If you have to work a job you failed in life LOL
 
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@Acquiescence
 
You just described the average Muslim
The whole forum is south Asian Muslim so you're just normal.
IN AUS* TO BE PRECISE

U GET MORE ALCOHOL THAN WATER HERE

IN MY UNI MOST OF THE MUZZIES DO ATLEAST ONE OF THE ABOVE

AND NOT TO FORGET WHILE CLUBBING THEY OFTEN FORGET BOUT IT AND GET HIGH
 
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Also to @Insomnia bc we are from the same country

1. In my country, that equivalent is around $13-14k when you already have 5-10 years of experience and you work in a very good and big company (you're in like the top 10-15% of the country's population if you reach this income, most of them having around $6-8k per year)

You end up in a very good situation if you have a girlfriend who is at the same point as you, and you manage to have somewhere around $25k together per year

(But yeah, I'm over 25, and I still don't have this income unfortunately)

90%+ of the country's elderly population is poor or dependent, almost no one invests, most elderly people have a pension below average income

2. I haven't had a partner that long or any future prospects

(mostly because of point 1., but also the fact that my family is relatively poor, full of narcissists and autists, and this extends to the extended family members, where almost no one in it has managed to overcome their condition much, so everything I have and do I did relatively alone from 0, but I'm far from the luxury of having my own home, car etc. and other general conditions to facilitate an LTR at this point and prospects of marriage/children, so I prefer not to waste girls' time)



3. That's like 85-90% of the population of my country (me being included, even though I have a university degree, a master's degree, and 3 years of experience at some of the largest multinationals in the country, things that 99% of people my age would dream of)

Everything is so expensive here that very few can afford the luxury of learning and shit and staying / keeping their white collar job which is relatively poorly paid in the first years but has more prospects for the future. So most prefer to work something physical & on shifts (so they can be replaced at any time), in order to manage to support a family with 1-2 children, and they will keep doing this their whole lives..
TL;DR: Romania is a pretty poor country, filled with gypsies that negatively influenced the natives, and the women here are copy & paste whores with 0 personality.

There are a few cities that are actually worth living in, but that applies to pretty much every country.
 
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My criteria for someone to be considered as failure in life. If you are above 25 and have one or more of these checks off most people including friends, family, dating prospects, and society at large will quietly write you off as a failure. Like someone who didnโ€™t make.

1. Net worth below $50,000 or that equivalent amount in your country (and no realistic path to retirement)
Almost nothing saved or invested. Barely scraping by and just one disaster away from ending up on the streets. Will be poor or dependent in old age.

2. Never married or had a long-term partner (2+ years)/no kids etc
Zero family of your own. Not child-free by choice with a happy life just alone, and itโ€™s permanent now.

3. Career still low-status or low-income (under โ‰ˆ$45kโ€“50k/year)
Stuck in dead end, replaceable jobs with no authority, no skills that took decades to build and no upward mobility left. Also includes NEETs.

4. Still financially dependent or in precarious housing
Lives with parents, relies on government benefits as primary income, pays rent that eats 50%+ of paycheck or has been evicted/homeless in the last 10 years.

5. Serious, ongoing self-destruction habits and poor health. Like Active addiction to alcohol, drugs, gambling, untreated mental illness that keeps them dysfunctional or obesity/health neglect that has caused repeated hospitalizations.


I do believe that 25 age criteria isn't rigid and people can fully turn their lives around after that but more often than not they continue that trajectory and end up in the same situation as in their 40s anyway.

My post rep is my sole source of pride and accomplishment

I'm so horny to get to 30k posts ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฝ
 
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Ever since finding blackpill I gave up on everything else in life tbh. I do not see a point in trying to fit into a failing society and a life trajectory that is utterly depressing even for people that did everything right at all milestones in their life.

For general life, you can always turn things around and you should know that people recover from life scarring shit. The main limit in life is agepill, looks and the social life you get gakekept without them. You can go from meth to netflix type shit, but never from oldcel normie to young gl with access to teen pussy type shit is all I will say.
 
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My criteria for someone to be considered as failure in life. If you are above 25 and have one or more of these checks off most people including friends, family, dating prospects, and society at large will quietly write you off as a failure. Like someone who didnโ€™t make.

1. Net worth below $50,000 or that equivalent amount in your country (and no realistic path to retirement)
Almost nothing saved or invested. Barely scraping by and just one disaster away from ending up on the streets. Will be poor or dependent in old age.

2. Never married or had a long-term partner (2+ years)/no kids etc
Zero family of your own. Not child-free by choice with a happy life just alone, and itโ€™s permanent now.

3. Career still low-status or low-income (under โ‰ˆ$45kโ€“50k/year)
Stuck in dead end, replaceable jobs with no authority, no skills that took decades to build and no upward mobility left. Also includes NEETs.

4. Still financially dependent or in precarious housing
Lives with parents, relies on government benefits as primary income, pays rent that eats 50%+ of paycheck or has been evicted/homeless in the last 10 years.

5. Serious, ongoing self-destruction habits and poor health. Like Active addiction to alcohol, drugs, gambling, untreated mental illness that keeps them dysfunctional or obesity/health neglect that has caused repeated hospitalizations.


I do believe that 25 age criteria isn't rigid and people can fully turn their lives around after that but more often than not they continue that trajectory and end up in the same situation as in their 40s anyway.
I'll probably end up with the first one because I'm willing to spend a shit ton on surgeries before 25
Fuuuuuuuck
 
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More like who here hasn't failed at life? :feelsokman:
 
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Failed in life = unhappy
 
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Lives with parents,
I think this depends heavily on the relationship with the parents. They could be millionaires for example and have a great relationship with their son etc. I don't see anything wrong with this. It just depends on the individual situation.
 
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Literally all of them, never began for me

Except the child free thing, I dont want kids jfl
 
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Iโ€™m pretty sure Iโ€™ll hit half of these by 25 :feelsbadman: I guess they also depend on the country. Here in Romania itโ€™s normal for people to move out after 25, also the average annual income is around 12k โ‚ฌ. You would be filthy rich with 50k per year.
The main thing that sucks in the US is the culture of leaving once you are 18 or younger or you are a loser. Latin/romance influenced countries have stronger family bonds and you can invest money you save in the stock market insted of pouring it into rent.

//SubSigma
 
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My criteria for someone to be considered as failure in life. If you are above 25 and have one or more of these checks off most people including friends, family, dating prospects, and society at large will quietly write you off as a failure. Like someone who didnโ€™t make.

1. Net worth below $50,000 or that equivalent amount in your country (and no realistic path to retirement)
Almost nothing saved or invested. Barely scraping by and just one disaster away from ending up on the streets. Will be poor or dependent in old age.

2. Never married or had a long-term partner (2+ years)/no kids etc
Zero family of your own. Not child-free by choice with a happy life just alone, and itโ€™s permanent now.

3. Career still low-status or low-income (under โ‰ˆ$45kโ€“50k/year)
Stuck in dead end, replaceable jobs with no authority, no skills that took decades to build and no upward mobility left. Also includes NEETs.

4. Still financially dependent or in precarious housing
Lives with parents, relies on government benefits as primary income, pays rent that eats 50%+ of paycheck or has been evicted/homeless in the last 10 years.

5. Serious, ongoing self-destruction habits and poor health. Like Active addiction to alcohol, drugs, gambling, untreated mental illness that keeps them dysfunctional or obesity/health neglect that has caused repeated hospitalizations.


I do believe that 25 age criteria isn't rigid and people can fully turn their lives around after that but more often than not they continue that trajectory and end up in the same situation as in their 40s anyway.
Everything except 5 but I would include having no friends in the list. It's easy to check all of this when you're smart and have a good job.
 
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@taai @SecularIslamist @FaceandBBC
My biggest fail in life was not saying what I want/say no to people. I meet all of the other criteria though, maybe I fail 5 in a bad day
 
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I would say number 5 genuinely leads to or at least massively impacts the rest.

Mental illness, depression, procrastination is a major reason why most people would โ€œfailโ€.

Thats why, if you want to turn your life around, itโ€™s imperative you fix 5 ASAP
 
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I'm 34, never had a long-term partner, make less than 40k per year, would be homeless if it weren't for my wealthy parents
 
My criteria for someone to be considered as failure in life. If you are above 25 and have one or more of these checks off most people including friends, family, dating prospects, and society at large will quietly write you off as a failure. Like someone who didnโ€™t make.

1. Net worth below $50,000 or that equivalent amount in your country (and no realistic path to retirement)
Almost nothing saved or invested. Barely scraping by and just one disaster away from ending up on the streets. Will be poor or dependent in old age.

2. Never married or had a long-term partner (2+ years)/no kids etc
Zero family of your own. Not child-free by choice with a happy life just alone, and itโ€™s permanent now.

3. Career still low-status or low-income (under โ‰ˆ$45kโ€“50k/year)
Stuck in dead end, replaceable jobs with no authority, no skills that took decades to build and no upward mobility left. Also includes NEETs.

4. Still financially dependent or in precarious housing
Lives with parents, relies on government benefits as primary income, pays rent that eats 50%+ of paycheck or has been evicted/homeless in the last 10 years.

5. Serious, ongoing self-destruction habits and poor health. Like Active addiction to alcohol, drugs, gambling, untreated mental illness that keeps them dysfunctional or obesity/health neglect that has caused repeated hospitalizations.


I do believe that 25 age criteria isn't rigid and people can fully turn their lives around after that but more often than not they continue that trajectory and end up in the same situation as in their 40s anyway.
No.2 and No.5 for me.

No.5 has been getting worse since joining this forum. Not drugs but just things like gym, sleep pattern, productivity. In fact if I spent even 10% of my time here dedicated to no.2 maybe I wouldn't have any of these apply.
 
Probably me and 80% of users here
 
My criteria for someone to be considered as failure in life. If you are above 25 and have one or more of these checks off most people including friends, family, dating prospects, and society at large will quietly write you off as a failure. Like someone who didnโ€™t make.

1. Net worth below $50,000 or that equivalent amount in your country (and no realistic path to retirement)
Almost nothing saved or invested. Barely scraping by and just one disaster away from ending up on the streets. Will be poor or dependent in old age.

2. Never married or had a long-term partner (2+ years)/no kids etc
Zero family of your own. Not child-free by choice with a happy life just alone, and itโ€™s permanent now.

3. Career still low-status or low-income (under โ‰ˆ$45kโ€“50k/year)
Stuck in dead end, replaceable jobs with no authority, no skills that took decades to build and no upward mobility left. Also includes NEETs.

4. Still financially dependent or in precarious housing
Lives with parents, relies on government benefits as primary income, pays rent that eats 50%+ of paycheck or has been evicted/homeless in the last 10 years.

5. Serious, ongoing self-destruction habits and poor health. Like Active addiction to alcohol, drugs, gambling, untreated mental illness that keeps them dysfunctional or obesity/health neglect that has caused repeated hospitalizations.


I do believe that 25 age criteria isn't rigid and people can fully turn their lives around after that but more often than not they continue that trajectory and end up in the same situation as in their 40s anyway.
DNR but i have it worse than u
 

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